| MALES: Have YOU met anyone from HERE or ANY site??? Posted: 5/17/2005 7:19:13 PM | I'm on several of these 'sites' and so far (5 months) when it comes to ACTUALLY meeting the contact 'vanishes'! Some as soon as you offer to talk on the phone even if its their idea!! This online appears to be no better than walking into a strange bar...even with all the wants and wishes posted 'up front'! SOMEONE tell me where they have had success Ill go there...Thanks! | |
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Cess
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| MALES: Have YOU met anyone from HERE or ANY site??? Posted: 5/17/2005 7:33:05 PM | who are you asking doc? im here for the forums and getting to know all in here. no one is making anyone here look for a date or get hitched up. some people do enjoy chatting. MM | |
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| MALES: Have YOU met anyone from HERE or ANY site??? Posted: 5/17/2005 7:34:26 PM | You ask a good question, amigo.
Yes people meet on here, and on other dating sites.
BUT they dont meet someone who has an agenda, who is needy, a wussbag, a dirtball, a perv, or a philanderer.
Wanna hint? become a seducer. shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, dont tell. | |
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| MALES: Have YOU met anyone from HERE or ANY site??? Posted: 5/17/2005 7:35:25 PM | I met one from here...and a few from other sites...we dated...they were very nice men..with the exception of a couple...the one from here was extremely nice...the age factor came into play for me...I felt he was too young for me and perhaps someday he would feel as if I was holding him back in some areas of life...but he was a great guy. | |
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cazar
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| MALES: Have YOU met anyone from HERE or ANY site??? Posted: 5/17/2005 7:42:22 PM | I have met 2 people so far. One lied about every thing and I was dissapointed. The 2nd was very pretty full figured woman who answered my add. Knowing I was looking for more than just friends. She was very nice on the first date. We kissed she asked me for about 4 or 5 more. So I thought there was something there. On our 2nd date it was soso. She then sent me an e-mail saying I gave her compliments and it made her uncomfortable. But being very much attracted to her. i knew it would be very hard for me to do that. Then she gave me the just friendship speech. So I said I think we should go our separate ways, because she wouldn.t let me be myself. Her loss, because she's missing out on a great guy. | |
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| MALES: Have YOU met anyone from HERE or ANY site??? Posted: 5/17/2005 7:52:18 PM | | I've met three people from on-line. One was an insulting beatch with her own agenda. The seoncd one was really, really nice but no attraction. Third one has become one of the closest friends I have and nothing more. | |
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| MALES: Have YOU met anyone from HERE or ANY site??? Posted: 5/17/2005 8:03:11 PM | Dragon, do tell about how folks meet on the forums? I think lots of folks could benefit from how that happens.
Like, was it just on here or did it involve lots of emails and phone calls etc? | |
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| MALES: Have YOU met anyone from HERE or ANY site??? Posted: 5/17/2005 8:06:56 PM | | When I was on Match a couple of years ago, where there were about 10,000 female members active locally. Out of the 10,000, about 10 - 12 women wanted to meet me. The first seven or so I barely recognized from their pics. At that point, I decided I might as well meet women without pics since it really didn't wouldn't make much difference, anyway. Plus, it would eliminate their having to lie. But I found that these women didn't post their pics for sound reasons. Still, out of that batch of 12 ladies, one woman did look exactly like her picture when we met. She was a cutie but unfortunately, possilbly the most militant human being I've ever known. In fact, she had an email waiting before I could even get home after our very first meeting that said something like, "I have Tuesday from 7pm-8 open, Thursday, noon from 12 - 1. Please let me know something by tomorrow, as these slots will fill quickly." Something to that effect. Now, you're probably thinking that I ran as quickly as possibly. But, truthfully, I just felt so lucky to have met someone who didn't misrespresent themselves, that I actually tried to go along with her little tight controlling agenda. Needless to say, it just didn't work. So, I'm a little bit cynical about meeting off the Net. | |
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