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Posted: 11/6/2007 2:57:36 PM | After reading all the the threads on here regarding pictures of boobs, pictures of women in scanty clothes, pictures of women on their beds etc and the supposed character flaws of these women that many posters will postulate on and then I read the threads regarding strippers asking if men would date a stripper. I noticed a strange dynamic. Many men answered that they would date a stripper indicating that their job was in no way necessarily a reflection on their character, its a way to make money, Its just a job, its not who they are in real life etc; Yet many men will make some very damning judgements on a woman who has a picture on her profile that shows skin but has no problem dating a woman who strips down naked every day in front of total strangers for money. I find this very perplexing. Why is that?
Thsi thread isnt about the pictures themselves so I dont want to discuss that I want to talk about the guys that will call a women a tramp or skanky for having a quasi provacative picture on here but will make allowances for a stripper. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 3:01:42 PM | The men who B!tch about women's profile images are the same ones who judge women based on their occupation and will condemn a stripper. Anyone who condemns a woman for her profile images yet accepts a stripper's choice of employment is being a hypocrite.
So look at who's saying what and make your decisions on them based on their inability to be fair and forthright.
Also, look at my post in Ask A Girl about the Matt Dubay thing and you'll see. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 3:06:03 PM |
I find this very perplexing.
As do I.
As long as the pics conform to site rules,
post whatever makes you happy, and screw
whatever small minds may think about it.
would date a stripper
Not unless she bought me a new Harley,
then I'd at least think about it. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 3:08:30 PM | I'm too insecure to date a stripper but profile photos don't indicate anything other than an attempt to sell the goods. I read profiles and if she's showing the goodies and seeking discreet encounters with multiple partners, I know she's not the woman for me.
If she shows some cleavage and is seeking a long term relationship I take it at face value. After all, we males do what we can to sell ourselves too. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 3:12:50 PM | For what I am looking for in this stage in my life, I wouldn't date either. Both actions speak loud to me on their own self worth, their perception of their value and just flat out do not match what I want in a woman.
When I was in my 20's, I did date and befriend strippers as well as date and befriend women who send / post pics of themselves as you state above. That met my needs at that stage of my life and that was sex. PERIOD.
If you sell a product, you better expect buyers for that product. If sex is what you want then you do those behaviors, if you want to be respected and taken seriously you sell that product through your behaviors.
I guess from your post I am unusual in the fact I am pretty consistent in my thinking and behaviors? That is fine with me, I like being unusual.  | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 3:14:11 PM | ^^^^^^^^^ But arent you making a judgement about who they are and what they are looking for based on a picture?
@ Stranger I agree and you are right many men and women have pictures of their toys but there doesnt seem to be this moral outcry about it and quick rush to judgement about their character and the name calling that goes on about a women showing some cleavage. I am also confused by the idea that a woman who has a picture that shows some part of her upper torso is "asking" for ignorant and rude comments but we dont make the same nasty and viscous judgements about a man that has a picture of his boat on his profile...... | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 3:21:29 PM | everybody has their own opinion and mine is, those big fat boobs are ugly and they hang down to the belly button or you have to keep digging them out of their armpits.
they all could use some magor reductions.
the strangest thing is they will show those big boobs but they will not show their body, does that mean that they all fat, ya gotta remember that now days average is big, the only safe bet is go for thin.
and bad girls are nothing more than good girls having fun, bring them on.
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Posted: 11/6/2007 3:32:52 PM | well Nogo I guess you must sleep well at night knowing that you do not have to carry the burden of being a class act HMMMM? | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 3:44:46 PM | no ali, none of that stuff really bothers me, i just ignore it and don't see it. but sometimes i will make comments that i should not make.
that includes what i wrote above since i don't get involved i reall should keep my opinions to myself.
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Posted: 11/6/2007 3:52:23 PM | I do see one difference. The stripper isn't trying to pick up a date. She is trying to get your money. She is advertising her body because that is what her customers are interested in. She is not trying to get them interested in her mind.
Photos on this site are to advertise yourself for a date. If you want your date to be attracted to your body, there is no problem with revealing pics. If you want your date to be attracted to your mind, you should be advertising that instead.
This IS a fishing site. Whatever kind of bait you use helps determine what kind of fish you will catch.
Sex (revealing pics) as bait = people looking for sex
Money (cars, material item pics) as bait = people looking for money | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 4:38:43 PM | Thsi thread isnt about the pictures themselves so I dont want to discuss that I want to talk about the guys that will call a women a tramp or skanky for having a quasi provacative picture on here but will make allowances for a stripper. I think a lot of women would be happy to date someone who works in daycare for a living. But even more women would think a man who takes a baby to the park, only to pick up women, very, very creepy. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 4:47:03 PM | stripping is a job.....posting half nude pics on a website is a hobby.
i could see why a man would choose a stripper over a website chicky...
now if you had a chick who posed half nude in her personal life, and was a stripper - then i'd be worried.....lol... | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 4:47:35 PM | Hey ! I resemble that remark. Although i did not take a baby to the park to pick up women, i took my 3 year old god son there. And it was not creepy in the least. He wanted to play on the swings, etc. And he did need supervision. And i was looking for some female supervision as well.  | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 4:53:11 PM | I think with the exception of a very small number of confused hypocrites, the men who "make allowances for strippers" in that other thread are NOT the same men who reject women for having provocative photos on their profiles.
I didn't see the stripper thread, but I'd be VERY surprised if a man who posted there that he'd date a stripper would post in another thread scolding women for showing skin on their profile. | |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 6:10:45 PM | Boob shots, bed shots half naked etc etc to me make the woman look cheap.
The same goes for very short skirts, fishnet stockings etc. Its tarty.
If she is flashing it at everyone then coudl you ever expect he to be faithful ?
I think women who feel they have to flash their boobs think that is the best they can offer. | |
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