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Posted: 11/7/2007 7:18:22 AM | | hi i have been with this man for 7 years and he told me that he don't want to be with me no more but that he still want to live together for the kids he stays out all friday night but sunday thru thrus we are fine what am i suppose to do i love this man and i am not ready to let go i really don't think that it is fair for me to live with him and not be with him oh yeah and he is messing with lady who works at mu daughter school can someone please help me i am in need of some help from a mad black women | |
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| heartbroken
Posted: 9/21/2008 7:13:54 AM | | i'm sorry to tell you this but your relationship is over and he just wants to have his cake and eat it too. if you absolutely want him back you have to tell him that it's over and that he has to move out and if he uses the kids as an excuse tell him that nothing is going to keep him from seeing his kids if he wants to see them, and when he comes over to see them he has to take them with him because he will try to get you to give him some booty and whenever he calls you make an excuse not to talk to him "you are going out with your new man" or you are just too busy to talk and keep whatever talks you do have with him short dont give him any information if you want him back these are the things that you have to do you may get weak from time to time but you have to stay strong and he will use the kids as an excuse to stay in the house but you must tell him he has to go as long as he stays in that house he will do what he wants when he wants and leave you feeling stupid and hurt because you gave him your love and he goes out there and gives his lve to another woman you have to cut all emotional ties to this man because if you dont your life wont be worth living | |
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| heartbroken
Posted: 5/6/2009 2:34:41 AM | Heartbroken,
I employ you to reach out for any support organizations/ agents that are in your area. Emotionally this is not conducive to your mental and physical wellbeing nor that of your children. If you stay it makes a statement to your children that this is an acceptable way of being treated.
I ask you to consider on what bases or fear do you stay or do you thing that this is how you should be treated? I wish you well in your future with much love and healing JD | |
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