| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 10:31:33 AM | | I am dating someone who does not like to kiss. We have never spoken about it but it doesn't happen very often. Every once in awhile he will give me a lil kiss but not that passionate kiss that I want. We always end the night with a hug :( Is this something that I should just get over or is their a hidden reason behind the fact that we don't kiss?? We have been dating for 4 months...Any advise?? | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 10:33:30 AM | | Kissing is EXTREMELY important to me. I would ask him why he doesnt like to and communicate with him...after all a relationship cant work without communication. JMO | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 10:34:06 AM | Omg, kissing is one of THE most important things to me. It doesn't feel "right" if there isn't any kissing involved. I'm not sure that I could date a man or have something more with this man if he didn't like kissing. It would be one HUGE decision for me.
Definitely ask him why he doesn't like kissing. He's the only one that can give you your answer. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 11:03:39 AM | My boyfriend doesn't like kissing that much either. I'll get a peck after he drops me off and such but thats about it... its just him. Don't take it personal with your man.
Best of luck. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 11:24:15 AM | ^^^^^^^^^ Don't take it personal.....sorry geekgamergirl....I beg to differ.
Kissing is very important in an intimate relationship, where there is total commitment, especially passionate kissing..
I have been kissing girls/women passionately since I was sixteen.....I love doing it and others love receiving it, to me it's the pinnacle of intimacy..
When you share time alone, passionate kissing brings that special closeness that two lovers share...It is also an important part in lovemaking, if you are in the stage of your relationship.....foreplay, during and after play...
I don't think i could endure a relationship without kissing and lots of it.....it's a prerequesite of a relationship with me....but thats me.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 11:27:48 AM |
^^^^^^^^^ Don't take it personal.....sorry geekgamergirl....I beg to differ.
Kissing is very important in an intimate relationship, where there is total commitment, especially passionate kissing..
I have been kissing girls/women passionately since I was sixteen.....I love doing it and others love receiving it, to me it's the pinnacle of intimacy..
When you share time alone, passionate kissing brings that special closeness that two lovers share...It is also an important part in lovemaking, if you are in the stage of your relationship.....foreplay, during and after play...
I don't think i could endure a relationship without kissing and lots of it.....it's a prerequesite of a relationship with me....but thats me.
Kissing isn't important for everyone. I could careless about it. Sex is good enough for me. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 11:52:33 AM | | It's an essential part of a "relationship" for me. Now, if it's "just sex"--with no true "intimacy", then it's optional. However, I prefer kissing. Especially during sex. It enhances the experience. Then there is kissing without sex. That's wonderful as well...especially if the man is a great kisser and is unafraid to really get into it. To me it's more "telling" than just exchanging information verbally. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 12:10:27 PM | Kissing is extremely important!! When I was married, my (then) husband wouldn't go to the dentist, on occasion he would brush his teeth after I nagged at him. He started to chew tobacco at on point in our relationship and so I stopped kissing him. OP, I don't want you to think that I'm saying that your breath smells or your teeth are gross, just this has been my personal experience. That is the one thing that I miss the most is romantic, passionate, tongue tango kissing. You really need to talk to him about it, if it's important to you. Practice, Practice, it's all fun.  | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 12:46:10 PM | I would say it's highly important. Does a woman really want to be with a man that kisses like a dead fish? I think not.
Take your time with a kiss and do it well. You'll know if you get it right. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 1:45:54 PM | | I was married to a man for 17 years that didn't like to kiss. Never again!!!!!! I love to kiss. Without kissing, there is simply no passion, as far as I'm concerned. No intimacy. Don't think that you'll be able to change him. You won't. Kissing is something that a person either loves or hates. Period... | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 1:53:20 PM | | well i could have sex without the kissing and im sure ive had it but thats just sex. now to be intimate well they sure better place them lips on mine or somewhere is ok, how can one put emotion into it without that part shoot its like a cat bath for me lol. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 3:04:16 PM | too important to not have it. i think kissing is actually more intimate than the sex itself. I have hooked up with women where kissing wasn't much a part of it, and even as a one night stand, its not as fun, not as intense to me.
But then again, thats just me.
Kissing is about intimacy - you learn a lot about a partner in that first kiss, if you're paying attention. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 3:07:42 PM | | I can simply tell how my husband feels about me by the way he kisses me - if he were ever to refuse a kiss I would die!! It is a very important part of our relationship! When I first met him I told him I only have one rule in a relationship - 'Ya kiss me hello and goodbye - good morning and goodnight'!! Thank goodness he has no objection! | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 3:07:51 PM | | YES!!! If my man cannot kiss me right I can't be with him. Sounds shallow but a bad kisser can literally make me sick to my stomach and turn me off for good. Sorry boys. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 3:40:53 PM | kissing is very important. The short pecks, the forehead kisses, the ones that go on for hours.
I think a kiss can say a lot that words cannot even touch ;) | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 3:43:05 PM | | Kissing is very important!!! I believe it is the most intimate conversation between two people. I would bring it up with her and hear her out - see if you can meet each other half way. | |
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| Is kissing a important part of intimacy???
Posted: 11/12/2007 4:14:32 PM | Man OP that sucks... Have you tried talking to him. Maybe he doesn't know how to kiss well and knows it. Maybe give him lessons
Kissing is vital to me.. I will stop dating someone if they just can't kiss, I know that sounds shallow but is vital to me.. I also feel if they can't kiss worth a damn they aren't going to be able to do anything else either.. | |
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