| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 4:08:14 PM | Did a thread search on this, and nothing came up.
I've seen a few posts that said that you could teach someone how to kiss.
What I want to know is:
Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Would you be annoyed if someone told you that you were a bad kisser?
Would you end the date there?
Would you be mortally offended if your date suggested "teaching" you?
Would you actually do what he suggested?
I'd like to see men's and women's opinions on this, please. I'd really like to see how many people would be willing to accept that they are a bad kisser, or that they could improve, and would accept the tips and do them? | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 4:33:42 PM | | I would be open to it. Always looking for self improvement. I figure that if she is trying to correct me then she is at least interested in investing more time with me. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 4:55:11 PM | | I myself cant relate because i have mastered it, but if someone is willing to teach you because they are unsaticfied with the way you kiss, i would take the help. kissing is the central part of lovemaking, its a very pleasurable and erotic experience when done right. i was dating a man for several months that was not a bad kisser, but just didnt like to kiss. of course i did mention it often to him. why should i not have that experience. so take lessons and kiss often | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:08:44 PM | If i were that bad then i would want someone to say it in a nice way. But i know that i am not a bad kisser and even tend to adapt to kissing the way my partner kisses if it is nice. :) It is all about communication!  | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:13:39 PM | lol It makes me laugh when people say they don't need that help, they are the best at kissing. TOOT TOOT!! Own horn people.
There are bad kissers and good kissers and amazing kissers.
I mean, I hate fast darting tongues...I like it nice and passionate and slow swirling of the tongues, tasting one another, feeling each others tongue. I've kissed some men that think it's a race, let's see who's tongue can go in and out and around your mouth fastest. They aren't trying to rush the kiss as they keep kissing, just everything is in fast motion. Nope, nice and taking your time is it.
If I was told that I was a bad kisser and he wanted to teach me...at first I'd probably be embarrassed and a bit hurt but then I'd definitely take the teaching so I can be better at it. Like someone above said, it would just prove that that person cared enough to invest the time in you. :) | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:15:43 PM | | More often than note, once a bad kisser, always a bad kisser. Good idea to let then wander off to someone who likes how they kiss. Old habits rarely die and if it isn't jiving, it's just NOT going to. Besides, I'm 43 years old, if he can't kiss by this age, I don't have the time to teach him how I like it. It's either there or it isn't. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:16:51 PM | You know what... sure. I don't THINK I have a problem... but if someone thought I did, why not try to make it better? What's the point in starting a sophomoric argument over it?
If more people were open about physicality I think a lot of relationships would be smoother. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:26:43 PM | I think the reaction would really depend on how they said it.
Also, the definition of "bad kisser" will vary from person to person. I suppose the best way for them to say it would be:
"I prefer a different style of kissing. Can I show you what I mean?"
instead of:
"That was horrid! The only right way is like this..." | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 5:27:53 PM |
Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
That "someone" has to be someone I know and like. If so, sure, why not? If a woman thinks she can show me a better way to kiss her, I would give it try. What's the downside?
Would you be annoyed if someone told you that you were a bad kisser?
As long as she is "cute" and polite about it I see no reason to be annoyed. However, I would be annoyed if she doesn't tell me - for if she does, it mutually benefits both of us.
Would you end the date there?
The question is too general. There are so many other factors to consider.
Would you actually do what he suggested?
He? Or do you mean s/he? I might be mistaken, but isn't this question the same as the first? | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:22:18 PM | I think anyone who is in a exclusive, possible long-term relationship, should be willing to learn new techniques to please their partner.
However, I think there are more subtle ways to get your point across rather than saying, "You are a bad kisser", or "I want to teach you how to kiss"! I think that both those statements would offend a lot of people.
Instead, you can just ask for what you want, in a nice way... Like...
Could I have a little less/more tongue?
Would you mind kissing me softer/harder?
I like it when you move your tongue faster/slower!
Of course, if someone is too dense, or stubborn to take your suggestions, perhaps they are not worth the trouble!
I also believe that anyone who is an attentive lover, will read your body signals and motions, and learn what you like, and vise versa, just by spending intimate time together. No words spoken. I've heard that if you think someone is a good kisser, you will most likely think they are a good lover also. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 6:36:30 PM | Hum kissing lessons eh?!?! Well I'd give em - but not sure I need them - never had any complaints!  I really love to kiss and I think I have had tons of practice!!  | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 7:03:04 PM | | How about, "Please don't shove your tongue down my throat." Is that instruction? If I am awful, please tell me. I want to know how to please the gentleman. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 8:49:01 PM | I have been told i am phenomenal . I also have been told I suck ( no pun intended)
I went out with a woman who joked about how great she was and how her EX would talk about wanting her to teach his new wife how. For me , she was the worse person i have ever kissed.
Bottom Line ....It is not a matter of teaching someone “ how”, it is all about teaching someone “How I like it !”
Think of the hundreds of topics discussed here on the forums and the disagreements that exist for each of them. Why does anyone assume that we all like the same thing in kissing ????
Aren’t some “bad kissers” possibly just folks whose last partner just liked things very different from you ?
So to answer the question ummm.....questions OP, yes, i would like a partner to
let me know what and how she prefers to be kissed if i am not doing it “right”.
And i would hope i could pass on subtle little hints to her on this topic also.
( sometimes the ability to just mimic the other persons style works out very well, yes ?) | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 8:52:32 PM | | oh I wouldn't mind, anything that turns her on more makes it more enjoyable for me, and just like sex, different people like different things and ways so why not learn how she likes it instead of guessing or disappointing? | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 10:01:32 PM | Great Question OP..I just love yours....
Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Would you be annoyed if someone told you that you were a bad kisser?
Would you end the date there?
Would you be mortally offended if your date suggested "teaching" you?
Would you actually do what he suggested?
Well I had to learn thru trail and error. So if for some reason my kisses were say u mm lacking with him.Bet I would take some pointers. Let him take the lead.
Depends on how he told me my kissing stunk. I think..
I would definately be open for possibilities..
But ummm to be honest I have been the one that usually does the teaching..
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 10:27:10 PM | | If someone I cared about thought I was a bad kisser, I'd hope he'd tell me so, in a very gentle, loving way, of course, and offer to help me. Yes, I'd follow his suggestions. Why not? I want to please him, right? | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/12/2007 10:31:12 PM | Dude, let's put your questions into context so they play right. Because the way you have them sounds bad. So here's your questions.
Would you be annoyed if someone told you that you were a bad kisser?
Would you end the date there?
Would you be mortally offended if your date suggested "teaching" you?
Would you actually do what he suggested?
So, in order for your date to say that, you too must be kissing. You naughty boy. Good for you. Now, she pulls back, gives you this look that has a grin, a pout, and slight look of disappointment. She says. "You are a bad kisser." You lean back and study her expression of disappointment. Poof, little angel shows up on your shoulder and tells you, "you should have taken better lessons, but that is okay, heaven awaits you. She is just a slut." Poof, a little devil shows up on your shoulder. He goes. "Hmmm. This is getting really, really good."
You pull back slighty and say "oh my, was I that bad. I have only been able to practice with my dog, but he gives too much tongue. Deep throat type of stuff."
She goes, "I could teach you."
You say, "Really?" (act surprised you bas!ard)
She says, "It's not that hard."
You say "Well that's how he feels right now."
She goes, "I am sorry."
You say, "So what can you teach me, I am open. But tell me the things YOU like."
Unfortunately for you, the dogs comes in the room, start tonguing her and she likes your dog better than you and instead teaches your dog some new really awesome tricks. Ha. | |
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| Would you let someone teach you how to kiss?
Posted: 11/13/2007 4:20:52 AM | | I am young but hot, too. I dated a sexy ebony lady on bigblackconnect.com where plenty of ebony ladies meet. At the begining, I can not satisfy her. She is so hot. After a few days' try, I asked her : would you mind I ask some others to teach me how to kiss? the same question with you. And she agreed with me. I think some hot ladies never care about this. Especially some ebony ladies on bigblackconnect.com | |
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