| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:12:10 AM | You guys seem to be all over the fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails, bleached teeth, and obviously very high maintenance, self absorbed women. Basically sluts who have had a lot of sex with guys just like you. Women who haven't found their value outside of a sex toy and really don't have the time to give or do anything for you.
So where does that leave us real women? The women who have chosen to be authentic. It's hurtful to see you guys drooling over the very women that you love to hate...you love them cuz they stimulate you, and hate them cuz they're whores and you're basically just another ego trip to them. They're women with low self esteem, but what you see is women who will do ANYTHING to please a man...any man, including you.
I'm jealous of the attention these women get. I could get it too, but I won't get my boobs done and look like a cheap whore. Of course, if I did get that kind of attention, I'd know it's from losers who just want to get off on me, and I can't imagine that makes a girl feel that special.
I guess I want you guys to choose US, because we too have all those body parts, and can present them to YOU and not the entire WORLD....we will save our bodies for you...and we won't bail on you for the next guy who's going to tell us we're hot.
I want you to know that I'm THAT SEXY......and if you're good to me, I will blow YOUR MIND sexually, intellectually, emotionally, and happily - only yours though. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:30:27 AM | | Ok so you would go out with a 300lb man with a belly hanging and a butt crack showing with bad teeth and a beard to his chest and dirty fingernails. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:34:16 AM | Wow, sounds like your really angry here and quite frankly I can understand that. But please realize that not all men are like that. I being one of those men that appreciates a good real woman without all the body modifications. Your right, those women are shallow and have low self-esteem and are high maintanence. I really don't have any use for those women. Are they beautiful, of course they are but that's only on the outside and they typically are the ****y ones anyway and they're a waste of my time. So, be patient Green. Sooner or later a real man will notice you and want you for you. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:39:38 AM | Green iiis ~
You're a very pretty woman, ..................but you do sound like you've a bit of a self-esteem problem, as well. Why worry about others? There are PLENTY of men who would love to date you. If you do a bit of searching you'll find that VERY few men here prefer plastic to fantastic.
Now go get 'em, Tiger!  | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:41:12 AM | Obviously this will be deleted before anyone really gets the chance to respond to you, but you need to grow up and learn what a real woman is! For centuries woman have found ways to make themselves more attractive to the males of the species and that in no way detracts from the person they are. Just because a woman does something to make herself more attractive does not make her a slut, whore or lower her morals in any shape form or fashion.
Not to mention that most women who wear fake nails, dyed hair or bleach their teeth, do so for themselves not for others. When you look what you consider your best, you feel better about yourself and those feelings project to the world around you. Just because a guy drools over them does not mean they are going to hop in bed with that guy. The whole idea is to look your best so you might attract someone who is attractive to you.
You might give it a try. If you feel sexy, you don't have to tell it to a guy. He'll see it in your self confidence. If you want to be a real woman, try making yourself look sexy to yourself and show that feeling to the world. Men prefer the whole package to look good both the inside and the outside. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:43:20 AM |
If you email me and I don't reply, please don't take it personally. I'm not fooling around with anything that doesn't capture my interest fully from the beginning.
You may want to take this out of your profile, it's basically a big red flag. Why would guys want to waste time writing emails w/ that in there?. Polite replies work every time! | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:47:40 AM |
You guys seem to be all over the fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails, bleached teeth, and obviously very high maintenance, self absorbed women. Basically sluts who have had a lot of sex with guys just like you. Women who haven't found their value outside of a sex toy and really don't have the time to give or do anything for you. Have the option to date that. Not attracted. Nothing says a weak character more than this.
As a matter of fact, you are very attractive, but your profile only allows you to date 18-46, yet you are 42. That means you could date an 18-year-old. I think the fact that your profile only restricts older men might be giving you a problem. I think it would be wise to consider that. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:48:04 AM | As long as she's paying for her own maintenance I don't see a problem. Most of the women I know get their nails done, hair done, even whiten their teeth on occasion etc. there is nothing wrong with that if it makes you feel good and feel pretty. When you feel good about yourself you're self confidence shows in everything you do and you could care less what the lady across the room looks like. I don't think good grooming, watching your figure and taking good care of yourself makes a woman a slut. What an incredibly derogative term OP.
I have never had a nip or tuck but I also see nothing wrong with that as long as she is doing it for herself and not in order to be accepted by some guy. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:49:10 AM | You guys seem to be all over the fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails, bleached teeth, and obviously very high maintenance, self absorbed women.
That is not true in my case.
I would rather a woman spend her time and money sweating her ass off in a health club or gym than doing any of that stuff to make herself look more attractive.
I read your profile. I cannot believe that you are not getting any attention from the men in the Oshawa area. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 9:55:19 AM | | How many women would stay with a man with a small penis i mean really small, or man boobs. Its like double standards (dont look at the barbies but you better be handsome in shape phiscally and financialy) ironic lmao | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:03:29 AM | Ok so you would go out with a 300lb man with a belly hanging and a butt crack showing with bad teeth and a beard to his chest and dirty fingernails.
This is a retarded comparison. Basic hygiene and healthcare is not equal to surgically altering ones appearance in order to appear more attractive to males. It is not unreasonable to expect that people should subscribe to basic standards of self maintenance the way it is to assume that women should have to drastically alter themselves to be considered attractive. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:07:02 AM | Green iiis, I know EXACTLY where you're coming from. Most men will express that they do not like women who look, act, and behave that way, but what is it they're drooling over?? Not us, the beautiful, if not perfect, flawed, REAL women. I can testify to the struggle it is to maintain a healthy self-esteem when surrounded by images of unattainable ( at least, without a hefty price tag) perfection.
The reality is, I don't WANT to look like that. I LIKE my curves ( they make me a woman, distinguishing me from the male sex and preadolescent girls) , the mole above my lip on the left side of my face-which is 100% real, not a make-up addition, which many famous women have added to give them something "extra"-my uneven breasts, my flat feet, my scars ( they remind me what I've been through and how strong I am) and on most days, I even love my frizzy, unruly wavy hair that has been the punchline of many jokes and the cause of reference to a famously wild-haired alcoholic music icon that died at age 27 ( Janis Joplin, in case you didn't catch that one).
It's hard to do when comparing myself to all those fake women, both in the media and the ones you pass on the street every day, that turn all the boys' heads, so, I stopped comparing.
People will be who they want. Me, I choose to be me. And I love me for it. My hope is that one day, someone else will, too. Confidence, I think, is one of the sexiest attributes ANYONE can have. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:08:42 AM | Shallow is shallow. If one is gonna complain about some one who wants a high maintnace women. But in turn is looking for a high maitnance man. Its the same chit
average looking guys are tired of mildly atractive women only wanting bo hunk guys. and i have seen guys goto taining beds get manacures and even get there chest waxed, and girls love them. So tell me whats the difference. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:30:15 AM |
i can't believe a woman wrote this....
why?
she is complaining, like many other unfortunatelly unsatisfied women looking for happiness | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:30:53 AM | Dropdeaded, there is no difference, really. But I think far less men go to those extremes as women do, because most women ( okay, maybe I can't speak for most women) like MASCULINE men. Men that do all that stuff, to me, aren't very masculine. I have "effeminate" male friends, but I could never be attracted to one.
But for women, all of that stuff is sexualized, and we've been dealing with it for much longer, so that it's impossible to be female in this society and not make a conscious choice about the matter either way. You either decide you're going to be high-maintenance, or you're going to be real. And most of the decisions you make in the rest of your life after that point revolve around that conscious choice.
I can't be sure, because I'm not a man, but I don't think it's that big of a deal for you. "To gel or not to gel, that is the question."  | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:33:05 AM | is shallow. If one is gonna complain about some one who wants a high maintnace women. But in turn is looking for a high maitnance man. Its the same chit
average looking guys are tired of mildly atractive women only wanting bo hunk guys. and i have seen guys goto taining beds get manacures and even get there chest waxed, and girls love them. So tell me whats the difference.
What is high maintenance to you? A man who shaves and showers regularly? | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:33:43 AM | You want someone younger than 47? You're insane, woman. You're 42!!!!! Who do you think is going to be looking for you? 32-year olds? Got news for ya, babe! It ain't happenin'!
You also say that you may not reply to e-mails...now that's really going to encourage people!
Grow up... | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 10:46:27 AM | Reality check: Cheap whores do NOT look like that.
Cheap whores look like something you'd find in the dumpster behind the STD clinic and smell about like that, too.
They are, however, real women.
Which is sad.
As for the rest, I personally prefer real tits, don't care if she's tan or not, real (nice) hair is a must, nails are not an issue (as long as she has them....), grew up in Europe, so bleached teeth aren't a requirement, as long as they're clean, I'm good.
Having a bad morning? | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 11:37:23 AM | | What is wrong with having cosmetic surgery if you can afford it? I haven't had it, but I may someday to fight the effects of aging. I work out, get my teeth whitened, see a dematologist, take care of my hair and my nails. Why on earth is it a bad thing? | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 12:00:56 PM |
You guys seem to be all over the fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails, bleached teeth, and obviously very high maintenance, self absorbed women. Basically sluts who have had a lot of sex with guys just like you. Women who haven't found their value outside of a sex toy and really don't have the time to give or do anything for you.
I'm a little confused.... Why is someone a slut for liking to play dress-up? That is kind of a leap.
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 12:01:56 PM |
You guys seem to be all over the fake tits, fake tan, fake hair, fake nails, bleached teeth, and obviously very high maintenance, self absorbed women.
yes of course many men like this - it appeals to them more than some overweight frump who has let herself go to hell.
Women who haven't found their value outside of a sex toy and really don't have the time to give or do anything for you.
No problem here either - many men have busy lives with work and hobbies etc and this is all they want --- basically a physical relief - so why not with a woman that appeals to them - now if they are both happy with this arrangement more power to them
So where does that leave us real women?
possibly alone a lot more often than not
It's hurtful to see you guys drooling over the very women that you love to hate...you love them cuz they stimulate you, and hate them cuz they're whores and you're basically just another ego trip to them[/quote so why should you care - these men are more than likely the players that you have no interest in. They're women with low self esteem, but what you see is women who will do ANYTHING to please a man...any man, including you.
that's right - those with low self esteem will do a lot more to keep a partner happy so as to keep that partner around I'm jealous of the attention these women get. I could get it too, but I won't get my boobs done and look like a cheap whore. well they look like cheap whores in your eyes only so if they are whores and you detest them - why are you envious of them? you have stated indirectly that you are a "step above them" Of course, if I did get that kind of attention, I'd know it's from losers who just want to get off on me, and I can't imagine that makes a girl feel that special. so if you don't like these losers that pay attention to these women - why are you jealous of the attention these women get from the men you define as losers -- you are being contradicting here. maybe you are just annoyed that your not the centre of attention when in social scenarios, its catty and many women do it by instinct - competing for a males attention. some succeed the others just whine and **** about them | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 12:12:24 PM | | Sure men like to look at women like that...and some will only date that type. I'm a self-professed tomboy, I wear very little makeup and I've had no trouble at all with men. Most of them appreciate a woman that doesn't leave her face on the pillowcase at night, and wakes up looking like a horror show... The types of men that I've been around prefer 'real' women to the plastic ones... Maybe you're spending too much time focusing on what you don't have OP to appreciate what you do. The only way men are going to be attracted to the 'real' woman in you... is when you care enough about yourself to let her shine through..... | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 12:31:05 PM | | I'm clean, I'm heavy, no make up, no done up nails, dyed hair from a bottle every other month... I have no problem finding dates from very nice, sweet guys - the secret isn't the body its the fact that I'm confident, friendly, talkative and very approachable. | |
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| Real Women vs. Fake women
Posted: 11/17/2007 12:42:55 PM | Funny......I looked at the pic that accompanied the tirade written, and I thought, 'now she's really pretty..very NATURALLY pretty....with not a trace of 'fake' body parts that I disdain so well......that would be somebody I would be interested in if she lived in my neck of the woods...'..............but then she had to open up her mouth with that first line...........
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