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 redneckcountrygirl

Joined: 6/15/2006
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 2:23:58 PM
If you found the 'perfect' mate what three character traits would they have and what three characters traits would you make sure (as much as you could) that they didn't have. My mate would have a high level of integrity, intelligence, humor. He would not be controlling, lazy, or unkind.
 jstanotherguy

Joined: 11/5/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 2:35:03 PM
i can live without the constant ****ing,the need to over react to everything, and all the bullshit women think they have make a guy go thru to prove he loves her,damn women get a clue!
 Brenda Kay

Joined: 11/16/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 2:45:04 PM
I can live without being took for granted to the extreme.
I can live without false promises and lies.
I can live without immaturity, Rudeness, stupid excuses.

I can live with mental maturity, Balance.
I can live with creativity, adventure.
I can live with a masculine scent around, and a few fishing poles in the corner.

Oops, I cant live without my Son, it's a Package deal.
 english lass

Joined: 11/14/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 2:52:37 PM
three character traits i enjoy:

sense of humour - finding things to enjoy and laugh about in the large and small parts of life
reliable - a man of his word
kindness and respect toward others, no matter what their appearance/work/age/race etc..


three character traits i wouldn't want:

controlling
manipulative
negativity/whining constantly (*constantly*, being the operative word - different from the occasional bouts of being upset, which everyone gets..)

 allthe3s

Joined: 11/17/2006
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 2:52:49 PM
Can't live without:
humour, affection, respect.
 oldsoul

Joined: 3/10/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 3:03:43 PM
Can't live without: intelligent respectful men, funny and witty men, open minded and loving men:)

Will live without: controlling bitter hateful misogynists, holier than thou religious freaks, whinny "poor me" men:(

 Mystic Magic

Joined: 12/9/2005
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:16:27 PM
Must have intelligence, kindness, humour
Must not have sarcastic negativity, control issues, no imagination.
 Columbia Punkin

Joined: 4/22/2007
Msg: 8
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:25:35 PM
I can live with the little annoying things like leaving clothes lay on the floor, the cap off the toothpaste, the toilet seat up.

I can live with his friends stopping over, him going out with the guys and wanting his space.

I can live with little disagreements, differing views.

I can't live with lying.

I can't live with cheating.

I can't live with verbal or physical abuse.

Everything else can be worked through.
 blondeandsmart1950

Joined: 6/9/2007
Msg: 9
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:27:41 PM
Well, I have found my new mate and the three things he has that are very important to me are compassion, integrity and romance.

The three he does not have that I truely hate are negativeism, laziness and controlling.

I truely did I get lucky this time...... I'm keeping him !!!!!
 Moto Monkey

Joined: 11/3/2007
Msg: 10
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:46:11 PM
The three must-have traits for my partner are: hope, charity, love. The three she must not have are: fake wood paneling, cooties, dry rot.
 LindaLou-58

Joined: 11/17/2007
Msg: 11
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 4:49:20 PM
Must haves: compassion, humor, selflessness

Must not be: a liar, unaffectionate, pessimistic
 Thorb

Joined: 7/15/2005
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 5:03:58 PM
must have intelligence, integrity, compassion

can't have an extreme attitude about anything,
can't have bad hygene
can't be clingy
 funluvnhoney

Joined: 7/10/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 6:25:34 PM
Must not have: Beer Gut, Bad Breath, Hairy A**

Must Have: Manicure Skills, Fat Wallet, Massage Skills
 mjlaw82

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 14
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 6:33:34 PM
Must Haves: (1) TRUST; (2) respect; (3) mutual desire to be together. Don't sleep on that last one. If I don't feel wanted (and have that same feeling back) I will not go further; at best you have a really good friend.

Must Not Haves: (nice grammar, I know) (1) DRAMA; (2) see (1); (3) see (1) and (2)
 mjlaw82

Joined: 6/30/2007
Msg: 15
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 7:35:08 PM
Fat Wallet, huh? Well, at least you're honest about your vanity, funluv.
 regalrose

Joined: 8/28/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 7:46:15 PM
Give or take a few nuances...^^^^^same thing Columbia Punkin said! Good job gal.
 hevgem

Joined: 2/1/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:07:22 PM
Only 3 things they must have?
must be understanding (i need a lot of understanding and patience) and gotta love sex - that a big must have.
can live without violence or greed or controlling - no problem at all
 Marrying Kind

Joined: 10/3/2007
Msg: 18
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:22:42 PM
She would have the ability to love me like no other , have the decency to marry me forever , and the goodness to have the my baby's'.
 irish girl in mi

Joined: 7/15/2007
Msg: 19
What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:25:56 PM
three things he must have would be
1. a sense of humor
2. a big heart
3. morals

three things i can live without
1.cocky attitude
2.a crazy ex-girlfriend
3.hairy chest
 Sabrosura

Joined: 8/1/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:29:53 PM
Would have; Sense of humor, intellect and PASSIONATE about life/his lady!!!

Wouldn't have (darn only 3?!..lol); Superficial, cheater, dishonest.
 Nykholle069

Joined: 6/8/2006
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:30:03 PM
-Someone that cane make me laugh.
-Someone thats open-minded.
-Someone who knows when to give me my space.

(Things i could live WITHOUT)
-Someone controlling.
-Someone lazy.
-Someone that only thinks about himself.

& MOST OF ALL-****ness.


Nykholle♥
 Smart-Blonde

Joined: 2/26/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:34:45 PM
He must be honest, respect me and be affectionate.

He must not have a drinking problem, be lazy/too passive, abusive of any type.
 EyeDye

Joined: 6/19/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:37:34 PM

If you found the 'perfect' mate what three character traits would they have and what three characters traits would you make sure (as much as you could) that they didn't have. My mate would have a high level of integrity, intelligence, humor. He would not be controlling, lazy, or unkind.


To pigeonhole yourself is such a way (IMHO) is foolish. You simply may not know what it is you truely need or want until the day it stares you in the face...
 mimi1230

Joined: 1/11/2007
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 8:38:42 PM
i can live without misunderstandings... they can really do a number on a relationship.
i can live without pride... just get used to humble pie!
i can live without perfection... i want real, not make believe.

i can live with sorry... as long as its sincere, and not just and excuse to mess up.
i can live with failure... just get up and keep trying.
i can live with mistakes... just own up to it.

it takes work to get these things from both parties... a lot of work! but the result is so worth it.
 rune3

Joined: 7/13/2006
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What three things can you live with or without in a relationship.
Posted: 11/25/2007 10:37:32 PM
I can live with someone who understands, accepts, appreciates, loves and respects me.
I can live with someone whom I understand, accept, appreciate, love and respect.
I can live without anyone who doesn't or whom I don't.
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