| | Are you threatened by Male Sex Toys? Page 1 of 3 (1, 2, 3) | Yes I did a thread search.
Every time the subject of male sex toys (pocket vagina's, fleshlights) comes along I notice women (I know) talk about how pathetic it is for men who have them. Yet not five minutes earlier they were talking about how much they love their "rabbit" or whatever.
Why is that a guy who has a sex toy for his pleasure is deemed a pathetic dirty pervert yet a woman with one is sexually liberated?
Is it just based on the insecurity of being replaceable?
What are your thoughts? | |
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| Are you threatened by Male Sex Toys?
Posted: 11/26/2007 4:05:42 PM | lol, why?
What's so scary about this topic?
Women have sex toys and it's no big deal, it can be talked about freely. Why are the male counterparts such a taboo? | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:07:10 PM | Hahah, interesting topic.
I think it's cool to have toys that both can use together...
But having toys because you can't get a mate that can satisfy you is sad for either sex. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:10:08 PM | | Men have sex toys???? Really???? I thought they just had magazines and images of past loves and a big box of tissue??? Oh my.... well, plug on! | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:10:31 PM | Liquid:
Is it really though?
I don't think I know one woman that doesn't have a sex toy... I'm pretty sure she doesn't use it as a center piece.
I will agree that sex toys are best used with a partner, though what is saying one can't use the male one on her SO?
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:12:09 PM | | Threatened? Nope. Grossed out? Yep. Is there a reservoir in those things, or what? It just seems pretty dirty. I had a boyfriend who tried one (not when he was with me, though), and HE was put off by the "unhygiene" inherent in the product. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:13:03 PM |
Is it really though?
I don't think I know one woman that doesn't have a sex toy... I'm pretty sure she doesn't use it as a center piece.
I will agree that sex toys are best used with a partner, though what is saying one can't use the male one on her SO?
Now you're over analyzing... So if the woman is not using it as a center piece, then she's not doing it out of desperation. If you own a fake vagina cuz you can't find a woman then there's the difference. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:14:02 PM | Personally, I don't like sex toys unless they are being added to something already going on, to me there is no dildo like a human one, hands down. Not all women are like me, however and like their sex toys walking and talking. That's cool...
I don't think a man is a pervert for using a sex toy at all, in fact I recommend more use them, it takes the edge off and gives women a break from being propositioned by men who are frustrated, especially when dating. Seems men don't have a whole lot of convenient sex between relationships. PLEASE see if you can talk to men and get more of them to invest!
Maybe you can teach a class or something and get a dialogue going? We could start a revolution!  | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:14:48 PM | Cassa:
How is the hygiene factor any different than a dildo or vibrator?
Or is it that all penises are inherently dirty by default? | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:17:55 PM | Threatened? Nope. Grossed out? Yep. Is there a reservoir in those things, or what? It just seems pretty dirty. I had a boyfriend who tried one (not when he was with me, though), and HE was put off by the "unhygiene" inherent in the product.
And yet men still love the real thing.
Haha @ people who laugh at their own jokes. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:23:44 PM |
Now you're over analyzing... So if the woman is not using it as a center piece, then she's not doing it out of desperation. If you own a fake vagina cuz you can't find a woman then there's the difference.
No I don't think I am *shrugs*
All that am I wondering is where does this stigma come from?
What is the underlining motivation behind the negative view on it? | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:29:46 PM |
All that am I wondering is where does this stigma come from?
What is the underlining motivation behind the negative view on it?
It probably comes from the notion that men are supposed to satisfy women sexually.
And does it matter? I don't think so. I satisfy women and women satisfy me. If she doesn't care about satsifying me, then she's not worth it.
And don't listen to women who complain about how men can't satisfy them putting all responsibilities on the men.
Why do you think they're like this? Because they either don't know how to have pleasure or can't get a man that can pleasure them.
They're coming from a place of negativity. Sucks for them. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:51:35 PM |
Is there a reservoir in those things, or what? It just seems pretty dirty. I had a boyfriend who tried one (not when he was with me, though), and HE was put off by the "unhygiene" inherent in the product.
Never heard of soap and water? Women clean their toys. I very much doubt men who have toys are any different. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 4:55:08 PM |
Are you threatened by Male Sex Toys?
Not on a daily basis, but sometimes they hound you for loose change and I did have one follow me to the office last week.
That was a little creepy. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 5:01:31 PM | I think it may be partly because men in general don't have a problem climaxing with a partner, but women do, and therefore may need a little something extra. If a man has to resort to a sex toy the woman may feel that she is doing something completely wrong.
I personally have no problem with my bf (if I had one) using a sex toy, as long as it didn't have a negative impact on our sex life. I had one ex that used to only be able to orgasm once a day, if he 'gave himself a helping hand' earlier in the day, then we had sex it got frustrating for both of us, yet he continued doing it. So if something like this were to happen with my partner and it was because of the sex toy, or if he for some unexplainable reason started to prefer the toy, then I'd have a problem. | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 5:08:59 PM | Hell no.
As in hell no he's not a dirty pervert. That's MY job and I take it VERY seriously.
He can TRY to replace me. It will never happen.
As long as he's fastidious about the cleaning, who the heck cares! Last time I checked this was a free world. Most guys I know couldn't be bothered with a toy and either use their hands, or abstain. Me personally I don't use the toys most of the time 'cause the whole clean up think is a drag when I just wanna roll over and go to sleep! | |
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Posted: 11/26/2007 6:19:51 PM | | If a man or woman wants sex toys, more power to them (pun intended). I agree, wholeheartedly, that a man has every right to enjoy whatever toys he would like to use, either alone or with a partner. It wouldn't bother me a bit if the man I was seeing had a collection of toys. | |
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| Are you threatened by Male Sex Toys?
Posted: 11/26/2007 6:20:12 PM | I don't really care if a guy has a sex toy. One of my beaus had a sleeve for masturbation that he was especially fond of. *shrug* I don't care what's in his goodie drawer...none of my business. :)
Now if I went over and there was a full-sized blow-up doll well-used on the couch, I'm outta there. Blech! | |
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