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 Tan_Y_Ddraig
Joined: 1/28/2007
Msg: 1
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This question is aimed at the women who like to be dominant in the bedroom with their men.

I'm not talking dominatrix or mistress, just your average strong woman who knows what turns her on and that is to dominate her man in the bedroom.

Theres probably not many here into that but here goes anyway...

Do you prefer to 'turn' big strong men into submissives, doing exactly as you tell them to and enjoy the power and control of such a (usually) strong powerful man, or do you prefer the shyer, smaller framed man, to control and pander to your every sexual desire?
 QUICKSILVER217
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 2
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Posted: 11/26/2007 8:43:33 PM
I believe this not an uncommon fantasy some men have? I hope this thread develops as well as the one we had about the guy posting his private pics to 6 women at once...
I don't know my mind is working overtime here!
Personally I love to paint a man's nails and toenails with lurid colours while he sleeps - I don't know about dominance - but it sure is satisfying.....
Yooo hoooo where are you? I promise its safe to come out now!!!!! she chuckles deviously......thinks about putting a few bandaids on his chest next time for good measure.....
 rowdysheis
Joined: 6/19/2007
Msg: 3
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Posted: 11/27/2007 4:18:38 AM
Give me a big, strong man anytime over a smaller framed man. Whatever two consenting adults do in private is fine with me. If I was with a man who enjoyed being submissive sometimes, it wouldn't bother me at all. I wouldn't want to always be the dominant one, but I don't mind sharing the role. And sometimes, no one needs to dominate. Variety in the bedroom, as with anywhere else, keeps things exciting and fresh.
 Scotchlassie
Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 4
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Posted: 11/27/2007 4:22:57 AM
I;m basically submisssive so I need a strong man in the bedroom
 Janet472
Joined: 10/17/2007
Msg: 5
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Posted: 11/27/2007 4:33:22 AM
In todays world, both parties best be dominate. We now live in a world to where we must be domineering or be dominated.

Janet
 SunsetStorm
Joined: 5/27/2007
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/27/2007 4:46:06 AM
Ill take the big Alpha dude thanks and he can feel my wrath of sexual power
 LQQK`N41MANONLY
Joined: 7/9/2007
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/27/2007 5:33:54 AM

Theres probably not many here into that but here goes anyway




i`m guessing that there is.. ya just haven`t found the right 1.. yet.. ..




<div class="quote">Do you prefer to 'turn' big strong men into submissives, doing exactly as you tell them to and enjoy the power and control of such a (usually) strong powerful man, or do you prefer the shyer, smaller framed man, to control and pander to your every sexual desire?



i prefer the man 2 lay back & enjoy what i`m doing 2 him since i do like 2 take my time!.. .. oh & i don`t care 4 males w/smaller frames.. .. and if he 'pandered' 2 my every sexual desire.. honey.. we`d be there 4 life!.. ..
 Arborea
Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 8
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Posted: 11/27/2007 5:35:41 AM

Do you prefer to 'turn' big strong men into submissives, doing exactly as you tell them to and enjoy the power and control of such a (usually) strong powerful man, or do you prefer the shyer, smaller framed man, to control and pander to your every sexual desire?


Yes.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 11/27/2007 6:08:35 AM
I think you are confusing dominance with sexually aggressive.
 Vanillaroyale
Joined: 10/10/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/27/2007 6:22:27 AM
I've been called agressive but I don't see myself as dominant. All I know for certain is that I'm not submissive at all. Learned that the hard way; he's recoving nicely as we speak.
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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Posted: 11/27/2007 7:13:57 AM
I am aggressive both in and out of the bedroom, so an A type personality isn't for me. I like the strong silent type of guy, but he's gotta have a backbone and his own opinions. I am pretty much the type who likes to call the shots with anything that I am involved in.

Dominance isn't the word, it's more control.

Sex happens for me when I want it, how I want it, and where I want it for the most part...or I don't do it. I am usually more of a taker than giver in the bedroom. Never had any complaints.
 opgirl
Joined: 3/6/2007
Msg: 12
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Posted: 11/27/2007 8:22:53 AM
I like the big strong guy! It seems like I've accomplished so much more by turning a big strong guy into a submissive!!! And then when it's time to reverse roles, I'd much rather be dominated by a big strong guy.
 meowgrrrr83
Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/27/2007 8:28:12 AM
It makes it more interesting, arrousing, to turn a "rambo" into a "my B****"

 mistressdolly
Joined: 11/24/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/27/2007 3:40:13 PM
One can not force a man into being submissive; either he desires to submit to one woman (or women) or he does not.

If he wants to be forced into submission, that is not really submission.

In my opinion, I believe every woman should have a man, big or skinney, submit to her desires, sexual and otherwise.
 beerbag
Joined: 9/14/2007
Msg: 15
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Posted: 11/27/2007 3:45:14 PM
Being in control all the time gets boring fast.
Just like the times when I get home all horny and sweaty, throw her down, rip off her panties, pull her hair and flip her over taking her how I want, I love it when she does the same...Well minus the flipping me over part.
 idflytothemoon
Joined: 11/14/2007
Msg: 16
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Posted: 11/28/2007 6:32:55 PM
stronger men silly-
if we are going to rule the world rule a good world!!!!
 CallmeJewels
Joined: 3/13/2007
Msg: 17
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Posted: 11/28/2007 7:14:31 PM
I like taking turns...'nuff said.
 QUICKSILVER217
Joined: 11/22/2006
Msg: 18
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Posted: 12/1/2007 2:46:35 AM
Does taking advantage of him whilst he is tipsy count?
What about tearing his clothes off and hiding them/ throwing them out the window?
What about telling him he can't stop when he is about to pass out from exhaustion? Would that be classed as being dominating? What about crushing the vitals so he can never finish till you let him go?
If you tie his bootlaces together and then push him backwards onto the bed - is that sexually agressive?
I can't believe no-one has taken the micky out of this post....sigh...disappointed...
 SassySky
Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 19
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Posted: 12/1/2007 3:08:21 AM
OMG>> OP this has been done to death..
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the Bedroom games.. are to be just that private and fun.. And ummm
Anything pretty much goes between the two partners.




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 clorin
Joined: 11/4/2007
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Posted: 12/1/2007 8:44:03 AM
You have this woman's number, op? my number is 806-771-**** have her call me. Seriously, I love aggressive women. in the bedroom and out of it. As a big strong man, I like the woman to grab me, push me on the bed.... rip off cloths... and rape the crap out of me. Real turn on. All the while yelling do this.. do that. opps, brb... got to go to the bathroom a sec, have to compose myself.
 weezygirl
Joined: 11/15/2007
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Posted: 12/1/2007 1:50:51 PM
personally i don't feel that dominance should be a factor in the bedroom unless your partner is really opposed to it..some men enjoy that..others don't.

for me,it's a give and take thing..sometimes i like to be dominated..sometimes i dominate..guess it depends on the mood and what each other wants at that moment..i'll tell you it does add a lot of variety and spice to love making.it's never the same old same old day in and day out.

i think in this way each one will have something to offer that the other one may never have thought of before.
 Herding Cats
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 22
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Posted: 12/1/2007 2:39:15 PM

Do you prefer to 'turn' big strong men into submissives


No. I do that all day long.
 clorin
Joined: 11/4/2007
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Posted: 12/1/2007 3:27:55 PM
Most guys would love to have more aggressive women, less to figure out. Does this mean I'm pwhipped... no. I just like more aggressive women. Will I concede to everything she says... hardly. I do like working problems out. Always haved, problems are my speciality.
 meowgrrrr83
Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 24
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Posted: 12/1/2007 3:46:16 PM
I love the power of turning a big strong man into my "slave"...
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 12/1/2007 4:10:13 PM
As much as you might be wanting a spanking OP its pretty clear some women want to go over bended knee themselves from time to time. Don't forget as hard as you guys make Welsh women work they might be too tired to hog tie you at the end of a long day.
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