| i cant figure girls out either
Posted: 11/27/2007 1:18:05 AM | | It’s amazing that a holes can get girls. Actually, now that I think of it, it’s not that amazing. They are a holes at heart, but to meet girls they lavish their undying love. IT’S A CHARADE. They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after. Their prey thinks they are in love with them, however when they realize what an a holes their predators really are, they pretend like the a hole is really nice inside. The girl tries to change the a hole into a nice guy, but a holes will always be an a holes. She gets upset and goes to the nice guy to complain about the a hole. But she claims to love the a hole… now this is where the theory begins. She doesn’t want to look like she is easy so she wont dump the a hole right away, instead she will stay with the a hole. Girls are idiots. They don’t realize that the nice guy has been there all along. He never had to pretend to be a good guy to get girls because he is naturally like that. However, girls don’t see it for some reason or another. They look at the nice guy as a friend, a trusted companion to whom they can tell their sad story to about their a hole boyfriend. But the nice guy isn’t THAT naïve. He was trying to score with the girl he listens to all along. The problem is that since he is a nice guy he keeps listening. Since girls get attached to things that pay attention to them, they think of the nice guy as a friend. A FRIEND. They don’t say, “Oh he’s hot” or “I want to have his children” about the nice guy, they just want the emotional support. When they get the emotional support from the nice guy, they don’t need it from the a hole. The nice guy gets the sh-- end of the stick while the a hole gets all the action. I am starting to wonder if being a nice guy is really the route to take to get action… I have been down this path for all of my post-pubescent life and it has gotten me NOWHERE… at least not in the women department. Perhaps another reason why girls fall for the a hole is because a holes ignore the girl they are with. The women wonder, “Why isn’t he paying attention to me?” so they explore why. They poke and prod and get closer to the a hole. They start to get easier with each attempt to get closer. The a hole finally says, “I’ve let this beauty dangle long enough, time to boat this bass”. It is then he puts on his charade and the girl feels like she has won him… even thought all she has won is an a hole. Once you have gone down the path as a nice guy or a “listener” you can’t turn back. The girl will always go after the a holes because there are always nice guys there to listen. Once you realize that you are a “listener” you cant do anything about it… just pack up and close shop. There is no way you will get into her pants… ever. There is and never will be a situation where the nice guy will get the girl he has a crush on. It just doesn’t work like that. The girl wont “come to her senses” and realize what an a hole her boyfriend is like in the movies… instead she will just go after another a hole, and unless you stop being a nice guy, she will never go after you. Women complain that there are no nice guys in the world. Right. They are obviously not looking hard enough because there are nice guys EVERYWHERE!!!! Girls aren’t looking for nice guys… they say they are but they’re not. They are looking for the perfect a hole, but there is NO SUCH THING as the perfect a hole. All in all, the nice guy gets the shaft. To all the girls out there with boyfriends that don’t treat you with respect, that don’t listen to you, and that don’t care about you I say this; look next to you. The guy that has been standing next to you the whole time is the guy you have been looking for. He is what you want your a hole to be like. He knows more about you than you know about yourself… because he has listened to it all. | |
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| i cant figure girls out either
Posted: 11/27/2007 2:06:52 AM | | More 'nice' guy threads. There are girls out there who say the same thing about b*****s and they call themselves 'nice' girls too. Only problem with these 'nice' people is, they all pretend to be 'nice' on the outside, when inside they are burning with resentment and hatred towards all the 'normal' people who don't have to go around branding themselves as 'nice' people, because they have personalities, and are honest about their faults and weaknesses. | |
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| i cant figure girls out either
Posted: 4/4/2008 2:13:03 PM | | Well, that goes both ways. I have had SEVERAL male friends who come to complain to me about their cheating wives, shallow girlfriends, and that "hot little thing" down the street that won't give them the time of day. I finally came up with a few things that helped ME when dealing with people like that. First, I had to look at my motives for being that guy's "friend" in the first place. Was I truly just interested in him as a friend, or was I hoping for more? If it was just a friendship, then it is part of your responsibility to listen, assuming this "friend" does the same for you. If I was interested in more than friendship, well, I think it's kind of dishonest to continue to lead that person into believing that you are his friend. If you want to date someone, you need to tell them. It's not likely that he (or she, in your case) can read your mind. The other thing to consider is the TYPE of person you're befriending in the hopes of "scoring" with. Is she going for the "a hole" because he is physically attractive? Is it because he has money? Is she with him because there is something else that she can gain from it? If she's into it for any of those reasons, then she wasn't worth your time to begin with. Furthermore, using the "nice guy" edge to get into a woman's "pants" while she's vulnerable isn't the best way to go about it anyway. | |
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| i cant figure girls out either
Posted: 4/7/2008 1:08:35 AM | | He has a point as too many girls seem to want a nice bad boy or sensitive jerk. If they fail to have their cake and eat it to, then they trip out on all men while never giving up on their sexy-boy fix. Considering what passes and is normal today, all the worse for the girl when the next one cheats or beats her | |
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| i cant figure girls out either
Posted: 4/18/2008 1:48:43 PM | Your post reeks of hipocricy. YOU are the "nice guy". Ha. Seem more to me, from your language and your obvious anger at not "getting in [your 'friend's'] pants", that you're more of a snake in the grass. I, for one, detest boys (for that is what you are) like you. You pretend to be a friend, and feign sympathy for your prey's emotional turmoils, all the while thinking "how can I get some for myself?"
Just reading your post, I am thinking "Wow, what a jerk". You and your talk of "a holes" draped in threads of svelte and charm when stalking their victims (see: "They act nice, friendly, and they listen… until they get into what they’re after."). Check out a mirror, bud, and you'll see one of these closet ***holes staring back at you. It seems like that is your game, play by play.
On a final note, if your "friend" came to you talking about the wonderful, intelligent, articulate, wildly sexy man she's seeing and their hot, steamy sack sessions, instead of venting about his shortcomings, what, then, would be your reaction? You would turn your back on her and, instead, try to be a "friend" (aka--the snake in the grass mentioned above) to another who is more vulnerable. | |
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| i cant figure girls out either
Posted: 4/28/2008 9:48:17 AM |
More 'nice' guy threads. There are girls out there who say the same thing about b*****s and they call themselves 'nice' girls too. Only problem with these 'nice' people is, they all pretend to be 'nice' on the outside, when inside they are burning with resentment and hatred towards all the 'normal' people who don't have to go around branding themselves as 'nice' people, because they have personalities, and are honest about their faults and weaknesses. That's quite possibly the most cynical, and BS thing, I've ever seen posted here. And that's saying a lot, because I hang out in the political forums sometimes.
First of all, there is no such thing as "normal people"
I'm a very nice guy, raised the southern way, Mom taught me how to treat ladies, and dad taught me how to be a man. Both did a pretty good job.
However, no one that knows me would ever even consider saying I have no personality or that I can't admit my faults and weaknesses.
And the generalization that all nice people are pretending, is lack of engagement of neurons.
Your post was so off the wall and wrong I copy and pasted it to a friend. His response was "wtf, I feel dumber and more emo after reading that"
Oh yeah, he's a real Southern nice guy too, that knows exactly how full of it your post was.
Oh, and as far as me not being nice now, lets see, you've said I'm pretending to be nice, you've said that I'm burning with resentment and hatred, and said that I don't have a personality and can't admit my faults and weaknesses.
Honey, with that attitude, you don't deserve a nice guy. | |
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| i cant figure girls out either
Posted: 6/18/2008 8:15:40 PM | First, you can't really generalize. And... wait, was that a generalization? I've met "normal people"...I'm just not one of 'em. I think that what this thread has turned into is, "Let's All Judge One Another".
Glockster, I do believe that you're a nice guy. You don't have to be raised in the Southern tradition to get that way; I "immigrated" here from Wyoming thirty-some years ago, and I brought my Western manners with me. But there's a little truth in what everybody's said so far...it may be just THEIR truth, but to them, it IS the truth.
As for myself, I can only relate my own experiences - in brief, lately, when I hear a woman say to me, "You're a good man, Jack..." that's the kiss of death. I know that whatever was blossoming has faded. OK, I admit to being what is generally considered a nice guy, but...is there anybody out there interested in giving me some "bad boy" lessons? | |
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