| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/1/2007 2:42:36 PM | Did your ex do or have a habit that drove u crazy. Boy mine did he was ALWAYS late. He lost a job when he was late 3 days in a row and we lived a block from his job. One time he promised to meet me somewhere at 10 a.m. on a Tuesday, he showed up 10 a.m. Wed.
My mr. right will be punctual or ELSE. | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/1/2007 7:18:53 PM | Woman that can't take the slightest form of criticism or become defensive easily. Actually, this is probably a pet peeve of mine of certain people in general.
We all make mistakes or do things that others may perceive as a mistake. At least be able to discuss it without turning it wholly personal. You don't have to make it about being right or wrong-but be able to conduct a dialog that doesn't make it appear as though every issue is an assault on your character and a fight for your life. | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/1/2007 7:26:45 PM | My X, where do I start?
OK, I'll call it Perpetual Stupitity....
Getting so drunk at a few happy hours her work friends call me to come get her. So I pack up both the kids, one was a baby, put them in the car get to the bar, look around and she's not there. She drove home. This was a three time gem.
Once another couple, Tom and his wife, friends of ours came over to the house. They parked right behind our new car. A few minutes later she decides that she needs an ingredient from the store. She and Chris, my friends wife pile into my new car, back up and slam right into Tom's car.
On the phone with her sister once. I came home from work one day. Passed through the kitchen and smelled someting hot, and cooking. I said, what's on the stove? She gave me that "don't bother me now look" and kept on talking. I was changing clothes and suddenly the smoke alarm goes off. She was heating oil to fry some shrimp on a gas stove. Needless to say she burned the counters, the cabinets, the floor, teh curtains, and in the process of putting it out, I got 2nd degree burns on my hand. | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/1/2007 7:38:55 PM | ^^ that beats any story I have^^^
My ex had OCD bad, needed a different cup or glass for ea. different liquid and never would put them in the dishwasher. That cup is for Tea, that cup is for coffee, that glass is for juice etc. etc.
even her laundry had to be done in separate loads, 3 prs. jeans in a "24 lb" super extra lg. washer, then 3-4 blouses etc.
She would spend 5 mins. readjusting the seat every time she got in the car and it would end up back in the same spot every time. | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/1/2007 7:51:52 PM | I was so annoyed when he asked me to marry him and then started dating someone else while on business trips, cause out of town didn't count. Man that drove me up the wall! LOL
Mostly I'd have to say, he was always on a diet and would only eat roasted chicken even though I love to cook lots of different foods. The part that would make me crazy is that he would then eat huge tubs of ice cream!!!???? I will never date a fussy overeater ever again,,, especially if they travel for work. | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/1/2007 8:03:07 PM | Always asking "what are you thinking"?
False accusations without actual proof then when she was proven wrong, she changed the subject without an apology.
Using the excuse "but i was drunk" as a 'get out of jail free' card. | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/5/2007 9:57:47 AM | | make those demands and youll be on your own.and there wont be anyone else.you dated him,you knew what he was like its hardly the worst thing in the world.i like puntual people,doesnt mean i'll make a big deal if their late.just arrange to meet the next one at 8pm for instance and always get there at quarter past he'll soon get the message | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/10/2007 3:12:23 PM | my ex was constantly talkng to himself and he never remembered anything that I told him ..he had a very bad memory when it came to stuff that needed to be done or appoitments....I hated when you told him something and then a few minutes later he wouls say " what did you say " drove me nuts having to repeat myself all the time!  | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/10/2007 3:23:11 PM | | men being consistently late for dates drive me crazy..i always make a point of being a little early so,it frustrates me even more when they are say 1/2 hr or mor late then our agreed upon time. | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/10/2007 3:57:52 PM | | "Do you really want THAT?" "Do you want to eat THERE?" "You want to watch THIS?" Passive-agressive whining drives me out of my mind. | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/10/2007 4:08:11 PM | | Saying "I don't care" to absolutely everything. Where do you want to eat? I don't care. What would you like to do tonight? I don't care. Where should we go on vacation this year? I don't care. Do you mind if I screw the neighbor man? I don't care. Ok, I made the last one up, but he probably would have said it, lol... Then to top it off, if I asked where do you want to eat, he'd say, I don't care. I would say, then let's do pizza hut and he'd say, oh, I don't want to go there. So I say, well, then where? I don't care, just anywhere but there. | |
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| annoying habits that drive u up the wall Posted: 12/10/2007 6:37:20 PM | | Changing the channel while watching a show “because commercials are on”, but not getting back to the original show, asking where I want to go for dinner then vetoing every suggestion until the place that person really wanted to go to gets named (why pretend to care?), or being asked, “why is that guy looking at you?” when out in public. | |
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