| Can anyone help me? [CLOSED, see note within]
Posted: 12/5/2007 5:25:23 PM | theres a guy i dated for about 2 1/2 months,who i met on this site.he keeps making up new accounts to contact me.i dont want to talk to him.i broke up with him a total of 3 times.but he keeps making new accounts on here and harassing me.he has 4 right now.i change my mail settings but he makes new accounts and changes his age.i dont know what to do.i dont think i should have to quit this site over that.anyone know what i can do?or even say to him to get him to leave me alone.i tell him i dont want to talk to him but he doesnt listen.and just two days ago he sent me and email telling me everything that is wrong with me but then the last paragraph said no one would ever love him like he loves me.and then he wrote i hope you die.and today he made a new account!!i really need some advice.
this guy is in his 20's btw | |
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| Can anyone help me?
Posted: 12/5/2007 5:28:51 PM | Just keep reporting and blocking him.
Also you may want to speak to your local law enforcement, stalking is not taken as lightly as it was once up on a time. | |
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Posted: 12/5/2007 5:30:22 PM | Here is the link for instructions on reporting abuse.
http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts4402568.aspx
Additionally what you should be doing is saving the emails (and your responses) to a word file or other file off the site, then you can block him and still have the emails. If you have contact with a moderator then you have proof of what he's sent, and what his different usernames have been. Save it all, it's evidence. | |
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Posted: 12/5/2007 5:36:06 PM | Jenna, just keep blocking and ignoring him, DO NOT reply back to his emails, the worse thing you can do is keep fueling him, the best way to get rid of these pest is to ignore, block, delete don't give him one ounce of attention bad or good NOTHING.
Keep reporting him, SAVE the emails, and one day he may get the hint or have the boys from law enforcement knock on his door. | |
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Posted: 12/5/2007 5:38:39 PM | | ive stopped reading and replying to them but he just makes new accounts and new email addresses and i delete them and he sends them again.i saved some old messages.i dont think he'll ever get it.he drives me insane. | |
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Posted: 12/5/2007 5:42:32 PM | | Yeah, this doesn't sound like a good situation. You should get someone else involved and not handle it yourself. If he is saying he wants you to die..there is something seriously wrong there. | |
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Posted: 12/5/2007 5:43:35 PM | Have you thought of deleting your current account, and making a new one?
You can bookmark all of your favourites and add them to your new account. Your emails get deleted after a month, anyway, and anyone who you are currently in contact with, you can email to let them know you have changed your account.
Just a suggestion. | |
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Posted: 12/5/2007 5:43:54 PM | I agree with post 2 to just keep blocking and reporting him if he sends you nasty email but I want to add.... look for someone to fix him up with and send him the persons profile ( its an option on the site) so he will find someone else and grow tired of emailing you | |
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Posted: 12/5/2007 5:44:36 PM | | In situations like this. It would be good to be able to call him out to the rest of us. Then maybe... | |
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Posted: 12/5/2007 5:45:48 PM | Report him right away as there is something very unstable about him and you have no need to take it or be nice about it.
I am about to report someone myself. What is up with people who just don't take rejection well? | |
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