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Posted: 12/6/2007 11:59:04 AM | I was in really good relationship until she asked me for some space which I really never gave her cause I was confused and relaying on past experiences that the relationship is done! So I never gave her her space really cause I phoned her every day after work even when I was working out of town. I then got the silent treatment from her so I started to phone her with pissed off messages.
Just need to know if i should give her some time then call her again to see if we can work things out? | |
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| is it possible for another chance ?
Posted: 12/6/2007 12:08:25 PM | Have you ever needed space? Would you give you another chance if you were her?
Got to put the past in the past, chicks hate being compared to ex's. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 12:15:09 PM | I see the only way for a second chance now is if you let her come to you. I'd have to say you've pretty much blown the opportunity to make the first move.
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Posted: 12/6/2007 12:16:32 PM | Firstly, it could not have been that "good" if she asked for some space. There was something brewing.
When someone asks for space 9 out of 10 times, they are not "feeling" the other person/the relationship OR there may be another person in the picture. However, you should tell them how you feel about them and bow out gracefully. Give them their space.
Going against their wishes will only make matters worse/alienate them from you. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 12:18:11 PM | | "Give me my space" really means, "I wish he would find a space far, far away, for I am through toying with him..." The meaning is universally shared by both sexes. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 12:28:06 PM |
I was in really good relationship until she asked me for some space which I really never gave her cause I was confused and relaying on past experiences that the relationship is done!
So your SO asked for something you refused to give her (because of another situation that had nothing to do with her), and you're making excuses for your behavior...
So I never gave her her space really cause I phoned her every day after work even when I was working out of town.
So you completely ignored her request and disrespected her enough to do the exact opposite of what she wanted?
I then got the silent treatment from her so I started to phone her with pissed off messages.
So she decided not to communicate with you anymore because you showed no respect for her and then you decided to treat her like crap to get back at her?
Just need to know if i should give her some time then call her again to see if we can work things out?
You should give her the rest of her life. If you care about her as much as you think you do let her move on with her life and find someone who treats her better. Then work on yourself. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 12:31:53 PM | If you didn`t give her space, you were disrespecting her. If you then called with nasty messages because she didn`t return your call, you were disrespecting her again.
What was it guy`s call women , when they do this?
Hang it up dude, you probably scared the crap out of her.
Just learn from this. Try to learn how to respect women. They are people, not property.
Maybe if you are lucky you will get a chance with another nice woman some day. Try to figure out what you did wrong, learn from it, and try not to do it again.
Women don`t deal with this kind of behavior any more. They don`t have to. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 12:37:59 PM | First of all....You already admit you never gave her ANY space to speak of from the very beginning.
Too much togetherness is very tiring, emotionally and physically. She had to ASK for space? you should have taken her request seriously. I agree with merry, you showed her NO respect whatsoever. Smothering is NOT love. It is obsessive behaviour, plain and simple. You need outside interests, she needs outside interests, otherwise, what is there to talk about?
Learn how to be by yourself, then, learn how to have friendships. Then, maybe, you might learn how to treat a woman. good luck.
P.S. you might want to write her a note, tell her you are sorry that you were so disrespectful. If she does not respond, then call it a day. And feel better that you did acknowledge fault in the matter. AND DON'T DO IT AGAIN!!! | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 12:39:40 PM | | you annoyed her dude.if you were calling her everyday after work after she requested for space.(which means go away)i can just imagine how many times you were phoning her before that.i think you might have some self esttem issues to deal with.good luck. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 12:43:18 PM | Ummm... let's see... how to put this nicely....
Sorry buddy... but yer toast... yer history... yer done!! You HAD your opportunity to "give her her space"... now you're just a freak!!! (I mean this from her perspective) | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 12:54:34 PM |
P.S. you might want to write her a note, tell her you are sorry that you were so disrespectful. If she does not respond, then call it a day. And feel better that you did acknowledge fault in the matter. AND DON'T DO IT AGAIN!!!
I'm a hopeless romantic. If you really are sorry and you can behave better, you should let her know that you are sorry and you understand why she left and let her know that you would like a second chance. Then it's up to her. (don't bug her about it!) | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 1:03:54 PM | Reread brandiw's comments...... read it the same amount of times as you called the ex after she asked you to back off.... There may be hope for you after that exercise but probably not with this same girl.
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Posted: 12/6/2007 1:09:41 PM | It's possible, but not likely. When a woman says she needs her space, it's over.
Your insistance and possible vulgar phone calls sealed the deal. It's better to display an aire of mystery in these situations. Constantly not giving her her wishes, just pissed her off more. In the future if she lends you her ear, or agress to see you, don't mess it up! Be cool! Experience in this I have, been there done that.... | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 2:28:20 PM |
so I started to phone her with pissed off messages.
Give her time? Are you kidding? You are a done deal. History. Finito. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 4:17:47 PM | I'm agreeing with Brandi (MSG 6) on this one.
You'd be lucky if she decided to give you another chance, AND, she'd be..well...dumb for deciding to do so.
Dude, take a hint!
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Posted: 12/6/2007 5:02:46 PM | | Women in love don't ask for space, they have all they want. I would suspect you are the type who smothered the relationship. Learn the lesson and move on - she's done with you. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 5:03:22 PM | Oh boy, you might as well put the sauce on the chicken, and put a fork in it, its done, as in its over
Needing space is usually the finishing touch on a already dead relationship, sounds like you probably smothered her and now she wants out and hasnt the heart to tell you.
Best thing is to leave her alone, dont call, email, text even send a pigeon with a note, if you continue communicating with her, she might take that as a sign of clingy ( level 5) stalking, and she might become quite bitter, do you want that?
best to let her go do other things to occupy your mind and time, if she comes back well fine, if she dont You will know young grasshopper. | |
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Posted: 12/6/2007 5:08:13 PM |
Yup! Or perhaps Nope would be the better answer. The picture at this point is a little bleak, unfortunately..
But take that with you. It will serve you well in the future.
-Suth'nBoy 
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Posted: 12/6/2007 5:09:58 PM | OP.......although anything is possible, in about 92% of cases the so called "SECOND CHANCE", failed. The main reason for this is the fact once something is done, something is said, it is a matter of record. The human brain, once something is implanted, especially something not good, seems to be there for some time. Every time a similar situation arises, the memory kicks in and doomsday. However, it would probably not hurt to give her some time, and call , but becareful of the stalking thing.
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