| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 2:07:05 PM | | This guy i'm with always says how much he loves it when I go down on him and I think he might prefer that over sex! I feel he is obsessed with b-jobs, but he says he likes having sex with me too, what does that mean? | |
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eazk
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Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 3 | |
| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 2:13:42 PM | Guys love the fact that someone cares about their d1ck as much or possibly even more than they do. BJ's are a fantastic way of communicating that sense.
Plus...the guy gets to be pretty darn lazy and still get off...sheeesh, give him a beer and a remote and he's in Nirvana. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 2:15:47 PM | Maybe you give really good BJ's?
I wouldnt worry too much about it, unless it bothers you. If you don't like going down so much then maybe you should talk to him about it. If you enjoy him and he seems to enjoy you then just go with it. He may like it more but that is nothing againts you. You are the one giving the BJ and not every woman is good at it. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 2:17:51 PM | | I think eazk pointed out the reason why I like them so much. Shows a woman cares about one of the most important areas for a man sexually. Also, some people like oral, both giving and getting more than they do sex. Just a matter of personal preference. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 4:37:38 PM | I love a man that loves a BJ!! One of my favorite activities!  I think that people should just go with the enjoyment of their partner and it will c0me back to them twofold. One persons fullfillment & joy turns into your own - when you participate in achieving bliss. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 6:09:26 PM | | Wow, I haven't really thought about why befoe but I think eazk nailed it...no pun intended. To see a woman worship the center of it all for a guy is a very appealing visual. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 6:23:05 PM | my guy loves BJ's way more than sex.. hell if he had his way, he'd get only BJ's and I'd get nothing (which doesn't really differ from now)
we've been together for 3 years.. and I can count on 2 hands how many times he's went down on me.. I've went down on him hundreds of times..
ya know.. he was an animal in bed.. then we got married..
(sorry I'm just thinking out loud here haha) | |
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exxess
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Joined: 1/31/2006
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| Just means your good a bj's
Posted: 12/6/2007 6:30:53 PM | | How can you call that a problem? I have a three word definition for a woman who likes to receive oral as much as your boyfriend-A REAL FIND! Guys, am I right?? | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 7:02:20 PM |
This guy i'm with always says how much he loves it when I go down on him and I think he might prefer that over sex! I feel he is obsessed with b-jobs, but he says he likes having sex with me too, what does that mean?
It simply means he likes blowjobs. If done right, a blowjob can feel a lot better than intercourse. Nothing wrong with a little bj obsession.  | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 7:38:33 PM | When my guy and I first started talking about sex, he claimed he "didnt like the idea of having a girl go down on him." .....
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Not only did I change his view points on how many times a day we have sex or fool around but he practically begs me for a bj  
Damn I feel accomplished | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 8:12:23 PM | Of course a bj can be better than sex itself. But it also matters on how good she is. I've had women that weren't so good and I'd rather had sex with her than a bj. Now I'm with one that gives awsome bj's and I'd prefer that than sex.
That being said, you should be proud of yourself cause obviously your damn good at bj's
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 10:31:20 PM | I'm one who loves giving, but it got to a point where it was all I did and he started expecting it. And, frustratingly, it became all about him and when he didn't get it, he'd gripe and whine. I got none.
If he loves what you do for him, you're doing it well, keep on, but don't let it be all you do and not have anything in your sex life reciprocated. It's a two way street. Sorry guys. In my opinion, you may not always want or like to go down on someone, but even out of caring, wouldn't you try to at least please your s/o in some ways, sexually?
If it gets to be all they want, be it male or female, and not much else, it seems pretty selfish.
Just my opinion. | |
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| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 11:09:13 PM | | either way you both have to be happy,if he is not satisfying you aswell,there is a problem.i personaly love a good bj,but if my partener is uncomfortable with the act then oh well.if its uncomfortable it is not good sex. | |
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eazk
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Joined: 9/8/2006
Msg: 25 | |
| can a guy like a bj better than sex?
Posted: 12/6/2007 11:14:54 PM | Violet~...not just yes...but he11 yes. While I love the relaxing blowjob, I would always prefer to have her astride my face, allowing her to control the firmness of her grind, while I control where my tongue and fingers go and what I do.
Alternatively, if she likes to go at me from the side, I just ask that her pu$$y is positioned such that I can provide her some manual stimulation.
But all in all, on the knees...with our eyes locked together...is outstanding, so that one can completely relax and enjoy and the other one can witness the levels of pleasure. And yes, that works both ways.
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