| are these 'normal' questions for a girl to ask?
Posted: 12/8/2007 8:45:17 PM | By 'normal' I mean innocent, ordinary table-talk conversation with no special hidden significant meaning.
Was talkin to a girl at school, not someone I hang out with but she's in a few of my classes and I know her enough to say hi when passing her in the hallway but that's it. She asked about my 'wife' and I told her no I have a gf.
"Oh, is she needy?"
"Is she clingy?"
"Does she call you constantly?"
"Does she treat you okay?"
Are these like random curious questions or... | |
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| are these 'normal' questions for a girl to ask?
Posted: 12/8/2007 8:51:47 PM | Reading the questions and seeing that you are in school, I thought that you are 19... But, then I looked at your profile, OP, and see that you are not...
Unless this is atroll thread, in my opinion this question denotes a serious lack of understanding of social interactions. Surely you don't think that those are just random questions to ask... Not by a girl that's passing in the hallway...
By the way, how does that work? She walks by, says "Hi. Is your wife needy?"
Pfffft.
Me thinks there is more to that ... + troll thread.
So, is this a random question or attention seeking question? | |
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| are these 'normal' questions for a girl to ask?
Posted: 12/8/2007 8:53:41 PM | No, I don't think those would be considered 'normal' by many standards.
I'd think that a normal conversation with someone you are only acquainted with and not 'friends' wouldn't really include your relationship at all. Perhaps they would ask if you had kids, and then steer the conversation from there.
I wonder if she didn't ask those questions to compare to herself...maybe she thinks she is too clingy or calls her bf too much.
Did she talk about her relationship at all?
Did you bash your gf and tell the girl that 'yea my gf is super clingy, very needy and that your phone vibrates off you hip 24/7?
Maybe if you had the girl would have opened up a bit more | |
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| are these 'normal' questions for a girl to ask?
Posted: 12/8/2007 8:58:44 PM |
So, is this a random question or attention seeking question?
Well if it's an innocent question my reply would be that its a random question.
If its an attention seeking question my reply would be that its a random question.
No sense answering that I guess. 
I don't like need or want attention. I'm just curious.
Did she talk about her relationship at all?
Actually yeah she talked a bit about her fiance after.
She's looking for a kink in the married armor. She's hoping your woman's a head case so she can zoom in and make it ALLLLLLLLLLLLL better.
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| are these 'normal' questions for a girl to ask?
Posted: 12/8/2007 8:58:54 PM | | I, too, thought you were 17 or something based on your post. THIRTY FOUR????? I hope you are studying psychology in school. You appear to be clueless. On more than one level. | |
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| are these 'normal' questions for a girl to ask?
Posted: 12/8/2007 9:00:01 PM | They aren't 'normal' questions I would ask. In fact, I don't know any woman who would ask those questions of someone they hardly know. The only two scenarios I can come up with for her asking these questions would be:
1) She is interested in you and wants to know how your relationship is going. Perhaps she's hoping by making you question your relationship, you'll dump your g/f and ask her out.
2) She is in a relationship where she does those things and wants to know if it's common female behavior or what a guy would feel about a woman acting that way.
That's just a guess, since my crystal ball needs cleaning. | |
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| are these 'normal' questions for a girl to ask?
Posted: 12/8/2007 10:37:01 PM | | You're in healthcare, studying to be a nurse. My brother lived opposite a nursing students' hall of residence for one year. He described them approximately as being: "an absolutely brazen and heartless bunch of maneaters who'd go after anything in trousers". Obviously all nursing students aren't like that, but if a noticeably large proportion are, the chances are that the girl you're talking to could be. It does sound like she is trying to see how much of a chance she has, in a very unsubtle way. Take care not to show any chinks or any interest. | |
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