| Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion? Posted: 12/11/2007 7:17:55 PM | | Many of us have probably heard stories about young attractive women having an affair with a male boss or higher ranking male to get promoted at their job. Suppose the tables were turned and your boss is an older woman. Would you have an affair with her to get a promotion? Would you depend on how attractive she is? I'm just curious. | |
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| Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion? Posted: 12/11/2007 7:35:19 PM | | I would have an affair only if I was attracted to her. I wouldn't have sex with her just to get a promotion. There could be a catch to it. What would happen if I stopped the affair for some reason? She could demote me, fire me, or accuse me of sexual harassment. | |
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| Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion? Posted: 12/11/2007 7:48:36 PM | First things first Op, How old, How Hot, and How much raise we talking about? If we're talking Demi Moore Hot, then yeah just call me the new Junior partner and start clearing out that corner office. If we're talking Rosie O'Donnell, then I got to do some prep work to get my head right and then "Show me the Money." LOL
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| Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion? Posted: 12/11/2007 7:50:52 PM | uhhh.. NO. I don't care if she was stunning beautiful, available, and wanted me.
If I was up for a promotion, and she was one of the people to cast her ballot, would she use that for me or against me? If she voted to promote me, would it be because of my professionalism, or because of my bedroom skills?
What if the affair ended..and ended POORLY! Would you be able to work in that kind of atmosphere?
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| Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion? Posted: 12/11/2007 7:52:14 PM |
If we're talking Rosie O'Donnell, then I got to do some prep work to get my head right and then "Show me the Money." LOL
Sorry....but even a couple 'preps'of ACID couldn't get me to hallucinate Jennifer Love Hewitt out of THAT one...... | |
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| Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion? Posted: 12/11/2007 8:21:58 PM | Simply no.... very poor (and illegal in the U.S.) for her to put you in that position and has the potential of a career limiting (or ending) move for the both of you. Anyone placing a co-worker in that position is neither thinking about the company, themselves, or you professionally. The fantasy is AWESOME, but the reality should not be entertained!
my $0.02
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| Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion? Posted: 12/11/2007 8:40:23 PM | If I had an older female boss who could provide career and industry insight, open doors and advance my career within the company, then I'd want to develop a strong professional relationship with her. If she was interested in me on a personal level, I'd certainly give some thought to possibilities. There would have to be at least some compatibility for any intimate activity to occur. However, if she's an intelligent, assertive, effective leader, she's attractive already. Anyway, if she's my boss and she wants me, I'm probably going to have to go along with it anyway.
If she's decently attractive, she just wants a fling, and the promotion is a sure thing, then it's a no brainer. However, if she's looking for long term and I don't see things developing that way, it would be unethical to lead her on just to get a promotion. | |
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| Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion? Posted: 12/11/2007 11:08:15 PM | | I would not have sex with her to get any job. Ide have sex with her because im a ho! And ide have sex with her! If i got a better job at the end ide take it. Ide take a car to if she wanted to give me one. If she wanted to give me a car after I had sex with her I would consider doen it for a liven, cause like I said I am a ho! But if I have a steady woman I would never cheat with the boss cause I aint a cheater. Hey some us ho's is good guys we just ho's cause we are lonely and well cause it feals really really great! | |
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| Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion? Posted: 12/12/2007 12:36:33 AM | There is an old saying that applies here. Don't sh*t where you eat!
If there is a serious chance of a long term relationship happening and the two people are adults then an exception to the above saying might be called for. But for the situation you are asking about is just asking for problems and is at its core a poor decision to accept. There are too many other ladders to climb, if that is something you like doing, that are much more healthy than that horrible situation. | |
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