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 bostonsportsgal789

Joined: 12/4/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:17:55 PM
Many of us have probably heard stories about young attractive women having an affair with a male boss or higher ranking male to get promoted at their job. Suppose the tables were turned and your boss is an older woman. Would you have an affair with her to get a promotion? Would you depend on how attractive she is? I'm just curious.
 MrVitamix

Joined: 8/26/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:21:58 PM
flirt with maybe... have sex with ONLY if I was attracted to her sexually... but more flirting than anything, after all....
if you give it all away too soon, you may not get the job...and just be used for your penis.
lol
 someplace***

Joined: 5/15/2007
Msg: 3
Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:27:57 PM

Would you have an affair with her to get a promotion?
No.
 northeast25

Joined: 12/4/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:35:19 PM
I would have an affair only if I was attracted to her. I wouldn't have sex with her just to get a promotion. There could be a catch to it. What would happen if I stopped the affair for some reason? She could demote me, fire me, or accuse me of sexual harassment.
 swordfisher8

Joined: 8/17/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:48:36 PM
First things first Op, How old, How Hot, and How much raise we talking about? If we're talking Demi Moore Hot, then yeah just call me the new Junior partner and start clearing out that corner office. If we're talking Rosie O'Donnell, then I got to do some prep work to get my head right and then "Show me the Money." LOL

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 Smilin_bob

Joined: 8/7/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:50:52 PM
uhhh.. NO. I don't care if she was stunning beautiful, available, and wanted me.

If I was up for a promotion, and she was one of the people to cast her ballot, would she use that for me or against me? If she voted to promote me, would it be because of my professionalism, or because of my bedroom skills?

What if the affair ended..and ended POORLY! Would you be able to work in that kind of atmosphere?

 soxxs

Joined: 8/27/2007
Msg: 7
Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:50:59 PM
Only if I were working at Home Depot and could move up the ladder to Power Tools instead of fork lift driver. Or maybe be in charge of the KEY to the fencing in front of the store.
 Stray__Cat

Joined: 7/12/2006
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:52:10 PM
No.

If she was pretty and interesting I may have sex with her for that reason.
But only if I intended to work elsewhere.
Those things never work out proffessionally.
Especially with a woman boss.
 dashriprock223

Joined: 10/6/2007
Msg: 9
Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:52:14 PM

If we're talking Rosie O'Donnell, then I got to do some prep work to get my head right and then "Show me the Money." LOL


Sorry....but even a couple 'preps'of ACID couldn't get me to hallucinate Jennifer Love Hewitt out of THAT one......
 timeforacoolchange

Joined: 11/14/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 7:58:06 PM
Actually I thought she was talking about "going " to a fair so we went to one of those county ones... I was fired...
 TonyAlmeda

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 11
Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 8:02:58 PM
if she was hot and can give great head, for sure
 Karrpilot

Joined: 1/26/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 8:12:48 PM
I have never worked for a female boss. Would that be part of the benefits package? Where do i sign up?
 SlowHandMan44

Joined: 2/15/2007
Msg: 13
Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 8:21:58 PM
Simply no.... very poor (and illegal in the U.S.) for her to put you in that position and has the potential of a career limiting (or ending) move for the both of you. Anyone placing a co-worker in that position is neither thinking about the company, themselves, or you professionally. The fantasy is AWESOME, but the reality should not be entertained!

my $0.02

 Doouglass

Joined: 2/26/2006
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 8:28:40 PM
Nope.

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 h0ldfast

Joined: 12/19/2006
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 8:40:23 PM
If I had an older female boss who could provide career and industry insight, open doors and advance my career within the company, then I'd want to develop a strong professional relationship with her. If she was interested in me on a personal level, I'd certainly give some thought to possibilities. There would have to be at least some compatibility for any intimate activity to occur. However, if she's an intelligent, assertive, effective leader, she's attractive already. Anyway, if she's my boss and she wants me, I'm probably going to have to go along with it anyway.

If she's decently attractive, she just wants a fling, and the promotion is a sure thing, then it's a no brainer. However, if she's looking for long term and I don't see things developing that way, it would be unethical to lead her on just to get a promotion.
 Boomstrike

Joined: 12/1/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 8:51:06 PM
No. I have a policy of not getting involved with women at work, period. Even if I didn't adhere to that policy, I still wouldn't sleep with my boss for a promotion.
 Moto Monkey

Joined: 11/3/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 9:20:50 PM
I would bang her just because she asked. I was not raised to consider my sex as an especial treasure to be bargained away for gain. If she wants it, she can have it. I mean, c'mon, men are not women.
 Random Entry

Joined: 12/30/2006
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 10:23:21 PM
affair, meaning some one is married? absolutely not.
 hiptoitnow

Joined: 8/25/2006
Msg: 19
Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 11:08:15 PM
I would not have sex with her to get any job. Ide have sex with her because im a ho! And ide have sex with her! If i got a better job at the end ide take it. Ide take a car to if she wanted to give me one. If she wanted to give me a car after I had sex with her I would consider doen it for a liven, cause like I said I am a ho! But if I have a steady woman I would never cheat with the boss cause I aint a cheater. Hey some us ho's is good guys we just ho's cause we are lonely and well cause it feals really really great!
 Boomstrike

Joined: 12/1/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 11:12:40 PM
Actually, if I did sleep with the boss it would probably result in getting demoted or fired.
 darklord666

Joined: 12/6/2007
Msg: 21
Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/11/2007 11:19:55 PM
I think its a bad idea to have a relationship or even sex with anyone you work with, especially your boss. If things don't work out and a break up happens, it's going to make your work place awkward.
 UniqueManinSoCal

Joined: 8/26/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/12/2007 12:36:33 AM
There is an old saying that applies here. Don't sh*t where you eat!

If there is a serious chance of a long term relationship happening and the two people are adults then an exception to the above saying might be called for. But for the situation you are asking about is just asking for problems and is at its core a poor decision to accept. There are too many other ladders to climb, if that is something you like doing, that are much more healthy than that horrible situation.
 jrbogie

Joined: 8/31/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/12/2007 12:43:37 AM
I would never have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion. I did have an affair with a female boss because we were hot for each other though.
 Aurora772

Joined: 12/1/2007
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/12/2007 4:19:00 AM
No. If the situation went south, who is going to be believed? Hint: it's not the guy.
 Slappy15767

Joined: 6/25/2006
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Would you have an affair with a female boss for a job promotion?
Posted: 12/12/2007 6:59:45 AM
If there was any spark there at all, we would have never gotten to the discussion about a promotion.
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