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Posted: 12/18/2007 10:05:32 AM | What would happen to you if you have fell in love with some one who was telling you
"lies"
since you met her , what would happen to you if you have found out that the cute
and innocent face which you used to see in every morning is just a mask and it wasn't
the real face for her , what would happen to you if all good things you had was faked by
someone who has no conscience ?
i'm wondering about all these and i'm wondering why there's always lies in love. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 10:10:43 AM | | Been with a women like that, worst feeling in the world when you finnaly understand it all. 5 months of lies I did not realize till the end and I looked back at it all. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 10:12:03 AM | I've met people like that many times. You downgrade the relationship into...
"I'll call you sometime when I need a laugh at your expense"
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Posted: 12/18/2007 10:15:35 AM | | What would happen is that I'd have to end the relationship. It would kill me if I have deep feelings for her, but you just can't live with that in your life. Good luck! | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 10:16:32 AM | | You just have to be better at spotting the lies. Ask questions. Ferret out the information. Her friends know if she lies, so once you suspect one.... Go to the well of spring! Nipping bad behaviour in the bud is key if you want the relationship to continue. While she might not think her lies are serious, they damage her credibilty when it comes down to the ugly parts of relationships. And if there's no hope? Walk away knowing that you did what you could. That's being highly optimistic... On the pessimists side, once a liar, always a liar.... | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 10:17:06 AM | | to me if you can lie and do other bad things to someone you don't love that person. so therefor I do not believe there is always lies in love, if you truely loved someone you just wouldn't do that to them. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 10:21:37 AM | if everything was based on lies, nothing was real....then the reality is that everything, is nothing..
nothing to believe in or hang around for.. no point in trying to make something out of nothing.. time to move on | |
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jebra
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Joined: 5/9/2007
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Posted: 12/18/2007 10:26:11 AM | | Learn from it dude... people that lie make you sense they are dodgy quite quickly but you tend to ignor it. When you feel it...just get out... dont keep making excuses for them | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 10:34:57 AM | | I can;t tell you how many fake photos or rediculously outdated photos Ive seen from people. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 11:11:32 AM | End it..plain and simple.
And this doesn't always happen, nor is it done by everyone. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 11:23:42 AM | Hey there guy ...
Lies are in relationships (or at least in the beginning) because people tend to be afraid of what you will think of the 'real' them ... the outside package is apparently a big thing ... but it really shouldn't be.
If the chick that you like is nice, sweet, and you enjoy her company, what does a change in her picture mean? Yea, that was a low blow that she didn't fess up from the get go, but now what? You say you have fallen in love? What does a picture mean really/ Enough to lose love, when you are clearly here to get love? That was wrong of her, but it doesn't mean that she doesn't have a conscious. Maybe she initially came on here to mess around and have a couple of good laughs. Maybe she met you and didn't think initially that it would become anything serious .... the answer is only hers to give to you though.
What is it worth to you? A pretty face is a pretty face, but what is the feeling that you get under any other condition?
Good luck in the game Baby!! ... and don't be quite so dramatic, it is what it is, and you can only do something after you get over that drama thing :)
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Posted: 12/18/2007 11:30:24 AM | everybody lies but since nobody listens, it doesn't matter.
now that i've been the ray of sunshine, i think i'll be on with the rest of my day. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 11:36:08 AM | lies lies lies for the 5 months you were in the " relationship" I would say there wasnt any. A relationship encompass two people working toward one goal...........happiness | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 12:44:05 PM | | I just passed on the last relationship of 2 years due to habitual lying. Caught him in some winners and he just made up more lies to cover those ones. Huge character flaw that I can't live with. Weak ego and poor self esteem I am presuming but if you can't trust someone with the truth then it simply isnt a relationship at all. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 12:49:36 PM | | Yeah I realize that now, Live and learn and move on! | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 1:00:18 PM | | Been there done that got the tshirt. I gave her a second chance and she blew that also. There was no 3rd chance. She got divorce paperwork served on her. | |
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Joined: 12/2/2007
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Posted: 12/18/2007 2:03:12 PM | | I'd thank my lucky stars i got out sooner rather than later and hey we're not all liers - im honest and dont feel the need to lie in life so dont loose hope | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 4:27:57 PM | We all know this, we just forget sometimes: Liars don't remember the lies they tell, so they will create more lies to cover up the other lies they told, and on and on it goes! It sucks! oops, sorry about that, but it makes you feel terrible inside. Dirty creeps.
Some people live their whole lives this way and they really don't believe they are lying. It's almost like a programmed mind set, it starts out at a very young age and they never stop because why? I always thought maybe their parents didn't correct them, and allowed them to be this way, so they grow up being a pathological liar. 
Have meet many of them in my life and continue to do so.
I learned that within the first six months anybody can be whatever they want to be, after that time the truth finally comes out. Believe it! Some people are better at the cover ups then others, but normally, it takes between six and seven months for the true colors and character to come shining through like a big tidal wave, it comes and knock you right down your knees and your face is buried in sand! Hello liar!!
 Sorry, I know how it hurts to care about a liar.
Blessings,
Chela  | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 4:35:10 PM | No No No
there's always lies in love.
There are indubitably absolutely honest-to-goodness not
" always lies in love."
Sometimes? Yes unfortunately yes yes yes.
"Always"?
No. Not on your life.
And it is your life. Giving you 100% choice about what to hold onto. And what to dump in the nearest trash can. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 4:46:19 PM | 1. There's not always lies in love.
2. If they lie to such a great extent you don't love them- you love their representative.
It is much easier to let go of a relationship with a compulsive liar-- at least if you allow yourself to recognize it. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 4:46:33 PM | Actually, there are no lies in Love
and there is no losing in Love
that is...if it is love
It sounds as though you were involved in some permutation of love...such as enfatuation, fantasy, or magical thinking.
and every relationship is designed to get us closer to what the meaning of love really is.
its all about the lesson
see how much you have learned by this already?
Paz,
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Posted: 12/18/2007 5:06:14 PM | I guess it is always the best policy to tell the truth. The other day I saw a photo of me when i was 28, I was young, thin and beautiful. A thought past my mind about how if that picture were posted, I would get lots more attention. The problem is that, that person is not me. I am much smarter now, more educated and better off in so many ways. The fact that I am almost 50 and look as good as I do, is enough for me. It will be seen if it is enough for the next person I choose to be with. So guys..fall for the person. If it is true love ...then it will last. In the end..the heart of the person is so much more important that the outward appearance. The girls are really in a bad spot. The guy does the calling, they do the invitations and the girls sit back and have to wait. In this type of dating it appears that the attraction can end as fast as it started.
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Posted: 12/18/2007 5:18:34 PM | The worse lies are the lies by omission.
When they don't tell you what's really going on.
They don't tell you about the people they are really involved with. Up pops the real boyfriend/girlfriend. " Oh, didn't I tell you " ?
There may be secrets which you don't want someone to know about, ever.
Keeping a secret FWB, which no one will ever know. That's not a lie, that's just a secret.
But, lies of omission are real lies, since when the truth assuredly comes out somebody's been wasting their time.
Then it's hurtful and unfair. | |
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Posted: 12/18/2007 5:46:21 PM | | I've never been there. I think it is quite easy to tell when someone is full of shit. But if you go through life with blinders on you usually run into some bad types. | |
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