| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/25/2007 11:54:23 AM | Lately when masturbating I can't make myself c*m unless I imagine a young nurse or french maid or even sometimes a school girl getting their virginity taken - obviously it's hurting her - but she's enjoying it to.
What do you suppose it could mean? | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/25/2007 12:07:30 PM | | Could mean your a lesbian who's afraid of coming out based on persieved observations that your parents laid down with you, saying that being a lesbian is a sin or what not... and it could be a forsaken pleasure in a rebelious act against your parents beliefs... | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/25/2007 12:12:29 PM | | It doesn't necessarily mean anything more than it is just something that is getting you hot these days. Where are you in your imagination when the maid/nurse.school girl is being deflowered? Watching? Participating? | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/25/2007 12:15:12 PM | Now that you mention it, I suppose I'm the nurse/maid what ever. Having never been in a relastionship before; I'm still completely intact....
Electric tooth brushes don't count! | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/25/2007 12:22:57 PM | | In that case, it sounds as if you have an urge of some sort to lose your virginity in a forceful manner. That doesn't necessarily mean that you actually want it to happen that way, but the thought of it is obviously a turn-on for you. And of course, there is no harm in masturbating to naughty thoughts! | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/25/2007 3:03:07 PM | OP: I don't know about all women, just me. If I masturbate, I need a fantasy to go along w/the stimulation. THe brain is a very powerful sex toy. LOL Again, not sure if men are the same way or not.
The particular fantasies you chose are very common and "normal". But even more uncommon fantasies are fine too. Whatever rocks your boat. Your time with yourself is valuable...it is teaching you what works for ya.
Having someone take you by force, again, is a *very* common fantasy for both genders. I think often it has to do with wanting to give up control in a safe way. In our busy busy lives, we are faced with the need to constantly engage in self-control. Giving up that control is powerful. PLus, if someone takes you by force, that takes the decision out of your hands - resolves you of responsibility. Being a virgin (and probably trying to hold on to your virginity), I can see why that would be an attractive fantasy also.
That doesn't mean you want to be raped or actually be taken by force or have any of your fantasies happen to you. It just means the safe thought turns you on.
Another common fantasy for women is being taken by 2 or more men at the same time...not saying that it works for me (ha ha)...but I've always figured that had ot do with being *really* desirable. Who knows. But have I ever done that? Nope. Will I? I have no idea. Having the fantasy is very different from actually doing it. I'm afraid I"d chicken out. Ask me when I'm 80 yrs old and I"ll let you know if I ever did it.
Anyway, enjoy your fantasies, enjoy your safe sex practice. Enjoy being a woman!
Kaylie | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/25/2007 5:00:25 PM | Sounds like you are confused about your sexuality and that you need to understand that sex need not be painful! or/ Perhaps there is a bit of trolling going on here!  | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/25/2007 5:08:33 PM | ^^^^ What Leeanne said.
You might be just a bit confused as to your sexuality.
When you're masturbating/having sex, and you climax,
what you fantasize about that takes you to the peak and
makes you cum, is your sexuality.
That you're fantasizing sexually about woman during climax,
would be a strong indicator, that you are at least bisexual. | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/25/2007 5:47:14 PM | Just because this is your fantasy, does not mean you need to question your sexuality. People who say things like this, confuse people more than they need to.
If you are walking through malls looking at sexy women, then that's different.
If you may be the person in these fantasies, then how could that mean you are lesbian?
Its a proven fact that women do have more sex in their head than men do. Fantasies will change over time. They are just that, fantasies, enjoy them and don't worry about them, they are prefectly normal. | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/26/2007 12:25:41 AM | That you're fantasizing sexually about woman during climax,
would be a strong indicator, that you are at least bisexual.
I have to disagree with this statement. I can get myself off much more quicker to lesbian porn, then boy/girl porn.....and I very much prefer the company of a man....and I am not bi-sexual. However, I'm very single, I'm not dating, and I seem to have committment issues. Shite, time to start a new thread!  | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/26/2007 1:16:49 AM | I tend to believe it means nothing, except that you are fantazing about that at that moment.
Maybe next time it'll be something else.
And next time something else.
The best part of it all is. Whatever you think about, whatever situation you get yourself into in your mind, will always always be safe sex. Cause it's in your mind ;)
Heart | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/26/2007 2:53:20 AM | | Jo? the vibrator quitting after two hours? Did you use fresh batteries?????? lololololol...... | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/26/2007 4:45:54 AM | Not to worry, OP.......you've just got conflicting emotions when it comes to losing your virginity, like any thinking person would. KylieCat is on the right track.
It would be easier, & therefore, more passionate, if somebody took the decision-making process out of your hands (& mind) so you could just give in to lust....& not be clouded by doubt. Everybody wants passion in their lives. Hence the 'non-consent' fantasies.
At your age there is nothing wrong about waiting until you are good & ready to be fully intimate w/ someone. You might want to explore the reasons why you aren't ready....& if they are legit (& not just out of fear), then you can lay to rest any thoughts that you 'should' be having sex.
When it's right, you'll know it.......until then, don't worry about those type of fantasies, they are perfectly natural, & quite common. <img src=http://www.plentyoffish.com/smiles/icon_201.gif border=0> | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/26/2007 2:34:16 PM | | it doesnt mean anything fantasies change as you change doestnt mean anything what you like one month doestn mean you like it the next , its wahtever floats your boat at the time | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:06:21 PM | | New batteries didn't work I tried, I wore the damn thing out, and way too lazy to go buy a new one at this point. | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:23:00 PM | | It could mean that you have a great fantasy lined up for your next sexual encounter! Have an idea your partner might enjoy it even more than you do... | |
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| Can fantasies mean anything?
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:45:06 PM | Fantacies to me are something that I find hot and erotic, arousing... it does not make me a lesbian... but yes fantacizing about other women sure does the job... I think its the nature of womans body, touch... sensuality....
Sooner of later you'll be able to tell what it means... if you make that fantacy a reality...
Good luck in your "meaning" search.... | |
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