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 tom42149
Joined: 11/23/2006
Msg: 1
What age does female sexual urge die down?Page 1 of 6    (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)
Yes, I know there can be no set age put to this question, as individuals are all different, however I would truely appreciate a ball-park figure from you ladies. Simply put, I am tired of wasting efforts on woman who have simply lost interest, & have sex classified as something they USED to enjoy.
 Athulatha
Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 2
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/26/2007 9:41:54 PM
At exactly age 98 and 5 months. It's a scientific fact.


OP, there is NO answer to this. Some women have NEVER had a strong sex drive. Some women develop a STRONGER drive as they get older. Some it WEAKENS. Some are ALWAYS horny at any age (visit the "Sex and Dating forum for examples of this).

Try looking for women who stay active in most aspects of their life. They will have more stamina and might just never want to stop being active (even when it is time to sleep )

You could also try newly divorced women who might be going through a mid-life crisis and want to "prove" to themselves that they are still young and adventurous.
 Herding Cats
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 3
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/26/2007 9:43:32 PM
What age does female sexual urge die down?


Well, in the Praying Mantis, the urge dies as soon as she finishes devouring her mate from the head down.

Seriously, OP... Is this just an excuse to whine?

It's as different for women as it will be for you when you require a little blue pill to keep it up. The only difference for a woman is that a little dab of lube will get the job done without having to go to the lengths (pardon the pun) of ingesting chemicals to pretend we're still 18.

Generally, it's not that the urges for women aren't there, it's that their prospective partner isn't doing it for them. Maybe he stinks. Maybe he's got boogers hanging in the nostril hairs and flapping in the breeze.

There are a million and one reasons a woman might not want to sleep with you and it might not have anything to do with her "urge dying down".

She just ain't into you.
 Bluezzz
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 4
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/26/2007 9:59:52 PM
OP, it varies with each woman... I know this because all the women I date have this condition and it always starts out with them saying "... it's not you Bluezzz, really.., it's me" and it goes downhill from there. I'm a trusting soul, so I've always believed them. As soon as I pay off all their bills, I'm so outta there!



Bluezzz
 tom42149
Joined: 11/23/2006
Msg: 5
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/26/2007 10:00:50 PM
Herding CatsAll you answers made sense. NO, this was NOT just to whine! I had hoped to get to get a ball park figure, but doesn't seem any of you women care to give me one. As to your comment about /' When I need the little blue pill, I'm not ashamed to state that I have already been to the local pharmacy a few times in the past. And expect to remain a steady customer, for as long as the pills do there job!
 Discofied
Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 6
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/26/2007 10:22:28 PM
It's not that we don't want to give you an answer, but rather, we are not able to give you one. It is truly different for each woman; there is no specific age in which it can happen. Sorry, but if you were hoping to use our answers as an indicator of the maximum age you are going to date, you won't find any "relief" here.
 Deceased~
Joined: 9/16/2007
Msg: 7
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/26/2007 10:56:28 PM
It is simple. None of them have made it to the point where that is the case so how would any of them know? It very well could be exactly at age 98.5 and none here are that old yet.

Seriously. I knew a woman who told me she asked her 75 year old grandmother if she still did it with her husband and she told me that grandma said "yes."
 IMGOLD
Joined: 9/1/2007
Msg: 8
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:01:38 PM
What? It dies down?
 americaninthailand
Joined: 12/15/2007
Msg: 9
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:16:27 PM
When all the men that hit on you make you want to barf and you can't find someone who turns you on anymore.
 Frau Blücher
Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 10
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/26/2007 11:28:22 PM

I had hoped to get to get a ball park figure, but doesn't seem any of you women care to give me one.


Ball park figure? This ain't Jacobs Field.

Oh somewhere in this dating land the sun is shining bright
A man is screwing somewhere, and somewhere poon is tight
And somewhere guys are humping, and somewhere women shout
But there is no joy in Mudville, your Viagra’s done run out


 piscescoda
Joined: 6/17/2005
Msg: 11
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 12:46:22 AM
When you get too ugly to lay, I guess.
 nexthyme
Joined: 9/12/2007
Msg: 12
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What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 1:27:30 AM
Sunshine, men and women have a thing in common with the snow flakes... Know what that is????

Each and everyone is completely different.

And the fact of the matter is, we women are not all that interesting to the medical profession, so as to do a scientific survey as to when we find sex as interesting as watching paint dry.

Sorry, you are on your own with this one, just like those of us gals who like sex, and want to know when Mr happy hotdog no longer gets excited to see us...
 *~*ChardyGirl*~*
Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 13
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 5:40:10 AM
It doesn't..........................................................
Oh,damn ....have to make this longer,so,think i'll say that i really got a laugh out of Herding's comment about "boogers hanging in the nostrils & flappin...."
HYSTERICAL !
 SouthCarolina45
Joined: 3/3/2005
Msg: 14
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 5:45:13 AM
Well, I can tell you it is NOT 48. And I have a lot of lady friends my age and older who have not lost it at all. That being said, all these women need a whole lot of lovin to get their groove on and this was always the case. It is just when we were younger, we were more afraid to ask for what we want. If you ain't hitting it properly it definitely will not work !

I know men as well as women who just do not have much of a sexual drive. In fact, I have met several men in the past five years who are not very interested in sex.
 bullielover62
Joined: 12/2/2006
Msg: 15
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 5:49:00 AM
OP, you have to do some research on menopause and the reasons some women's sexual drive diminishes. Only then will you be an active participant in something other than "wasted efforts"....

And remember too that not all women will go through the same "change".... some will go through hell early, some not at all until much later.... and it might be an easy trip.
But it will have an effect as her hormones start to become a bit unbalanced.

A lot of women hit their stride in their 40's..... so watch out.... it might not be the women so much as the guy that feels he's wasting his energy.

 nickphilosoph
Joined: 10/26/2007
Msg: 16
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 6:43:28 AM
Don't many women have a much lower sexual urge once they become mothers?
Also when the get married?
Do some women actually ever have a sexual urge rather than an urge a) to become mothers b) to find a breadearner/protector/"partner"? I think many do not actually have an interest in sexual pleasure per se, they "tolerate" sex (like some of us tolerated going to school) and use it for other goals (like some of us, men (I did) and women, used school for socialising purposes and student club activities, to make an analogy).

Thankfully, many women do have a sexual urge, keep in alive and of course "employ" it on men who deserve to be worthy "partners" in the satisfaction of that sexual urge.



Thus I think that the OP should treat each case as a unique case (no age rule) and try to establish via some "hints" or "signs" if the woman in question a) has sexual urges and b) whether she wishes to satisfy them with him.
 just_here_4_forums
Joined: 8/19/2007
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What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 6:56:09 AM
Haha, for me? It'll probably be when I am in my 80's.
 Herding Cats
Joined: 11/8/2007
Msg: 18
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 8:34:19 AM

Don't many women have a much lower sexual urge once they become mothers?
Also when the get married?


That's pretty jaded and sexist. A new mother, much like any animal that has just given birth, isn't exactly wired to procreate immediately after giving birth and there's an adjustment period. If the father is an A$$HOLE during this time, he could kill her urges for him for good.

And yeah, everyone KNOWS that putting a ring on a woman's finger is an instant libido killer.

Sheesh. Stereotype much?


Do some women actually ever have a sexual urge rather than an urge a) to become mothers b) to find a breadearner/protector/"partner"? I think many do not actually have an interest in sexual pleasure per se, they "tolerate" sex.


I'd say that if that is your view of womens' sexuality, you should talk to someone. That is the saddest thing I've seen you type.
 brown_eyed_woman
Joined: 9/6/2007
Msg: 19
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 8:56:58 AM
I'm still enjoying my 'in her prime' years...when I stop, Ill write in to let you know how old I am at that time.
 superlaf
Joined: 6/6/2007
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What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 9:05:29 AM
I'd have to say that it depends on what all is going on her life. Hard to feel very sexual w/ 3 little screaming young'uns, or a 60 hour work week. When all things are good, and when presented w/ a clean, sexy man... well, she just may be insatiable for "ever".

Of course, sexual attraction always starts between the ears... so finding areas of commonality and discussion works a lot better that saying, "hey Baby, I'm home - spread'em!". LOL
 WomanInProgress
Joined: 10/16/2005
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What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 9:18:18 AM
Some women could care less their whole lives, some have a high sex drive their whole lives, some have strong ones that fade, others have low libidos and they get higher over time, there's all kinds.

Personally, I won't bother with someone that has no interest either (unless they don't mind me getting it elsewhere), but I doubt they'd want to date me if they don't like sex, I'd just be way too annoying for them...and I don't see that ever changing.

Find someone who matches you and go with it.
 Double Cabin
Joined: 11/29/2004
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What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 9:41:51 AM
Wow, surpirised at how many responses it took before someone interjected the substance of menopause. Women are indeed individuals but there is biology to consider. Although I'm confused how such a rational mind could have the big left turn as their number one interest? LOL.

With all due respect OP the fact you chose to post this here instead of RESEARCHING this for yourself is self serving to say the least. Great, you're still popping, all the ladies here know it now. Happy New Year.
 dave382satx
Joined: 9/11/2007
Msg: 23
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 9:50:42 AM
My wife is 70 and is multi-orgasmic. We enjoy all kinds of sex about 6-8 x per month. Maybe because she's slim, healthy and looks 30 years younger than her age. Hope this gives encouragement to all you ladies out there.
 SJM1209
Joined: 11/30/2007
Msg: 24
What age does female sexual urge die down?
Posted: 12/27/2007 9:56:09 AM

Ball park figure? This ain't Jacobs Field.

Oh somewhere in this dating land the sun is shining bright
A man is screwing somewhere, and somewhere poon is tight
And somewhere guys are humping, and somewhere women shout
But there is no joy in Mudville, your Viagra’s done run out


 c_deacon
Joined: 3/13/2005
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Posted: 12/27/2007 9:58:55 AM
I think we have two groups here......those that do and those that do not......

I for one, will continue to enjoy the many that do, and age has not been a huge indicator of sex drive, but much more of condition, stability, desire, and the freedom to do so.

For the most part, if there is a woman that has lost her sex drive, there is a reason for it.....be it physical, mental, or just that fat out of shape hubby that still thinks he is 20 and a stud.........

Most of the women that I have met and enjoyed in their 30's, 40's and 50's are more than capable of performing and showing their partner how good they are, willing and wanting to share......if the one they are with IS worth sharing with......

Just my opinion......
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