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Posted: 12/26/2007 11:10:43 PM | I was ditched 7 months ago by a man that supposedly loved me. I am at a loss how someone can love you one day and you're out the next. I never got to see or talk to him he just text me. He had the nerve to text me he missed me 2 weeks later but would not respond to me.
I don't understand how someone can play with your feelings like that. It has been 7 months and I still think about him. I have dated but nothing serious. I am just beside myself with grief over him. He has moved on but I can't seem to. Any advice would be welcome. I want to find my true love before I die. | |
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Posted: 12/27/2007 3:11:14 AM | | Not alot you can do about the past or how some people are just mean. Just go with the flow and do what you want to do hopefully someone will come along at least that is what I tell myself each day. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 7:52:48 PM | | Thanks simple man. There has to be someone for us with all the fish in the sea. lol | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 9:08:14 AM | | Sorry to hear about the jerk who texted you. I had a guy that I was engaged to who left me a voice mail breaking up with me. Never did find out why. I think that was harder on me than the end of the relationship, not knowing the reason. Good luck and hang in there, it is true what they say about time healing all wounds. | |
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Posted: 2/18/2008 12:45:51 PM | | Breakups are always tough, expecially when you don't know why and probably never will. In otherwords, you can't get closure on that relationship and that's what makes it so hard to get over. I got dumped myself 5 months ago and it's hard to get over that too. I never got and probably never will get closure on that either. I had other relationships end but I got closure on those and was so much easier to get over. Like simple said, some people are just mean............................not much we can do about it.. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 10:00:18 AM | Shotzy lots of guys have a real fear of intamacy. Some of us will break up a perfectly good relationship just because we dont know how to handle feelings. not sayint this was the case in your situation but its true most guys are not into feelings because they are not so easy to control. if i care about you too much i make myself vulnerable and that is hard for lots of "tough dudes" to do. now i did say tough and not impossible though. it can happen but i think you have to talk about stuff like that and be real up front from jump. thats why when i meet someone i let them know who i am right away and all the boundries and issues i have to relationships that way i do not lead someone on nor take advantage (which happens sometimes without our knowing it, yes ladies it does because we dont recognize the signs of attachment till after someone we think of as a casual relationship is already attached) keep that in mind and rember the site motto, plenty of fish in the sea. happy fishing shotzy | |
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Posted: 3/9/2008 9:46:00 PM | Am I the only one that this has happened to?
The guy just does not breakup?
He just vanishes... I mean one day the two of you are happy together and he tells you to call him and the next day when you do there is NO ANSWER - not even a machine and you never ever heard from him again...
I was involved with a three month relationship when this happened to me... | |
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Posted: 3/11/2008 5:05:26 PM | | Same thing happened to me 3 months and she just dissapeared. Her cousin talked to me said she is engaged and was dateing 3 others a wild situation! | |
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Posted: 4/21/2008 9:03:03 AM | | My ex didn't just dissapear but she may as well have. One night she told me she loved me and kissed me goodnight and the next day she told me she wanted a divorce. After 28 years and I never saw it comming. In a strange way I still love her but I would never let her back into my life. I'm afraid I just couldn't handle that kind of hurt if it were to happen again. | |
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Posted: 4/22/2008 2:36:18 PM | 1. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XcidD2HFK8M
2. oxytocin addiction
3. group hug | |
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Posted: 5/9/2008 12:51:01 PM | | i know the feeling. i was seeing someone for about 4 months. it seemed to be going great. we went out one night to do kereoke, i needed to use the restroom when i came back she was sitting on some guys lap and giveing him her phone number. thats when she told me she didnt think it was going to work out with us.when i asked her what i had done she just told me to get the f..k away from her and to leave. i was confused,hurt and belittled. what was really sad is that her son and daughter were both there and they apologised for the way she was acting. i could tell that she even embaressed them also. it would have been hard enough to take if she would have told me in private,but why did she have to make it public? | |
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Posted: 6/19/2008 10:54:44 PM | It is easy to learn that you can't ever trust your ex again, even if you still love her in some way. The part I've struggled with is how to learn to be able to trust someone new. Or to trust myself and my own judgement.
I've decided that it is a matter of perspective - and that the best way to look at it is that now there's one person that I know for sure isn't the right one for me, and with her checked off the list the search is a tiny bit easier. :-)  | |
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Posted: 8/3/2008 8:31:11 AM | | Get up one day and decide to do everything differant. avoid doing things you did with him, until you find someone else that does it better. If none of the things in your life change how you feel, and this effects how you sleep or eat. Get Atavan from a doctor, or xanax if you need stonger. but is ben another 7 months sine you wrote this, So I bet your much better by now. We have all been there. But a text? Your better off without him. None of us want to be some-ones stepping stone. | |
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