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Posted: 12/31/2007 5:48:02 PM | | Your going to the home of a single guy with no kids that your crazy about ,your both just coming in from having your 3rd date with each other, you can't find anything that you don't like about him....so you go to his house for some "fun", but during the time your there you find adult magazines and videos hidden through -out the house.....what would you think of him after that?....would you look down on him?......try to change him? | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 6:09:55 PM | Well,if you don't really like him,and you are just at his house for a little "fun",then why do you care if he has porn?
Most men own porn,but are respectful enough to hide it.
Personally,I like to look at porn on occasion as well.
Doesn't bother me any. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 6:14:05 PM | If the porn was hidden,how did you find it?
Why were you snooping through his things?
No,I would not try to change someone,especially after only being on 3 dates with him.
Maybe he is not the guy for you. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 6:24:10 PM | I wouldn’t think any less of him. A single man’s gotta do what a single man’s gotta do. In fact, it could be a little confirmation sign that he isn’t seeing anyone else.  | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 6:31:59 PM | | Sorry ladies, i should have been clearer that i'm a GUY..so i'm really just asking if some woman finds my" porn, what would be the reaction from , from her?, i've been around some nosey ladies, and my apartment isn't that big so it's not impossiable for someone to find something that's "hidden". | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 6:40:35 PM | Depends....what kinda porn are we talking about here?
Gay porn, S & M titilation, or just the average typical stuff ?
Change him? Hardly. I would say that it's normal, but maybe wait a
while to find out if she is into watching it together.
I wouldn't suggest any re-enactments just yet.
As for her 'finding' it accidentally, anyone that snoops, needs to be prepared for
whatever they may uncover.
Her reaction will tell you whether you want to date her seriously.
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Posted: 12/31/2007 6:46:31 PM | | Not too kinky but kinky enough..let's say he has every kind except "kiddie" and gay porn. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 7:38:53 PM |
Not too kinky but kinky enough..let's say he has every kind except "kiddie" and gay porn
Don't you have a cabinet or cupboard you could keep that in. A box under the bed? Something? Show a little respect, a little class. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 8:14:43 PM | | I do have places to hide it.......i have alot of respect and class, knowone has found anything...yet. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 8:17:55 PM | If someone was dumb enough to leave their porn laying around where I could see it, it would be a turn off because I would wonder if I am being manipulated.
I would go home and send them my favorite porn links so that they could understand how easily discretion can be theirs. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 8:47:18 PM | What kind of porn?
Whips and Chains weekly?
2 Guys and a Dog?
2 Dogs and a Guy?
I don't see where it is a big deal...
My neice stopped by the other day and asked to use the phone to call her mom...
She said she was at he uncles and mentioned I had Playboy magazines on my coffee table...and she seemed embarressed...
She failed to mention there were also Readers Digest, Rolling Stone, Popular Mechanics, Popular Science, Nascar Sceene, AARP, and a couple others on the table...
So what is the question... | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 8:53:11 PM |
I do have places to hide it.......i have alot of respect and class, knowone has found anything...yet.
Well then if it is hid it is your business. Unless she wants to browse for ideas.
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Posted: 12/31/2007 9:14:56 PM | | Let's take this a step further... What happens if she finds a porno magazine with her on the cover? | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 9:17:22 PM | Let's take this a step further... What happens if she finds a porno magazine with her on the cover?
Well if it was me then it would mean I put it where everyone would see it — in all my airbrushed glory. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 10:00:11 PM | | Or maybe i shouldn't hide it...just to see, how mature and open-minded she is, i would hate be in a relationship where we're living together and i would have to sneak behind her back, to get online and check out adult websites,..or making a mistake and leave adult dvd laying around,.if she ever caught me she might be tramatized....lolol | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 10:02:52 PM |
just to see, how mature and open-minded she is
Don't hide it. Leave them laying around. Especially when you move forward in your relationship and she decides to have your baby. Nothing is hotter than being 8 months pregnant and knowing your SO is in the john jerking off to a mag.
But when she leaves you a little present of the biggest di.ck flopped over a thigh you've ever seen, open on the coffee table to the centerfold, and leaves you with the baby and heads out into the night with her girlfriends — looking hotter than hell...
Keep an open mind.
*smirk*
I did that.
There were no more magazines in my house afterward. | |
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Posted: 12/31/2007 10:16:42 PM | Ever visit Pompei? You should see the paintings on the walls! You would be scandalized!
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Posted: 1/1/2008 1:34:24 AM |
i would hate be in a relationship where we're living together and i would have to sneak behind her back, to get online and check out adult websites
Isn't that what lonely single guys do?
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Posted: 1/1/2008 1:58:58 AM | I guess I would be more worried if there wasn't a bit of porn and adult mags around. If he's a normal healthy male, he's likely got porn.....big deal.
I certainly wouldn't look down on him. I would be more concerned if he thought that what he saw in porn videos was really what pleased women. Would I try to change him? Hell no. I think that trying to change anyone reeks of control issues. What happens if I find something else next week I don't like? Change that too? When does it stop?
If the porn stuff is a big deal to me, I don't have to date him. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 3:23:02 AM | during the time your there you find adult magazines and videos hidden through -out the house
Umm...yeah...well it wouldnt happen cos I wouldnt be snooping.
And if someone snooped thru my house and my stuff...Id throw em outta the house.
what would you think of him after that?...would you look down on him?......try to change him?
Since Ive already established I wouldnt snoop, it would have to be laying around and if that was the case...Id be completely turned off him.
If I didnt walk out there and then (depending how much there was and how fast he was able to get rid of it), he'd be off my list of dates ever again anyway.
There's a time and place for everything...porn is private and is not reading material you have strewn around your house especially when you're entertaining a lady.
Its a class issue to me. And thats just seriously tacky any way you wanna look at it. Period.
Oh incidentally...one thing Ive noticed over the years...the more interested a guy is in a woman...the more respect he will show and the less he will engage in questionable behaviors (like accidentally or deliberately leaving porn around in the first place) | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 3:39:26 AM | Apparently old porn is still working for some.
Ever visit Pompei? You should see the paintings on the walls! You would be scandalized!
By today's standards, OP, there is no reason for her to find hard copies. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 4:55:54 AM | | Your porn your business. If things were to get serious then talk about it maybe? unless she is into porn herself and im sure she would let you know :) | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 5:21:50 AM | | I challenge a man to find a woman that doesn't have her own little collection. | |
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Posted: 1/1/2008 5:30:51 AM | I'd have to wonder how (and why) she found stuff that was hidden...and then, (if I were her) I'd go shake off the heebie jeebies this discovery gave me, toss my cookies, and find some way to discuss it at a later date. If this is going to continue once we're exclusive and having lots of yummy sex, I'm out the door. I can't be with someone that participates in something I find repulsive...there's just too dang many fish in the sea!
By the way, there's lots of "normal, healthy men" that aren't into porn and are tickled pink to have the real thing, with no need or desire for the fantasy, cheap a$$ed crap.
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Posted: 1/1/2008 7:34:41 AM |
Sorry ladies, i should have been clearer that i'm a GUY..so i'm really just asking if some woman finds my" porn, what would be the reaction from , from her?, i've been around some nosey ladies, and my apartment isn't that big so it's not impossiable for someone to find something that's "hidden".
OH. okay. lol.
well, do you want someone that uptight anyway?
i wouldn't worry about it.
i mean, if someone had an *extensive* collection, i might ANALyze it more ... but a few videos is no big deal. | |
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