| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 12:11:18 AM | Most sex will last 5, 10 or 15 minutes. Some lovers can go as long as 30 mins or more. What is the longest sexual experience you've endured? Was it pleasurable or did it become long and boring waiting for a man/woman to cum?
When people state that they can make love all night...is this true? Have you ever made love to someone all night?
In your experiences is the best sex wham bam over in 10 minutes or making it last as long as humanly possible?
Think back to your best sexual experiences. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 12:31:22 AM | I used to have a bit of an issue with stamina....some days it would five to ten minutes before I'd start to have to work to hold off or pull out. And then there were days I could last for 30 or 40 minutes. This is without a condom. But the last year I started doing kegel exercises for a bladder condition and HOLY S&?T, pardon my french, did my stamina go through the roof. Now I have to fight to finish and usually I cannot do it with sheer penetration no matter how much I manipulate. Using the thinnest condoms I can find I could probably go all night if I could maintain the energy. I will easily go two or three hours before having to quit from sheer exhaustion for a break, and I have to be finished off orally or manually and even that takes work. It's like I went from one extreme to the next, but the orgasm is RIDICULOUS now too. My feet tingle the next morning still! It's unreal. I recommend kegel exercises to EVERYONE interested in heightening the experience! LOL
In all honesty I think as long as you change things up it keeps it interesting. I could sit in one position for 30 minutes just thrusting away. I'd need to switch from on top to under to oral to passionate kissing to taking her from behind to her taking advantage of me. Otherwise it just gets too monotonous if it's going to be a long session. I prefer at least 30 minutes of solid intercourse though plus lots of foreplay. But if time is of the essence I'm more than good getting a quickie or a nooner than nothing at all! | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 1:28:17 AM | Most sex will last 5, 10 or 15 minutes.
Foreplay, should last at least an hour.
Sex, should also last at least that long.
When people state that they can make love all night...is this true?
Eventually, ya reckon someone might
come along and figure that it has alot to
do with the pace?
Have you ever made love to someone all night?
Sorry, I never screw and tell.
Think back to your best sexual experiences.
I'd much rather look forward to them. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 6:02:02 AM | Tottally depends on the mood.
A good little quicky has it's perks...as does the longer sessions.
All night? Never happened with me...maybe one day! Darn...now I know what I shoulda asked Santa for...now I have to wait another year! LOL | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 6:18:49 AM | Completely depends upon the mood between you both .. sometimes 5 minutes can be totally fullfilling, other times it can take several hours. ..
The other thing that needs to be considered is that "sex" does not just involve one penetration / orgasm routine .. sex all night can involve oral , stroking , kissing , several penetrations , different positions, licking , sucking, and yes even food / cig / drink breaks or whatever . Sex all night is not just pounding up and down continuously !
No use asking Santa for an all nighter - he's usually too busy ! | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 6:32:25 AM | All sex is pleasurable and a mix of long and short is more exciting then the same style over and over again. People always have their favorite positions so those are always worked into the mix.
With regard to actual time of the intercourse, the short times, 15 minutes and less, are best when they are impromptu. That helps build the excitement to sort of make up for the short duration. Younger men can also make up for the short duration because they recover in 5 minutes and are ready for more rounds up to about 5 or 6 on a good day. There are those many ladies that enjoy getting oral first and then the guy takes his pleasure turn which I guess is fine if that works for you. A very sexual woman will become pretty disappointed with a guy that is constantly in the 5 or 10 minute range.
Seems like 30 minutes is pretty average for most couples and married people.
Long sex sessions are way longer than 30 minutes and can last all day assuming you have the time like a rainy Sunday and no children that require attention and care. What do I mean by all day? Well, most people become exhausted after 45 minutes even if you mix slow action in with the fast so they may take a rest break and then resume the fun after catching their breath. Obviously people have to go to the rest room and eat so we need breaks for that too. The one down side can be that your girl gets so excited later on in the day that they can cry. One woman explained to me that the emotions get so intense and you have cum so much that the emotions have no where to go so they spill out into tears. Also, even for folks in good shape, this kind of love making can make you pretty sore the next day from using the same sets of muscles and from friction. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 6:53:28 AM | | There was a time I could go for over an hour. While some ladies loved it,others got bored and it was sometimes a challenge for me to finish. I usually had to hope she didn't mind giving me a long handjob. Now I'm down to about 20 minutes,and I find that about perfect. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 7:12:39 AM | well...............the longest I've gone is 2 hours, but those are few and far between. Normally it's typically at least and hour or so. This includes forplay and intercourse from start to finish. Going all night?? If you count 9pm, midnight, 3am, 6am then yes that would be an all nighter now wouldn't it?   | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:19:54 AM | It depends on the couple as well as the coupling. Two hours of sweaty monkey sex is satisfying in a different way than that sort of 'I have to have you now or I am going to die' sex that only lasts for a short time.
When both halves of the couple have figured out that the "main event" is not the main event, sex of any duration is better. As is sex with someone with whom one shares deep feelings as opposed to someone that the individual does not have this connection with. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:25:23 AM | | I think sex that last as long as hmanly possible is the best as i like to make a woman have multible orgasums as many as she can handle and only when she is compleatly satisfyd then make love to her. ( sorry for the spelling ) | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:36:59 AM | Well really good sex involves 23hrs 45 minutes of foreplay and 5 minutes of sex! Your partner should be turning you on 24/7 IMHO! However if ya want to get down to specific 'sessions' - a good 15 to 20 mins of foreplay and a good 10 to 15 mins of penetration is satisfying!  | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:44:19 AM | ^^^Agreed!!!
Besides it depends on the mood and the amount of time you have avaliable to you...A quickie can be good in the right moment....but then a long night of intimacy (not just sex-penetration) but foreplay and turning each other on, can be a great night! | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 8:45:15 AM | The quick one is great when you are meeting your partner later, as you've probably been thinking about it all day, but ..... it had better be a prelude to a follow-up longer session. If it's a "one shot and you're good for the whole day", I'd say this lady would be unavailable for future get-togethers. So, I'd say a combination of both is the best (at least for me). All-nighters are best saved for weekends, as crawling around the office is not conducive to productivity at work.  | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 9:24:46 AM | | Quickies can be fun, but I much prefer the long foreplay, followed by at least an hour of penetration and caressing. The longest I've gone is 2.5 hours at one stretch, followed by a quick nap, then about 3 hours more. One poster has mentioned having a quickie earlier in the day, with the promise of a longer session later on. I like that idea! | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 2:55:14 PM | ^^^I busted my side laughing at the hungry face....lmao
ummm Best Sexual Experience lasted in real time about 30 minutes. Felt like hours though when we were doing it.
I guess it all depends on the person youre with...and you .....
Everybodies time is different....
Making love all night involves ALOT of foreplay...ALOT of interest in your partner. And sometimes ALOT of lube :) Depending on the lunar moon
Happy 2008 !
Heart | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 3:08:21 PM | With my ex...we went 6 hours (including foreplay) , I found it was getting boring and uncomfortable(dryness).
I was also with another guy recently and it lasted 3 hours and it was amazing! Intercourse-foreplay-intercourse-foreplay......... is the best!! | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 3:09:12 PM | | This is one of those preferential questions where there is no real answer. Kind of like asking women if size matters and what is the size they like the most. You are going to get 10 women give you 10 different answers. We should all just embrace the fact that sex is almost universally liked and a quickie or an all-nighter both have their benefits! Control is what I think we all seek, and not stamina, bc having too much stamina can really be deficient. If it takes you four hours to finish or your girlfriend needs to spend an hour giving you head it becomes a chore. I know it's a bad thing to **** about really! There are far more important problems in life then NOT being able to peak! LOL And for anyone that says this is a problem is likely getting the piercing eyes from those who have the premature problem. Control is a nice skill to obtain. | |
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| Longest sexual performance. Is it better quick or lasting?
Posted: 1/1/2008 3:19:35 PM | | should I make a long reply to this forum or a short one ? which would be more satisfying ? depends on the reader huh :) I say til you both cum if you get it done in 10 minutes or 2 hours . If its short then you can have multiple sessions . I pefer longer myself and had to work very hard (no pun intended) to have control of my orgasim. I would say average to me with actual intercorse is an hour add forplay probably 2 my best including forplay was 5. I tend to hold off the orgasim because it is the beginning of an end to what hopefully is awesome sex!! | |
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