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Posted: 1/2/2008 6:32:25 AM | | This is kind of a superficial question, but I'm going to throw it out there. If you and a woman like each other, and she really liked when men wear undershirts under their regular shirt, would you wear one, and how could she ask or hint that she would like it without offending you (since that absolutely would not be her intention)? Thanks, guys - I mean this as a serious question. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 6:36:39 AM | personally, i don't like wearing the undershirt. but, if my woman were to find it sexy, i would make a point of wearing one when i went out with her.
relationships are about give and take, i would be happy to do something for my SO that made her happy. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 6:39:32 AM | | Sure. It's not a big deal. If I were you I'd mention that you find it attractive and see what he does. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 6:52:28 AM | | I would buy her a dog and she could dress it up anyway she liked. They have cute little sweaters for dogs, and even hats and booties. For Christmas you can get antler head bands for across their skulls behind their ears, that ties under their throats. Not too tight though. Then I would avoid looking the dog in the eye, ashamed of the low place my sense of self-preservation had brought it to in my stead. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 7:31:26 AM | | Unless the guy is in good shape, tan, and doesn't have much chest hair........he needs to wear an undershirt, and you need to tell him (for all our sakes). | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 7:49:32 AM | Golly, don't hint.. Us men-folk don't always pick up on hints. Just come out and speak your mind.
You would get a postive response from me if you just said:
"I really like it when you wear a T-shirt under your other shirt. In my eyes, it make you look more (manly, sexy, complete, professional - insert your word here). "
Ask your mate. State your preference. Give a compliment.
Simple formula.
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Posted: 1/2/2008 8:40:04 AM | | She could bat her eyes, smile, and then tell me how much it turns her on when her man wears an undershirt under his shirt. That would get the message through clear enough. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 8:41:19 AM | If I were you I'd mention that you find it attractive and see what he does.
Or point out a guy who's not wearing an undershirt (pit stains, back stains, see-thru dress shirt, etc) and say 'isn't that gross?' and see what he says. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 8:52:03 AM | | I would find it a little odd - most of the time the ladies prefer less rather than more shirt - but I'd wear one if she wants me to, sure. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 10:11:27 AM | | wearing an undershirt is no big deal. If it is all she has to do is just tell the guy she thinks it's sexy and just about guarantee that the guy would start wearing one | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 10:22:39 AM | | hmm??????? I wear them now.... Would she want me to wear a under undershirt?? nope... would be to hot then. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 10:23:44 AM | | Thanks, guys for all your great replies. I feel the same way - if a guy I cared about/was attracted to liked a certain item of clothing, I don't think I'd have a problem adding it in if it was something fairly harmless. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 11:12:08 AM | | It really depends. Will she wear a sexy corset, garters and stockings, and high heels for me? Whether or not we wear undershirts is mostly a comfort issue. I've never worn one, and find wearing two shirts kind of odd. When exactly are we supposed to wear one? Should we wear one under another 'decorative' T shirt? Under every other type of shirt? Dress shirt, sweat shirt, polo shirt?? And who made up those decisions, anyway? I've never understood the reason for an undershirt, unless you feel cold without one. It's not like we need one to support part of our body, like undershorts for men and bras for women. That said, if she wanted me to wear one occasionally, sure. But every day? Nah. No thanks. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 11:16:06 AM | Er... she could ask me to... and I would.
I generally only do so when it's cold... but I do have some vests and such.
Why would it offend for her to ask such anyway? | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 2:48:42 PM |
Sure. It's not a big deal. If I were you I'd mention that you find it attractive and see what he does
Agreed, always worth a shot, might be good for both parties anyway. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 2:55:12 PM | Just be honest and ask. You can both come up with an agreement that works for you both.
Wow communication is such a wonderful thing. Works much better than hints, innuendo or manipulation. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 2:57:34 PM | | Not only would I not be offended by such a request, I question the sanity of any man who would be offended by such a request. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 3:59:38 PM | if a guy and a girl really liked each other, and the guy really liked it when the girl didnt wear a bra, would she not wear one for him?  | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 4:02:44 PM | | undershirt under a regular shirt? why? I am sensing some control issues. | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 4:22:38 PM | undershirt? as in a good old fashioned cotton wife beater? I love them on me (I'm wearing one right now as a matter of fact) but on my man.... no thanks
If YOU like them on your man, it's the tamest fetish I have ever come across, ask him, and if he knows it makes you hot, he'll wear one every day.  | |
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Posted: 1/2/2008 4:23:23 PM |
and she really liked when men wear undershirts under their regular shirt, would you wear one
nope.
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Posted: 1/2/2008 6:14:02 PM | wife beater?
what's a big deal?
now, if you asked him to wear a corset... that would be way more fun.
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Posted: 1/2/2008 6:27:09 PM | I'm always up for a fashion tip and I kind of like it when they take an interest as long as it’s respectfully done. Only problem I would have with this is .. I get hot easy so that would be the only objection I would have against it.
If I were you I would just tell him you find him attractive in that look.. he should be flattered | |
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Posted: 1/3/2008 10:20:20 AM | I'd have no problems with it. All she'd have to say is "You look sexy in ". I'd wear pretty much anything she wanted as long as it wasn't too uncomfortable or impractical, but that's because I look good in anything.  | |
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