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 pink69camaro

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 1
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 10:13:51 AM
how can a guy say a girl is hot and just want to have sex with her...wouldn't he want to date her...take her out...show her off??? i will never understand it!!!
 BryonNC

Joined: 3/12/2005
Msg: 2
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i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 10:32:47 AM
A guy had rather have sex with a fine babe.I really don't Know,I want a sexy babe to have sex with and to let people see me with her.
 M_A_N_U

Joined: 4/12/2005
Msg: 3
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 10:58:03 AM
well there are lots of guys out there....i bet some of them would like to take a hot girl out....and have sex with her.....and show her to all his friends...Probably you/ur somebody else met the wrong guy...so keep looking
 mack

Joined: 1/7/2005
Msg: 4
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:04:47 AM
is that how wimpy guys justify their existinence - showing off hot babes - pathetic
 smitten

Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 5
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:05:56 AM
how can a guy say a girl is hot and just want to have sex with her...wouldn't he want to date her...take her out...show her off??? i will never understand it!!!


No offence intended, I'll just call it like I see it...

You are very young, and are most likely seeing young guys. Young guys aren't so different from young women. They dont really know who they are. Yet, one of their big emotional needs is sexual fulfillment. They will pursue that in spades.

Get them to spend more than a week talking with someone, and trying to share a life, and they cant be "super-me" anymore. Their own personality emerges, and they start to realize that they aren't maintaining the positive feedback they initially might have had with you.

No one likes to feel bad about themselves. But being immature, they decide it must be you, not them.

So they move to the next conquest in search of that same conquering high. Some guys never grow out of it. But I'm an optimist, and believe that most will.



sound in any way familiar?
 Dzigner

Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 6
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:08:21 AM
I know where your coming from.. For a guy to sit there and tell you over and over that he wants to f*** you but never anything else makes you feel so small... What is there problem if you are good enough to F*** then why not good enough for something else?
 jared1075

Joined: 11/27/2004
Msg: 7
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:09:00 AM
pink, not all guys are the same. I for one would like to take a "hot" girl out, talk to her, become friends and then if it's meant to be....sex will come thereafter. Maybe I'm crazy but I want to get to know the girl before I have sex with her.
 smitten

Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 8
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:13:07 AM
Dzinger

Because it isnt about you or "we"...

Its about them. Full stop.

**edit

Good to see more Albertans here
 Dzigner

Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 9
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:15:09 AM
Yah well that sucks guys like that make us give up hope on finding anything better...
 smitten

Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 10
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:22:28 AM
heheh

Is the glass half empty or half full...

Don't give up home. A-holes can be found everywhere. I dont care if you are looking at a bar or at church. The pool is actual full of great guys, believe me.

Most of my friends see things as the other way around, believe it or not. They think that women are the ones that are shallow and dont want a full time relationship with a good person.

I think reality is somewhere in between.

Most of theose guys are looking for that exciting girl that is the center of attention. And how good would that be to coral her in and break her? Problem is that what often makes that girl so exciting and appealing is part and parcel with her personality. Given enough time she may come to miss feeling like the center of male attention.

I know. I married the night club shooter girl.

But it doesn't mean I should give up hope.

I dont think you should either.

just my 2 cents...
 bobbelieu

Joined: 5/18/2005
Msg: 11
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:26:14 AM
Never understand guys? I'll never understand them either, and I am one!!

Frankly, I don't even understand what women see in men. I mean, we're all hairy and have weird bumps all over.....

 maximus_radius

Joined: 4/20/2005
Msg: 12
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:33:12 AM



These guys make guys like me look bad, as I use to that a girl who was a model and it wasn't just to f*** her, we were actually engage.....until she slept with someone else that is.....
 jared1075

Joined: 11/27/2004
Msg: 13
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:40:29 AM
Say what now?????!!?!?!?!?!??
 smitten

Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 14
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:45:57 AM
yeh mate,

I'm a little confused by that last post too...

ever watch that clarica commercial on the importance of clarity?
 verypicky

Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 15
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:56:05 AM
I didn't read all the posts, but I did read one or two guys metioning that we're not all the same. D*mn right we're not. I know just as many women with that attitude as men. The mother of my son walked away from my son and I for sex. Hang in there, there are good men out there.
 onlythelonely

Joined: 4/24/2005
Msg: 16
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:57:07 AM
@foolmeonce- - Hey, how'd you get so smart?
 SamD032

Joined: 3/29/2005
Msg: 17
That's A Good Question . . .
Posted: 5/23/2005 11:59:46 AM
I don't know. It's kind of sad. So many men today are just selfish, immature brats. And ironically, from what I have heard, those are the same ones who have no idea in the world what a Clitoris looks like, and/or where it's even located. Furthermore, from what I have heard, even if you point it out to one of them, he still couldn't find it, with the aid of both hands, and a map! It's sad. I know. Some men are really stubborn and bull-headed. At any rate, I'm sorry for your suffering. You shouldn't have to. I hope you do well. Good luck & take care. LuvYa/SAM
 CPOsteve

Joined: 12/9/2004
Msg: 18
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 12:02:14 PM
"how can a guy say a girl is hot and just want to have sex with her"

Answer. Easy, read my lips!!
 Lex

Joined: 2/11/2005
Msg: 19
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 12:09:18 PM
i dont understand neither but same thing we think about girls who let themselves treat like nothing and still be with the same guy! and not changin anythin about it etc. chau
 smitten

Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 20
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 12:11:36 PM
@javabug


@foolmeonce- - Hey, how'd you get so smart?


school of hard knocks...

lived through 32 very confused, shallow, self-centered years. I'm half-way there tho...

quoting the movie Training day

Life's trippy, no?
 pink69camaro

Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 21
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 1:18:07 PM
guys say im cute alot but they just wanna have sex...it's so annoying...i'm sexual but i need to know someone and be w/ someone that im gonna be w/ after sex! i guess i've just met the wrong guys...but where can i find the right guy?
 verypicky

Joined: 5/8/2005
Msg: 22
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 1:20:38 PM

i guess i've just met the wrong guys...but where can i find the right guy?


if I still lived in Olathe, I could tell you.
 smitten

Joined: 2/25/2005
Msg: 23
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/23/2005 1:22:35 PM
Budda say Grande Prairie is source of intimacy satisfaction
 New-Beginnings

Joined: 12/19/2004
Msg: 24
i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/24/2005 4:43:27 AM
If I ever met face to face with a incredible edible babe, and she was into me as much as I was into her. Personally, I would want her for myself, and hide her from the world. I would take her, with her permission of course, to Nome, Alaska and get married! (of course I would do this, because I am so insecure about myself, and that if she was this HOT I wouldn't want anyone else looking at her...except for me!!!)
 mdew22

Joined: 11/23/2004
Msg: 25
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i will never understand guys!
Posted: 5/24/2005 5:04:16 AM
well pink. i for one like to get to know a girl first. before any thing happens. but you are looking for hot guys and all that they want is sex with hot girls. what can i say.

mdew22
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