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 Ottpilgrim
Joined: 4/3/2007
Msg: 1
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Hey Everyone,

I've been playing a game lately where if I wake up before my gf I try to play with her naughty bits without disturbing her sleep. I've found that even in her sleep she's quite receptive either by opening her legs or letting out soft moans. If I try to go for her bum she'll stir and push me away... just like when she's awake lol

Anyhow, I can ger her quite wet and when she wakes up she has no idea until I tell her to check herself. She really doesn't mind as we are in a state of implied consent, two responsible and respecting adults. But I have noticed that she gets very horny for the rest of the day. Before the night is up my bones will be jumped!!!

Anyhow I was wondering how many people out there also try this? Any thoughts or experiences? Do any women consider this an invasion of privacy, even in a committed and loving relationship?
 MizzLisa
Joined: 12/23/2007
Msg: 2
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 1:10:17 AM
As long as it is in a "committed and loving relationship" and if she's ok with it, I don't see a problem with this. Communication is key.

Personally, it's a huge turn on to wake up to a nice and unexpected surprise. Gets me horny as hell!

I used to crawl under the covers and wake him up with my tongue......I don't imagine any guys would complain about that!

 Coastergal
Joined: 7/24/2005
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Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 1:11:40 AM
There's a wrong way to wake someone up and a RIGHT way.....

It's wrong... to push them... or talk to them... or just stare at them!!!
I'm more receptive when um... woken up by um... I can't say it! LOL

Ofcourse, I'd wake up... and wake up horny... I don't think I'd sleep through it... and I wouldn't want someone to continue playing with me while I was asleep.

I'd probably get a lOT pi$$ed off If I found out someone was trying to play with my taboo spot just because I was asleep!
 TheReason_
Joined: 9/19/2007
Msg: 4
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 1:19:49 AM
Sounds hot, but be sure to talk to her in the day and get the green light from her. Make sure she's down with it, and gives you the approval to do what you want when she's asleep. That way she won't wake up mortified!!! Also let her know she can have whatever fun she wants with you as well.

Communication is the key!



 mz taken
Joined: 11/30/2007
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Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 1:20:35 AM
sure beats a glass of OJ and toast on the night stand in my book!!!!!

this is the best way to "invade my privacy". lol
luvz me some early morning yum yum
 HillsideCA
Joined: 10/2/2007
Msg: 6
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 1:28:57 AM
I have had this go very well, and I have also had it not go so well. Sometimes she really just wanted some shuteye...I usually figured it out in time before she truly got annoyed.

I'm confused though...you got her all soaking and then just...stopped? Didn't she wake up and punch you in the head?


I used to crawl under the covers and wake him up with my tongue......I don't imagine any guys would complain about that!

You got that right!
 michaels_girl
Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 7
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 4:00:21 AM

I'm confused though...you got her all soaking and then just...stopped? Didn't she wake up and punch you in the head?


I was just thinking the same thing. Its a great way to be woken up BUT you better not stop there. You gotta finish what you start.
 whitegold765
Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 8
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 4:04:46 AM
I've done that a few times. It's... fun...

I had a friend who woke up with her boyfriend pushing something against her bum. She was all lubed up and everything. She hit him and he just said "What?!"

I had another friend who used to do the opposite, he would have sex with people in his sleep, or grope them. It's an actual condition, though I can't remember the name of it. He didn't even realise. Before he knew about it he had a few female friends stay for the night and they got very confused. They were non-sexual or previously sexual friends.

And yes, I honestly do believe him.
 *~*ChardyGirl*~*
Joined: 6/29/2007
Msg: 9
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 4:34:37 AM
So , you get her horny,but have to wait til day's end to "finish with a bang"....?????
Sorry,but i think it sounds a bit pervy to me.........id want to be fully awake & responsive to whats happening,so,i could enjoy it all..........
 esad
Joined: 4/8/2007
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Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 5:53:22 AM

Do any women consider this an invasion of privacy,

I’ll wager there are a few who will, but that is the point.
If YOUR partner objects, stop. If not, have fun !


Anyhow I was wondering how many people out there also try this? Any thoughts or experiences?


I was involved with a person who wanted to be woken in
the middle of the night by penetration. ( jeesh that sound so clinical).
It was not my favorite thing to do, but once in awhile
i got out the lube, set an alarm, and went for it.
To each their own.
 a/c
Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 11
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 5:58:23 AM
Being a light sleeper, I wake up at dumb hrs sometimes, and with my last g/f I used to do this a lot. She had no problem with it, and enjoyed it and also would get very aroused while asleep. She had one rule...DO NOT LEAVE ME HANGING, if I started something I better be prepared to finish the job lol, which I had nooooo problem complying with.
 stc888
Joined: 1/25/2007
Msg: 12
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 9:01:01 AM
It's always better to wake up to a morning b j,then the morning d j.So why not start her day off right.

The way I go about it ,is to ask in advance.Like tell her.I'd like to come home from a night of bowling,finding you asleep.Waking you up by doing things to you.I have never been told not to.
I've also said."When I come home from bowling.I want to see you sleeping like an infant.On your hands and knees with your ass sticking up in the air".All ways gets me a playfull slap.
 Schadenfreudian
Joined: 7/5/2007
Msg: 13
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 9:11:38 AM

if I wake up before my gf I try to play with her naughty bits
I propose that I be Faht Bahstid to your Austin Powers. Ayyyye, ah'm sew seyex-eh.
 fancynanci
Joined: 8/21/2007
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Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 10:30:03 AM
That sounds really hot!
 meowgrrrr83
Joined: 10/23/2007
Msg: 15
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 10:40:46 AM
Invasion of privacy??? NOOOO
Omg... i love being woken up this way... as many times a night as you wish... I just LOVE it... and being able to do the same is even so much more arousing for me...
 Luv Karla
Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/3/2008 10:49:46 AM
What your doing is sexual assault,since the lady is not awake to give you consent to touch her.

And no,I would never violate someone in their sleep.
 GeneralizingNow
Joined: 10/10/2007
Msg: 17
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 10:50:28 AM
Sounds good to me, unfortunatley I'm a really light sleeper.
 ngat73
Joined: 6/10/2007
Msg: 18
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 10:53:26 AM
Actually, that has happeed to me a few times with a couple oif different guys in my past. I may begin sleeping but if it feels good and he assumes I am sleeping than I remain "sleeping". My long-term did this to me, we were only friends. I think this is how he became my boyfriend for the next eight years although we were completely incompatible. I was probably 23 or 24, and from my experience alot of men are not so sure how they should touch you. They can't tell when your clit swells up and when it is likely to burst. I mean, it's like a tiny little penis. Well, he gave his fingers the title of "Magic Fingers" .

However, I can see how this can be intrusive if you are not intimate already or have reached that level.
 curious54
Joined: 9/10/2007
Msg: 19
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 10:54:50 AM
I don't think it's assault unless you are strangers. NOW, however, if she decks you for trying it THAT is assault and the next time I'd think twice about it. For me???? If I was being touched while I was asleep AND I woke up...I'd pretend to sleep for a long long time!
 Barbies Older Sister
Joined: 6/8/2007
Msg: 20
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 12:48:31 PM
I'm writing this down for when I get a man. Never thought about it before, but it sounds fun.
 chsmith112
Joined: 7/17/2006
Msg: 21
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 1:03:18 PM
Um......i didn't know that there was anyother way to get up!!! I like to call her my personal alarm clock, and vise versa!!!
 msflis
Joined: 2/21/2007
Msg: 22
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 1:28:13 PM
Zzzzzzzz...

--Ms. Flis
 Nathie5988
Joined: 11/28/2007
Msg: 23
Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 2:36:20 PM
I made an ex cum while she was asleep =/
She woke up...
And was quite embrassed =]
Guess she thought she was having a good dream,
Then reality came,
Like she did.
Crashing down.

Enough of the puns.

We both did it, i quite enjoyed it as much as she did =]

Nathan.x
 Ignoble
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 2:50:16 PM
RE: First post.

Ya, I do that naturally. I cant be in bed with a woman and not be touching her that way. Cant even sleep next to one unless Im cupping something. :P Hahaha, no woman has ever had a problem with it so far, quite the contrary.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Playing with her while she sleeps
Posted: 1/3/2008 3:06:48 PM
My girl loves morning nookie. We start with a few caresses. She gets incredibly wet, then we go very slow. It's awesome. The other day I kind of checked and she seem too sleepy, so I didn't do anything. Later on that day she said that I owe her one. Oh well.
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