| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 8:29:22 AM | I just read another thread about a guy who broke up with a girl fairly new into a relationship because, as he put it.. the sex was bad. His thread didn't address the reasons it was "bad". I had to assume that she was a taker, or very unfocussed on the giving?
Made me wonder what a guy's opinion is on what makes a girl not good in the sack.
I've never had any complaints so far, never the less I'd like to avoid doing anything that would have me labelled as such.
Your opinion on a bad sex partner ?? | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 8:35:14 AM | | someone who does not comunicate makes a bad sex partner, you dont have to talk, scream, beg, moan, yell whatever during sex but the ability to talk and even joke about what was nice not so nice is a must to understand each other | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 9:01:08 AM | evnstevn: Ever see the episode of Sienfeld where Elaine saves her means of birthcontrol for those that are "Sponge-Worthy"?
Save the viagra for only the "Viagra-Worthy?  *make it your mantra! 
4dexter; Communication is always good... but what Made it Bad? What did she/you do that made it bad enought that you couldn't be bothered communicating about it? | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 9:11:56 AM | | She just refused to discuss sex, which I just found a bit odd and thought how are we ever going to connect more emotionally and phyisically if she cant talk about stuff so figured not the girl for me and said goodbye. it's not that it was bad just going nowhere | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 9:18:24 AM | The worst sex I've ever had was with a girl who would only do missionary, and wouldn't do ANYTHING else. I mean like she wouldn't even let me touch her down there. Yes, it was that extreme. We're talkin no handjobs, no oral, no nothing. Just straight missionary. I made an excuse and left, without even getting off.
So yea, there's a few things that girls can do that make the sex bad:
- be boring, ie. only want missionary / be fearful of cum / no handjobs, oral, etc.
- lie there like a corpse
- refuse to communicate what they like / want
- appear disinterested
- refuse to make a sound
That's all I can think off the top of my head. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 10:36:34 AM | if she falls asleep, doesn't know she's having sex, can't cum or just lays there like shes in a coma, that would be bad sex... most typically a lazy girl. also bad hygine or bad breath or not wanting to do certain things ( how boring)
tip: make sure you dont have a lazy girl | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 10:47:19 AM | "just not being into it" .. huh... how does THAT happen?
"if she lies there in a coma".. I've nearly been put into a coma cause it was so good..  does that count as being "bad" at it? | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 10:58:23 AM | As far as I know it's when the guy rolls over after a couple of minutes.
When a guy is too drunk.
When a guy doesn't give a shit about getting his woman off.
When a girl has a smelly cooch ewe!
No communication if and when it's needed. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:05:28 AM | Agree with the just lying there, takes 2 to tango
also with the bad hygiene comments, nothing worse than going down for a chow and...... stale pee taste! or....... actually getting going and finding yourself chewing a chunk of loo roll!! | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:07:11 AM |
stale pee taste! or....... actually getting going and finding yourself chewing a chunk of loo roll!!
tuftycat you just set me back MONTHS of therapy!!! | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:17:41 AM | You know what they say.............
When sex is good its great!
When its bad, its still pretty good.
Its what you make it.
Nothing wrong with leading someone into the shower for a little fun cleanup time.
A little persuasion and guidance goes a long ways. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:19:09 AM | OK ! You want to know ?
I'll tell you the truth if you want to know !
I like giving head. I like going down on a woman.
When I go down and some other SOB's cum drips out, THAT'S BAD SEX !
Maby, a few guys wouldn't mind it, but that's a turn off for me.
Ever heard of a shower ? At least do that before I get there. OK ?
DEAD FISH ?
Do something. Move, moan, anything !
I don't care, give me a clue.
Don't make me call 911.
Are you still alive ?
A little audience appreciation, is that too much to ask ? | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:27:08 AM | Bad sex partner?
Someone who won't communicate. And who won't listen to what works and doesn't work for me.
If she won't tell me what works best for her... how am I to know? Different things work for different people.
And if she doesn't care about what works for me... well, same problem.
Of course, it's not that I'd break up with someone because of "bad sex". But, if they're the type of person who won't communicate or listen in those situations... that generally is a reflection of how they'd be in other situations as well. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:47:02 AM |
I like going down on a woman.
When I go down and some other SOB's cum drips out, THAT'S BAD SEX ! Jesus, yeah for sure you wanna make sure you're mutually exclusive before you go south.
FYI it's giving face & not head. If you are in fact giving head then it should be no secret as to why you're tasting another's. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:51:39 AM |
if she falls asleep
If she falls asleep during sex, I think you need to check your technique. I can tell you, though, that I learned to just lay there because if I moved or showed any enthusiasm, it turned 1 minute of sex into 30 seconds of sex....not that it made much difference from my point of view. | |
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| In Your Opinion ~ What Makes For Bad Sex?
Posted: 1/17/2008 11:52:15 AM | I'm with Dynomite on that one.
Bad sex is when the person can only concentrate on either you or themself and can't use the energy/synergy to bounce off each other. I use sex as a meditation tool so it won't work unless there are 2 people who get that and are both into it.
Oh, and weird smells and hair on nipples. By the way Nip, that was really gross.... | |
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