| what does SEX do for you besides...
Posted: 1/19/2008 2:55:54 PM | Assuming that you like sex- what does it do for you outside of orgasm, if anything?
Example, I was really upset about something recently. I sat down at my desk and started flipping through my mail and saw the latest Adam & Eve catalog. I checked it out- seeing if there was anything new and exciting and in the business of toys and when I was done reading it I noticed that I was instantly happier.
I know there have been times I’ve had sex that’s put me in a better mood, but even just distracting myself with sexual content seemed to do the trick in this case so it got me thinking. For me It seems to be a tension releaser, pleasure, comfort, excitement, empowering all rolled into one maybe that’s why I like it so much.
What do you notice that it does for you besides the O factor? | |
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| what does SEX do for you besides...
Posted: 1/19/2008 2:59:55 PM | Well,I don't always orgasm when I have sex.
But to answer your question,sex brings great pleasure,mentally and physically.
It's a form of escapism. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 3:00:50 PM | | escapism - definately and it seems to be much more effective than say - painting my nails or watching a movie -ha ha! | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 4:04:39 PM | I think that sexual activity is the one thing that gives you the freedom to be yourself - to relax - to explore - to be empowered - to experience joy - indeed I agree 'escapism'! It's pure pleasure and a thrill you really cannot equal in any other way!! I couldn't imagine life without it!!! | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 4:05:28 PM | sex makes me feel like a natural woman
sex makes me feel alive
and sometimes sex makes me feel like a tiger
now.. makin' love... thats a whole different ballgame | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 4:55:03 PM | | LMAO....sex never brought me to orgasm with any guy I was with! and as for doing anything for me....I'm still waitin on the answer to that one myself. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 5:05:02 PM | Hmmmm,
I guess sex for me is connection, release, stress buster of the best kind, a way to explore your partner's personality, boredom distraction, once upon a time it was a habit, sometimes an ego trip, sometimes a little like an addiction - mostly a great way to express what I feel. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 5:41:15 PM | I am rather suprised by the amount of ladies that don't have an orgasim during sex!
If you have the right partner (its free) I can't think of any better activity to do myself :) | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 5:41:32 PM | I always call it an attitude adjustment. I can get pretty crabby if I am in need. When it's over, (partner or no), I'm back to my sweet sunshine-y self
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Posted: 1/19/2008 5:48:27 PM |
I am rather suprised by the amount of ladies that don't have an orgasim during sex!
Geez, me too. That's awful. 
~OT~ What do we get other than the proverbial O, goodness ~ if there is emotional attachment, I personally am rather fond of the closeness it and of it's self. Add the reality it's the closest two people can actually be physically, if you respect that, there is just nothing better. And if there are emotional ties ~ warm fuzzies. At least for me. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 6:33:42 PM | Makes me feel like a woman.......
Its just like no other feeling on earth....
And,more i get ,more i want........... | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 7:09:15 PM | | for me it takes me outside of myself and makes me soar into the realm I cannot explain.... it is the one thing that can make two ppl meld into one.... I am no longer just me.... it can be quite the spiritual experience that let's me know that I am more then this physical being..... of course the big "O" is blinding and mesmorizing... and totally takes ones breath away.... I think it is hard to describe.... | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 7:52:06 PM | | I don't always ogasim when I have sex and it has nothing to do with the guy but more about body chemistry and stress. Sex is also a stress releaver for me. | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 7:52:40 PM | | It is a mood alterating substance all on it's own. Just knowing that it is in the works for sometime later in day, makes my whole day better... Now if I could just get it every night... | |
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Posted: 1/19/2008 7:54:56 PM | It brings me to the moment, to the present. I am intensely present with my partner, focused, attentive, immersed. There is no past or future.
It brings me to my senses, to my sense of touch and taste and smell. I see her, get lost in her eyes, her face. I hear her breathing, her sighs. I am saturated with sensory input, everything is heightened, immediate. The sheer physicality of it is overwhelming.
And if it’s been a while, I feel like I’ve been restored. Some essential part of my humanity has (been) returned to me. It’s hard to describe but it’s a feeling that I carry for days, even weeks. I am fully human again. I… Am… Sexual!
(Wonderful question!) | |
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