| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/20/2008 10:03:56 PM | How would you feel about having sex at someone else's house? I mean, say you've been dating someone a while and one or the other of you lives in the house with your mother or grandmother... would any of you be too uncomfortable to have sex in a private bedroom with the door locked?
How about if it's at someone's house where neither of you live, say, at his mother's house, out of town, for a weekend? Would you have sex there? | |
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smd83
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Joined: 1/17/2008
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/20/2008 10:07:59 PM | Well its all about being aware of your surroundings...
Meaning .. I wont be screaming my head off knowing his parents or friends are just down the hall... | |
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vro312
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Joined: 11/22/2007
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/20/2008 10:23:03 PM | Hopefully I will not be having sex with anyone whose grandmother is still alive.
But heck yes. As long as it's handled appropriately, why not? It's a good thing . . . relieves the tension of visiting relatives. | |
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Posted: 1/20/2008 10:24:25 PM | Yes, I would definitely try not to make much noise, but as long as I have some privacy, I don't care where I am or who else is in the house.
My boyfriend is uncomfortable with someone else in the house. I just wonder if anyone else has or has had this problem and maybe some advise. | |
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smd83
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Joined: 1/17/2008
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eazk
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Joined: 9/8/2006
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/20/2008 10:42:37 PM | ^^^^^true...very true. Of course, you could tell him that you opted for this rather than a midnight frolic in the park...but if he's got so many hangups, perhaps he should get a motel room "just for sex". Of course, tell him you are going to need to sign him up for some therapy sessions so he can get over this little issue.
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/20/2008 10:48:22 PM | | OK i think you are asking why your boyfriend has a problem sleeping with you in his parents house. i just think it is a timid thing where he feels uncomfortable around his relatives. he does not want his parents to know he is getting lucky. take him to your parents house and i bet his attitude will change. i know it sounds crazy but my last two long term relationships were this way. stay at their house and it pretty much guaranteed no sex but stay at my parents house and it was a circus act. go figure. I wouldn't worry about to much just be prepared to make up for lost time when you get back to your place. | |
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Posted: 1/20/2008 11:54:41 PM | | I think it would ive me confidence to try harder soo i can make her scream and her family would heear and be like wow that guy must be hurtin our daughter she got a good guy | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 12:18:46 AM | | I have had sex at my first husband's brother's house, when we'd stay over....but felt uneasy about it. Before that, at a friend's home, but they were busy with their partner in another room, and I still felt uneasy about it. But then again, I'm one of those gals raised with puritanistic sexual views and even found it hard to have sex in my own home fearing my kids would hear, lol. That's not to say I haven't changed in that aspect, I have somewhat, but still....I think it would depend on the circumstances as to whether it would bother me now or not. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 12:35:46 AM | I would do it in a room
I would do it on a broom
I would do it in a cave
I would do it at a rave
I would do it in the trees
careful though, there might be bees
I would do it in a hat
upsidedown just like a bat
private bedroom locked or not
I would do it on the spot
though your gramma's down the hall
who am I to spurn the call?
when in rome or timbuctu
I would always get with you
we could bone away from home
in a car or on a throne
on the town or out to sea
most guys you meet are just like me
;-) | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 12:42:59 AM | | yes i would be ok with sex at an other persoms house as my mother is stone death scream as much as you like xxxx | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 1:07:02 AM | Plenty of experience with this sort of thing. Poor parents of my ex thought for years she was just the most innocent of innocents... somehow I managed to get away sleeping in her bed more often than my own. I wouldn't do this in my own home though, tried and failed miserably last time, poor girl was laughing while hiding under the covers.
Best just to wait untill nobody is home | |
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Posted: 1/21/2008 5:39:56 AM | Some of the best sex I ever had was at my girlfriend's sister's house - we had to be very, very quiet. (sister was very Catholic and conservative, girlfriend was definitely not)
Hell, I had to sneak in the house, then into the bedroom, then have quiet sex, then sneak out again - it felt wonderfully naughty, like I was in high school again. The image of my girlfriend bitting a pillow to keep from moaning will continue to get me aroused for the rest of my life. | |
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Posted: 1/21/2008 5:42:51 AM | I do live with my mother and I had sex just this morning
I've also done it several times at an 'out-of-town' location like a parents place or a friends.
When I have couple friends/family over I pretty much expect that they're gonna have sex that night and make sure my door is closed and I do all my bathrooming before I go to bed so as not to disturb or make them feel uncomfortable | |
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TRI ON
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Joined: 12/6/2007
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 6:14:38 AM | Unless the person is living with thier grandparents or parents because they are old and need to be taken care of, i would not even date a person who still lives at home.
I'm sorry ladies but i am just to old to be jumping out of windows or hiding in the closet when daddy comes home. lol | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 6:19:11 AM |  Hey, if I could mount enough stamina to have great sex in a 25 foot fiberglass Santa in a mall with someone I cared about I'm confident I could have one in a house with strangers all over the place too.....
Unless I was being "graded" by everyone I'd do just fine..... I'm too nervous having people see my dimple.
 bye everyone | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 7:02:32 AM |
Hopefully I will not be having sex with anyone whose grandmother is still alive.
But heck yes. As long as it's handled appropriately, why not? It's a good thing . . . relieves the tension of visiting relatives.
Asking a number of my friends in the age group you are also in and a lot of them have one or all four grandparents alive.
How old do you want your men??
Admittedly you are here mostly for the forums but...... | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 7:10:25 AM | My ex and I used to have sex at his parents home a lot! Well because we met when I was 16 and we got married a month before I turned 20. So we had to do it somewhere! Mind you the car - the bushes - the corn field - the beach - the boat etc were fun too!!  So yup - I am comfortable doing it in someones home!!  | |
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vro312
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Joined: 11/22/2007
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 8:32:19 AM |
Asking a number of my friends in the age group you are also in and a lot of them have one or all four grandparents alive.
Wow. I don't know anyone in my general age group whose grandparents are still alive. Many of my friends have one parent deceased already.
That was an assumption based on my own cultural experience. But, you're right--I could easily have a grandparent still alive if everyone had started very, very early.
How old do you want your men??
About your age. I'll meet you at your grandma's at 7:oo. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 9:29:31 AM | Msg. 10 - greenchair - I really enjoyed your response! That is pretty much the way I feel also!
If the mood is right, and an opportunity presents itself, go for it!
What I really need to know is, how do you deal with a partner that doesn't feel the same way? | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 9:50:21 AM | | I see no problem in engaing in sexual activity whether at her mother's house or mine as long as there isn't alot of noise to wake up everyone or let them know that you are having sex. :) | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 9:53:23 AM | | This is an awesome thread, we have spontaneous on-topic poetry, and two people are about to hook up. I knew I loved these forums. | |
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| Sex at someone else's house...
Posted: 1/21/2008 10:02:36 AM | | If he doesn't have privacy at his house, then he will come to my house. I don't want anybody - roommates, mothers, children - anybody in the room next to us. | |
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