| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/25/2005 9:33:34 AM | | I know I like oral and have had no complaints so far. But is there a particular art to using the tongue or is this just an old wives tale. If there is a particular art to this, then please explain. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/25/2005 11:40:21 AM | | I say there is definitly an art! I absolutely love to give oral. I agree most ladies will say only another lady can use it correctly. Usually their body reactions tell you everything! My experience is that using it in the right spot on the clit not to roughly over and over makes them extremely happy! There is one particular lady here that OMG I want to test this on she drives me crazy with her sexy lips... Bean01 yout it! | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/25/2005 12:01:12 PM | There is a fine art to it. I think a lot of it is individual preferance. Also great enjoyment comes when the lady is well relaxed and comfortable with you. And you need to listen to directions and clues she gives ya!
I for one have no need for your tongue to go "inside"
I have a magic button that likes the attention a lot more | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/25/2005 12:47:09 PM | <--agrees with ^^^
If ya haven't any artistic talents....then ya best get the....Fruck Off Me....hee..hee...
I also think there is a Fine Art to giving head....And I Have Mastered It! lol....
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/25/2005 1:02:44 PM | Just as there is an Art to Kissing.. Yes.. there is definite techniques, for using the tongue on a gal while performing oral -and for different gals, different preferences.
If you have a partner.. - DONT be in any rush to drive that salami home.. stop for a moment, or 2 or 3...or 40 (yes..i said 40minutes) .. and ask her what she wants.... ask her what she likes..
BUT MORE importantly listen.. not only with your ears.. but feel the tremers.. the keegles, the muscle spasms.. when they become involuntary in nature (usually accompanied with heavy breathing, sighing, occassional screams, clenched fists full of your hair on the back of your head) .. you are doing something right.
Store that procedure away deep .. and remember where it comes from.. it should be given as a GIFT not a trade off for something in return..
meet her here.. be attentive to her needs and you will never have to worry about yours
keep in mind.. some find tongue to clitoris stimulation just wayyyyyyyyyyyy to sensitive...
(especially after reaching her peak ;) ... give her a bit of space, move on to other things if necessary)
if that is the case.. perhaps.. focus at the base, along the grooves of the labia
personally.. i find a side to side motion with the tongue works better the the "lapping" like a dog - it is much quicker and you have better control of the contact, frequency and instensity
again.. each girl may be different.
I have not had any complaints...and im not into bragging.. i can still count my partners on one hand.. - and perhaps soo few, cause satisfaction has been high.
Always practice safely. I tend to be fresh breathed before starting, halitosis is a ripe breeding ground for bacteria and rinse with listerine soon after finishing.
Final note: be careful of that little string of skin on the bottom of your tongue, if you are sticking your tongue out tooo far, in the heat of the moment you may become un-aware that it it rubbing against your own teeth as it stretchs outward.. this can cause it to become swollen and sore. Do not attempt to break endurance records.. (40 is not my best, its my average) .. like any hobby, interest, endeavour, you cannot be "the best" unless you try, practice, learn, listen, try again. Be patient. If you are focused on her needs...., not trying to score that home run.. you can have a lot of fun out on second and third bases.
hope this has been helpful.. Good Luck. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/25/2005 1:05:33 PM | Of course it is an art. And as any good artist should, study your subject. Learn what makes her breath quicken and pay close attention to when she flexes.
One of my favorite tricks is to firmly rub her g-spot with my middle finger while waiting for her pelvic muscles to tighten and flex. When you feel her bear down on your finger, lick a little faster along the sides of her clit until she relaxes. Subconsciously she will start to stay flexed longer and longer as her orgasm draws closer. Just keep up the pattern of quick firm licks while she's flexed and slower when she's relaxed. You'll give her a mind blowing orgasm in no time, and since you are stroking her g-spot, you just might get a tasty reward  | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/29/2006 6:27:29 AM | yall need to stop and think there's sexually diseases in the day and age out there like aids that theres no cure for. Is different sexualy parnters really worth the feel good thing. It's guys like you that spread stuff, remember you sleep with every one that has slept with you,,
I make sure my partner gets tested some one that Im in love with before any thing can happend. I don't have any thing and I would like to keep it that way, | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/29/2006 6:36:52 AM | ^^^^msg 8- I believe this thread was started to discuss the art of oral on your 'partner', not multiple partners. thanks for the information though.
I believe that each woman is so totally different in how she would love to receive oral from her partner - just as any other stimulation you have to offer. It is the communication between partners that is the true art! | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/29/2006 7:19:09 AM | there sure is an art to using the tongue...and i did say that i love art in my profile..damn now the truth is unravelling...
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 5/29/2006 7:25:52 AM | If you have to ask, then you havent mastered the art yet.
this is in no way putting anyone down, just making a comment.
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/8/2006 7:13:56 AM | I love to give oral to women very slow softly just the tip of my toung I love to please her
I want her to enjoy it and make her cum over and over and if she is young and beautiful wow
Iam very good at the art of oral sex .its like my name lickher??? | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/8/2006 7:31:41 AM | | there is when a person KNOWS how 2 use their tongue & not just lay there thinking they know.. there`s been a few men (that i know of) that have "mastered" this "technique" & have had me screaming bloody murder & have had me praising god`s name many.. many times.. but those r few & far between.. | |
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| Here's one of my techniques......
Posted: 7/8/2006 8:30:37 AM | ah but of course.... being a frenchman I know this naturally.
The next time you are giving your woman oral pleasure.... try forming the letters of the alphabet with your tongue on her minou kitty cat. Please just dont flick your tongue continually up and down... occassionally yes, but continually this I like to call "painting the fence". Women get bored of this quick, which is why I suggest the alphabet. You can get really creative and lay a book on her tummy and you can formulate each letter of each word.
Shakespear is romantic done in this fashion, or for a silly approach.... try anything from Dr. Seuss. | |
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| Here's one of my techniques......
Posted: 7/8/2006 10:21:50 AM | I understand your confusion my friend. The first time I went down on a girl I was 16 and it looked nothing like the colour coded diagrams I'd seen in health class. I just looked at it and thought to myself "okay, find the pink circle...pink circle, pink circle...wtf?! It's pink everywhere!!" Needless to say my first time was kind of sloppy 
try forming the letters of the alphabet with your tongue
I thank the late great Sam Kinison in my mind everytime I'm down on a girl for divulging this secret to the male populace in his stand-up acts. I've expanded on this to include foreign languages as well. A combination of Hebrew and English can get the job done something real proper likes. If you happen to know any Asian alphabets I envy you.
You can get really creative and lay a book on her tummy and you can formulate each letter of each word
And for the raunchy ones in here you can also spend some time spelling out dirty words and what you plan on doing to her once your jaw seizes up.
Oh and don't just focus on the primary target. For added fun, don't forget the rest of the vulva and the inside of the thigh. The more she's into it and the more you tease, the more fun you'll have.
Oh and Jim, I'll see your 40 minutes and raise you another 34! HA! | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/8/2006 11:48:34 AM | No brainer oral sex is an art form , like an art form the best have techinque and ... unconventional procedure . Different strokes for different folks. She women like the "ice cream" method ( using your tongue as if you were eating an ice cream cone , broad , long drawn out licks , that are slow , time and passionate ) , some prefer the alphabet method and some prefer porno tongue . A couple of things stay true in all cases. One remember to show the man in the canue some attention . two use your voice box , Give a deep moan while your in the act . The vibrations do wonders. Finally , give her a pillow to prop up her some not that much wieght is on you shoulders .
love life in your love life | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/8/2006 1:51:22 PM | | Yes there is an art to it. The art is knowing your lady. Listen to her. Every woman is different. So we all enjoy it different. Well not all of it. Some things never go out of style. He He. You may not know if it is the right way, but believe me you will always know if it is the wrong way. | |
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| Is there an art to using the tongue?
Posted: 7/8/2006 1:51:29 PM | Ok did a fly by just to answer:
Most definatly there is a Magical Art to using the tongue....start practicing because it will def. open "doors" for you LOL--study lips and rest of mouth too..lol | |
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