| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 12:47:11 AM | | Have you noticed that when the word "loser" is used 99% of the time it's used to describe a male?.......we all heard the elements a guy needs to be considered a "loser"..bald, short, doesn't live alone, no car...etc;..but i wanted to know are there female losers?....and if their are what are the elements?......just curious. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 2:02:58 AM | No,there are no female losers.
We're all WINNERS. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 2:26:15 AM | ^^^^^^^^ so very well put and very correct.
men THINK they are in control and rule the world when in fact its women who rule the planet....women just let us think we do.
its a womans world out there i have to say. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 2:56:00 AM | I really do not believe ANYONE are losers, male or female. We are all capable of doing great things as well as bad. Remember people are a product of their family environment, genetic make up[handicapped,short, missing limb etc] and social circles[town, school etc.]. It is what people do with their situation. Plus the fact one persons so called 'loser' might be anothers dreamboat. It is not simple as putting a label on someone. Besides many people live up to labels even bad ones so try being positive to all | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 4:18:46 AM | Anyone living with extremely low expectations, should fit the bill as far as i'm concerned.
I've seen female losers.
I.e 45 years old, working for minimum wage, clubbing trying to pick up 20 year olds. Alcoholic, drug addict, and so on.
20 something year old. Popped out 5 kids already. No man. On welfare.
I see a gold digger with a piece of crap car, as a loser, as well. I've seen quite a few of those. Or a gold digger, who can't even afford good shoes. What kind of gold digging are you working with, girl?! You're supposed to be chasing CEO's. Not Wendy's managers. Get it right.
Most cougars, are stereotypical female losers. If you can't score someone your own age...chances are. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 4:28:10 AM | A loser is a loser no matter what sex they are. And the criteria doesn't differ from one sex to the other. This thread reminds me of one a few months ago that asked "what is a male gold digger called". Duh, a gold digger. There is nothing in these words that indicate race, sex, religion, or any other group or category.
In my book, a loser is simply a person who lives far below their potential, and is content with that. It's a person who would rather sponge off of their parents, grandparents, and significant others instead of supporting themselves. A loser is someone who would risk a decent job by doing drugs and knowing that they have random piss tests. A loser is someone who has children and is too immature to raise them properly.
Wow...I just realized that I just described my cousin, Christie. And yes, that would be a female. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 5:23:34 AM | Hmmm, never knew men were called losers if they were bald, short, doesn't live alone, no car...etc
compactdisc - YIPPEEE....a man who finally gets it
RSwindol - I agree with your def of a loser the most..
and yes, loser can be both male and female. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 9:29:54 AM | really do not believe ANYONE are losers, male or female. We are all capable of doing great things as well as bad. Remember people are a product of their family environment, genetic make up[handicapped,short, missing limb etc] and social circles[town, school etc.]. It is what people do with their situation. Plus the fact one persons so called 'loser' might be anothers dreamboat. It is not simple as putting a label on someone. Besides many people live up to labels even bad ones so try being positive to all
agreed. interesting how it's easier to put someone down then look at ourselves or extend a hand. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 9:33:23 AM | In my opinion, substance abusers (pot and alcohol included), people who are in and out of jail, women or men who make kids they cannot look after, are all LOSERS.
I am a loner who spends a great deal of time working out in a gym and I don't drink or smoke or abuse drugs. I am very outspoken about it.
Some people would consider me to be a loser, but those people are usually the type that I am talking about in my first statement. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 9:50:59 AM | God yes there are female losers.
I've had run ins with several.
Hot chicks looking for a man to take care of them. Ones with kids that would rather go to a bar every night than care for their children. Even the vodka slammer, meth heads, and alcoholics that don't think they have a problem. Loser isn't a sex. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 10:57:31 AM | | I can't think of a gender-specific synonym for "loser", either--I agree, 90% of the time it's used for males. I don't quite want to go as far as saying 90% of the losers ARE male, but... | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 11:25:50 AM |
Have you noticed that when the word "loser" is used 99% of the time it's used to describe a male?.......we all heard the elements a guy needs to be considered a "loser"..bald, short, doesn't live alone, no car...etc;..but i wanted to know are there female losers?....and if their are what are the elements?......just curious.
At one time or another,EVERYBODY exhibits qualities that would suggest that they are a "loser"
It's a subjective term....
Female losers would probably:
1) Not take care of their kids.
2) Abuse alcohol/drugs
3) Be promiscuous
4) Not be dependable at work or in their personal lives.
5) Blame others for their own failings.
6) Be sociopaths or have anti-social personality disorders.
Just like male losers...
Hmmm.... | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 11:35:19 AM | | Anyone who does "looser" things is a looser...I dont discriminate anyone can be one lol | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 2:03:33 PM | | well, classifying someone as a loser just because he is bald or short?? nope, not me. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 2:05:44 PM | Have you heard about the lonesome loser
Beaten by the queen of hearts every time
Have you heard about the lonesome loser
He's a loser, but he still keeps on tryin' | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 3:44:05 PM |
Have you heard about the lonesome loser
Beaten by the queen of hearts every time
Have you heard about the lonesome loser
He's a loser, but he still keeps on tryin'
Indeed... that pretty much sums me up in a nutshell... I can't suceed in life no matter how much I try, but God damn it, I'll keep on trying until there's no more breath in my lungs. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 3:59:09 PM |
God yes there are female losers
One is running for President.
Sorry, couldn't resist. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 4:08:58 PM | | Yeah......I don't agree with all of the qualifications that society see as someone being a loser, because just like someone above posted, seeing someone as a loser is a subjective thing for the most part unless your a drug addict, in prison, or one of the guys featured on "To catch a Predator"...lolol | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 4:09:30 PM | I'm a female loser and proud of it! | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 5:06:49 PM | | Female Losers...getting beat up by their bf, spouses, date...and going right back to them. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 6:48:40 PM | Female Losers...getting beat up by their bf, spouses, date...and going right back to them.
right. and calling them a loser is really helpful to their situation. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/28/2008 9:44:42 PM | | I'm a looser female--does that count? | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/29/2008 2:38:02 AM | | I would say HILLARY is a winner . The lady has a law degree and has risen to magnificent heights. Even if you do not like the lady at least be objective. Thus someone that judges success as a failure , surely has to be someone as a loser .... male or female. | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/29/2008 3:19:31 AM | Of course there are...
If a male loser is allegedly bald, short, doesnt live alone, no car....
Then I would say a female loser is...
Died blonde with 2 inches of black roots, 5 kids, no job, smokes like a chimney, lives off the state, no car and a mouth that resembles a sewer.... - yep, loser.
A loser of a man for me is usually a druggy, no job, kids, possibly a criminal..... | |
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| Female losers?
Posted: 1/29/2008 12:31:03 PM | Like Cocytus said earlier, we all exhibit signs of being a loser at one time or another, in the course of our lives.
When, I was a lot younger, the first girl to break my heart dumped me, because she thought I would always be quite wild; never go to college, and never amount to much. Six years after she dumped me, we ran into one another, and she spent the next fifteen years chasing me, before giving up.
I asked her a simple question: I wasn't good enough once; what makes me good enough now?
She wouldn't answer that question, although I knew the answer.
She thought me a loser when I was in my late teens. After I got out of the military, I went to school, twice, and made something of myself, for myself.
Those who are abused by their boyfriends, husbands, and significant others, are victims of The Battered Woman's Syndrome. Yes, it's a real psychological diagnosis, listed in the DSMIIIR. | |
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