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 mc1912
Joined: 1/11/2008
Msg: 1
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Have any ladies out there ever slept with a guy when you've really needed to go to the bathroom?

I know you shouldn't hold your bladder on a regular basis in case you get a water infection, but I've heard in the past that a very full bladder can really intensify an orgasm (something to do with the bladder pressing on the G-spot???).

Just curious......
 Luv Karla
Joined: 9/29/2007
Msg: 2
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 6:36:19 AM
No need to post this 3 times,especially in the same category.

Read the POF forum guidelines.
 mc1912
Joined: 1/11/2008
Msg: 3
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 6:40:34 AM
Apologies for the multiple post - am having problems with my PC.....
 fay98
Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 4
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 6:49:26 AM
Only if hes into golden showers.
 missdolly
Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 5
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:13:58 AM

Have any ladies out there ever slept with a guy when you've really needed to go to the bathroom?

I know you shouldn't hold your bladder on a regular basis in case you get a water infection, but I've heard in the past that a very full bladder can really intensify an orgasm (something to do with the bladder pressing on the G-spot???).

Just curious......


True
 Anazdaddy
Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 6
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 11:25:57 AM
So..even though I have always thought the opposite..the popular myth is true? Female ejaculate is nothing more then pee? I would think having sex with a full bladder would be uncomfortable, man or woman. Unless, like a poster suggested, they were into water sports.
 Geneseo
Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 7
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 11:48:32 AM
So..even though I have always thought the opposite..the popular myth is true? Female ejaculate is nothing more then pee?


This has been covered before. However, the way that I understand it, and I HAVE researched it, believe it or not.

The ejaculate, may or may not be pee. If it comes from the vagina and not the urethra, then it is a vaginal secretion, coming from "possibly" the ovaries.
My nursing teacher, when I asked her, informed me, that during a deep orgasm, the ovaries contract, or spasm.
On the other hand, I have also heard, that they do not spasm at all, ever.

What it boils down to, is I don't give a crap what it is. It's warm, it's wet, it feels like one has achieved a result, and I enjoy it.

Yay for me.


EDIT: Oops, I just went off topic.
Going back to the original question. Some claim, that some women enjoy having sex with a full bladder, because if they release it at the point of orgasm, the orgasm is more powerful and pleasurable.

works for me.
 ~LoriMac~
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 8
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 11:50:45 AM
Female ejaculate isnt just pee...i think this is smething else he is asking about...cuz i know i can squirt without having to go to the bathroom. I think he isnt going for a golden shower either...he is talking about the bladder causing extra pressure...hmm never tried it...but I dont need to
 fay98
Joined: 8/8/2007
Msg: 9
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 12:47:02 PM
I agree lorimac...have had the g spot hit a few times but it sure wasn't because i had a full bladder and no it wasn't pee.


Thanks geneso...you always put alot of thought in your post...i can be so silly but it does keep me smiling.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
Msg: 10
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Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 1:45:17 PM
I have had to STOP having sex with someone 'cause I needed to pee... but never started out that way. Just makes it painful for me..
 Bellydanza
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 11
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 3:17:05 PM
female ejaculate is NOT pee. It comes from the vagina. Look it up on the net, probably on a women's sexual health site. I just read about this in a woman's magazine. It is a rare occurance actually.

I've never had sex with a full bladder and don't plan to. I think what would ejaculate then would be pee
 MizzRobin
Joined: 12/9/2007
Msg: 12
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 3:21:10 PM
This makes sense. Its happened a few times when I got really horny when I had to pee. After I peed the horniness went away.
 Bellydanza
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/30/2008 3:26:20 PM
http://www.coolnurse.com/f_ejaculation.htm

I found this website about ejaculation
 saltyd0g
Joined: 11/29/2007
Msg: 14
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Posted: 1/30/2008 3:51:06 PM

It is a rare occurance actually.


Not with some women....
 missdolly
Joined: 1/15/2008
Msg: 15
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 3:58:05 PM
A full bladder does put pressure on the g-spot - - I've heard this from g/fs.

:)

MistressDolly
the original
 pondscum
Joined: 6/28/2007
Msg: 16
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 6:01:33 PM
I'd be terrified of p i s s i n g myself.
 snarfcore
Joined: 8/9/2006
Msg: 17
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 6:06:20 PM
*headdesk, repeatedly*

No. No. No.

You are referring to female ejaculation. It is not urine. If there is urine present in said ejaculate, it is in very small percentages. Despite popular belief, MANY WOMEN ARE CAPABLE OF THIS. The tricky thing about female sexuality, is a majority of women psyche themselves out of, well, sex and orgasms. For some reason, a good deal of women don't know how to tell their brains to STFU and enjoy the moment. Saying, "Gee, a lot of women can't do this, I must be one of them." is a great example of this.

The majority of female ejaculate you see in porns are completely phony. The proof that someone has had one of these orgasms is not in how much liquid shoots out of their body. There is a reason these orgasms are also called full-body orgasms.

Go here (Be warned: Site contains diagrams and pictures. NOT pornography, but though I should give you all a heads up.)

http://www.the-clitoris.com/f_html/ejacula.htm

Learn your biology. Educate yourself. Stop thinking women everywhere are pissing themselves, or that WOE you're incapable of having one of the best orgasms of your life.
 Fanciful
Joined: 12/10/2007
Msg: 18
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 7:02:29 PM
I know I would lose control if I orgasmed when I had to pee, so he'd better like golden showers!
 Anazdaddy
Joined: 7/12/2007
Msg: 19
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/30/2008 10:31:57 PM
Well see I know that female ejaculate isn't pee..it's actually a beautiful thing when it happens. I just worry that now that people are enjoying 'full bladder sex' that the misconception will rear it's head again. I love when a woman squirts, from me or masturbation..either way, its beautiful. I just have never met any person, male or female, that could enjoy sex with a full bladder.
 saltyd0g
Joined: 11/29/2007
Msg: 20
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/31/2008 6:24:16 AM
Thanks for the site, snarfcore:

"Female ejaculate is a fluid that is expelled from the body through the urethra during sexual activities. "

That's always been my understanding that it's urethral discharge and not from the vagina. It's a completely different feeling (from what I've been told) then either vaginal or clitoral orgasms, and I'm not sure it could be qualified as an orgasm but definitely related to the G spot and female prostrate.

There is a huge range in the quantity of fluids involved. I bet it goes from a teaspoon into the 2-cup range. I had a GF in college that took the biscuit by nearly drowning me during oral sex and completely soaking the bed clothes and mattress. I had to ask her to give me some warning and I started padding the bed with towels before she came over.

It also tastes completely different. It's bitter. Not completely unpleasant, but very different from vaginal lubricants.

And, not all women ejaculate in my experience. Not that I'm hugely experienced as I tend toward long term relationships, but we're talking about < 10%. And, this from the guy that loves to pleasure the G-Spot. I suspect that not all women can, so don't feel bad if you try and can't. There is a huge range of female experience out there from multiple orgasm, clitoral vrs. vaginal, G-spots, etc. and ejaculation is just one more variable. Enjoy what works for you.
 ~LoriMac~
Joined: 3/12/2006
Msg: 21
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/31/2008 7:02:21 AM
I dont know if all women can but I know I was taught. So its possible to learn.

I would think if you have strong orgasms having to pee would be hard to manage....I dont think I want to try this one.
 jacel0
Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 22
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Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/31/2008 11:09:45 AM
I have to have sex on a full bladder; -- Cause I have aspartame poisoning; -- that is one of the adverse side affects; IF I have sex --on an empty bladder; ----- I can last up to 45 minuites; And THAT becomes work; I remember one woman, --- climaxed -19- times before I had an orgasm; KEPT A SMILE ON HER FACE FOR -3- WEEKS; That was on an empty bladder; jacel ---
 oceancowgirl9
Joined: 12/4/2007
Msg: 23
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/31/2008 11:14:42 AM
Yes becareful because you could get a golden shower...LV
 saltyd0g
Joined: 11/29/2007
Msg: 24
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/31/2008 2:36:33 PM

but I know I was taught. So its possible to learn.


Do tell. PM me if you want. I had a GF that dreamed of this, but alas, she couldn't.
 Bellydanza
Joined: 11/25/2007
Msg: 25
Sex with a full bladder
Posted: 1/31/2008 2:52:42 PM
19 times in 45 minutes huh? uhm did you call guiness? I find it funny that when men think I climax and I tell them uhm no i didn't, they are surprised. Most men wouldn't know a female orgasm if it slapped them in the face. I'm lucky if I get two over the course of a few hours. And it isn't the guys I'm with either. I know how to make myself orgasm and to help a guy help me, but my body doesn't just do it over and over.....time and time again. But when I do they are big and most guys are very wowed as they've seen nothing like it before. It makes me think that whoever else they were with was faking...
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