| | Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!Page 1 of 2 (1, 2) | My name is Larry, And I Dont Understand Women...At All ! All I want is One Woman to Love and to be Loved ! I am average looking, But I am still single for quite a long time now !!! I guess that I will HAVE to keep  ????????????????????????????? | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/30/2008 8:51:39 PM | Larry, don't lose hope. Keep looking and emailing women that you are interested in. It is hard not to find someone right away, but it will be worth it when you do find the right one. Good luck and keep the faith. it will happen. | |
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MNM08
| | Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 6 | |
| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/30/2008 9:17:03 PM | | We all go through a spell with no luck, it has happened to me quite a few times and wonder if I ever will find the right one. I tell myself stay positive and keep trying. Women are very hard to understand, and they want to keep it that way...lol | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/30/2008 9:24:50 PM | OPie, lose that picture. Find at least ONE interest that you might actually share with a woman. And please take out all the chit about headgames, it tells the next lady that that is what you keep drawing to yourself over and over. Check out the profile review thread, and do some work on it.
Good luck!!
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/30/2008 9:42:00 PM | I agree its nutz
I think I look average at LEAST and Im kinda ALONE
but we get more particular too so I guess its all part of growth
We are not settlin or takin the first one down the pike
so bravo for us and if we could learn patience we'd b all set
hang in
kathi | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/30/2008 9:47:42 PM | | You know what I think Larry, its because you are looking for someone so hard that you can't them! Trust me as soon as you stop looking you will be getting emails or have randoms approaching you. When you want to be with someone right this moment you just have no luck, it seems its always that way! | |
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ADAWG
| | Joined: 1/23/2008
Msg: 10 | |
| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/30/2008 11:33:58 PM | | Is anyone ever truly alone all you really need is yourself when a person is happy on their own someone comes along. When you try to hard and feel alone women can sense it and it you keep digging your hole deeper and deeper. Now that I'm single I take that time to work on me course volunteer gym get involved in the community anything. If you put yourself out there and remain busy someone will come along. Use all your avenues to meet a person not just the internet. Use each day to meet someone new man woman whatever. But to sit around and mope and say ill never find anyone im a good looking guy i dont know why i dont find anyone well that attitude right there is why you have one get off the pity train and get your ass out there be confident and enjoy life. Travel play a sport anything women like exciting men give them lots to offer not just a pity party | |
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TLC_
| | Joined: 1/26/2008
Msg: 12 | |
| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/31/2008 4:12:20 AM | | Larry, by having a profile on here you have increased your odds of finding a lady, though by how much is hard to know. Probably it is proportional to the number of other guys and women in your area and age group, who are seeking a relationship | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/31/2008 5:34:56 AM | | First, everyone have options. Most guys here can find a woman within a week, if any woman would do. OP, you sound like a nice guy. That is both a good thing and a bad thing. You talk about finding a loving woman. You talk about catering to her needs. Its good to say while in a relationship. This is desperate talk to put in a profile. STOP IT. Life does not stop just because you don't have a woman. My advice to you is to get involved in different interests in life. This will create a new circle of friends, increasing your chance to meet a special woman. | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/31/2008 6:32:29 AM | First of all you have been here less than a month. Second in your profile you say message or mail ME. Learn to take the initive. It's a big pond, start fishing!!!!!!
Plus reading and joining in the forums will give you some insite into people by their posts. That is always something to message someone on to start a conversation. Good Luck | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/31/2008 6:46:04 AM | If you try to hard......................you will appear desperate...
number one turn off to most women!! (we DO know what we want and need by the way)..grrr at these guys who think/say we dont!
Sometimes, actually most times... things happen when we least expect them too.......go out, have fun, be casual about meeting people...sooner or later...IT WILL HAPPEN!!!
the key is.................PATIENCE!!!
a partener should compliment your life.....not be there cause you feel you NEED someone!! | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/31/2008 8:45:57 AM | I am wondering if perhaps you are too picky when contacting ladies. I am knew to this but a friend told me to keep in mind that a profile is just that and if you don't take the time to get to know people beyond their pictures, you may pass over someone right for you.
I took her advice and I am looking for someone who seems to be easy to get along with and compatible and not focus on how well they look in the photos. | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/31/2008 10:23:23 AM | Larry, dont lose hope, without that, you have nothing!
Serenity~
I echo her advice!!
If there was a book or a guide that would disclose how and what women want, believe me the author would be multi triollonare!!! Unfortunately there is no perfect advice. We touch and go.
Don't you loose hope!!! Remain patient!
A few years back I had come out of a 4 year relationship, I ended it. It took me 12 months to fully recover, but once I did, I put myself out there, started hitting pubs, meeting more people....engaging into conversations with women at the bank line-up, at the gas station...while shopping for vegetables...and guess what? I found a real nice woman...we were together for 12 months up until 30 days ago--but who is counting the days hu?
Look ahead, be confident. Don't expect women to come to you, DO YOUR PART for Gods sakes !
OH and enjoy your free time right now, hahaah because once you find a good woman to take care of you, to be your friend and lover, you will not have too much time alone :D
Emilio | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/31/2008 10:31:29 AM | increased your odds of finding a lady
According to a lot of the forum posts I've seen, what you'll most likely find is an odd lady.
your life isn't for understanding (wo)men. It's for understanding yourself
damn! I'm dead in the water then...understanding myself is like untying a Celtic knot...
Cindy O | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/31/2008 1:24:50 PM | Make a list of all the qualities you want in your dream woman.
Now, look at your list. This is what you need to become.
If you want someone who is caring, then you need to be more caring. If you want someone who is a good listener, you need to become a better listener.
Like attracts like. Once you take on the traits of your dream person then you can attract them. Also, it makes you happier with yourself. You find out that you can meet your own needs and stop feeling so lonely.
Right now you sound desperate and needy. All you will attract with that attitude is someone desperate and needy. Someone you don't want to be with. Change your attitude and you can change your life. | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 1/31/2008 1:37:01 PM | | OP...........as a renowned philosopher once said....."Life sucks then you die". Or in the words of Alfred E. Neumam.........."What me Worry?" Just trying to make lite of a serious subject. There is no advice.......you have to follow what you want. | |
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MNM08
| | Joined: 1/14/2008
Msg: 22 | |
| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 2/9/2008 11:54:40 AM | Well I try to never lose hope in finding that right one, now and then I might get a little frustrated, but I know I have a lot to offer someone. Some may not see it, who knows, but you never know what can happen day to day, the perfect one for you might pop up. Main thing is find someone who compliments you and there is a good chemistry.
On thing I do not understand, not too long ago I was communicating with a very nice woman, but all of a sudden I got blocked from sending emails. No idea why, did not send 50 messages a day, no rude ones, etc. Fit all the requirements. See there that can get a tad frustrating. I just figure either she must have found someone, did not want to be bothered, decided I was hideious, who knows. I kind of think it is rude, but oh well. If I had sent a bunch of messages a day, I would understand, but who knows.
Main thing is enjoy life and who knows who will pop up.... | |
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Ecky2
| | Joined: 7/31/2007
Msg: 23 | |
| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 2/9/2008 1:28:58 PM | im in the same situation, im on the point of giving up looking now. All men seem to want is sex,sex and more sex, then they leave ya. Im really down about it at the moment and to be honest, i cant be bothered anymore. Men dont seem to want a relationship nowadays, just as many shags as possible. i dont live in hope anymore, im getting a dog instead.  | |
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| Relationship minded...But No Woman to hold ! Im Losing Hope!!!
Posted: 2/9/2008 1:33:22 PM | Larry,
You need to have a beginners mind in all of this, that means to keep your curiosity about finding a woman. Better yet, if you stop looking she may find you. I have noticed in life that things such as love is best found through the path of least resistance. Stay strong, love yourself, and that will set you up for someone to love you back. | |
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