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 jakkedup

Joined: 2/1/2008
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Oh boy, that's worse than entrapment. [Closed Thread]
Posted: 2/3/2008 5:43:59 PM
yes, yes, I've read the other locked topics on this subject. But I'm posting here to share my "entrapment" story.


You see a good profile, send out a mail to them, and then go "DOH"!!!! I forgot to check the "For" setting. You look again, and sure enough.... "intimate encounter". I think it's great to have everone here, who is looking for something/anything, but shouldn't the "nude bathers" have there own beach? I mean it's like playing Russian roulette... and all my reply was, is that if they ever are looking for something more meaningful, like a long term relationship, or to comment on how pretty their hair is.... " Seems odd, that this filter is there. It's kinda like what the cops do. They bait you with something like a promise of money, or a good time, and then bammm... your busted. Not that this has happened to me, but I strongly dislike the idea of fishing. You put out bait, and wait for some sucker to bite.

Well, I've double checked my "favorites" to make sure I have no "intimate encounters" in there. But for pity's sake, what are we all here for in the first place? If it's just email chat, I'm sure it will still be intimate chat at some point. I doubt anyone here is really repulsed by intimacy.

I can't believe that I can't even message others who have "dating" or "other" or "talk/email" or even "activity partner". Come on... if we can't be active and share time together, go bowling, etc, then what they heck is this? I'd love to go bowling and share activities with someone, but now, I'm afraid to message anyone like that, cause it's going to get me blocked.

This is an all around poor design, and leaves much much to be desired.
 LISA08

Joined: 1/29/2008
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Oh boy, that's worse than entrapment.
Posted: 2/3/2008 5:54:25 PM
I mean it's like playing Russian roulette.


Ok you've said it best.... you deserve a prize for that one.


and all my reply was, is that if they ever are looking for something more meaningful, like a long term relationship, or to comment on how pretty their hair is.... " Seems odd, that this filter is there. It's kinda like what the cops do. They bait you with something like a promise of money, or a good time, and then bammm... your busted.


You don't get flagged for answering mail from someone who is looking for an intimate encounter---only if YOU are out there sending numerous emails to people looking for intimate encounters.


and all my reply was, is that if they ever are looking for something more meaningful, like a long term relationship, or to comment on how pretty their hair is..




stop--please.......

This is fantastic reading for someone who is into drama/comedy....
 Ticketoride

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