Plentyoffish dating forums are a place to meet singles and get dating advice or share dating experiences etc. Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing... Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
     
Show ALL Forums  > Ask A Guy  > Why are some men indecisive?      Home login  
 AUTHOR
 sexyvicky69
Joined: 9/22/2007
Msg: 1
view profile
History
Why are some men indecisive?Page 1 of 2    (1, 2)
Ok Guys in a nutshell.

We were aquaintances for over a year. I was in a relationship at the time and turned him down on his numerous advances. When I became single we started hanging out more. He assumed I would sleep with him as we have explosive chemistry. (kissing, making out that's all) Than he decided to give his ex another chance. I put a stop on all physical contact with him and decided to make some space between us. Again, he is making the first move, but this time he wants to talk and watch a game together at a bar. No funny business...but I can feel his heart jumping out of his chest when he huggs me.

What the F is up with this guy?
 Bluezzz
Joined: 11/23/2007
Msg: 2
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/3/2008 6:33:47 PM
He's "in between" having someone and is approaching you this time differently hoping that things have a different outcome.


Bluezzz
 Discofied
Joined: 8/31/2007
Msg: 3
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/3/2008 6:47:01 PM
He needs something to do until the next girl comes along.
 CSIAnaheim
Joined: 12/3/2007
Msg: 4
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:18:45 PM
I'm not indecisive!


Or am I?
 garnet73
Joined: 1/2/2008
Msg: 5
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:31:35 PM
Sometimes men are indecisive because "women's prerogative" is all about confusing us or driving us totally insane.

Other times, men are indecisive because their wee head is like a weather-vane, and any woman that might be beddable is like a strong wind.
 LISA08
Joined: 1/29/2008
Msg: 6
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/3/2008 7:46:24 PM
Like you said--he wants to do you.
 skierMik
Joined: 11/1/2007
Msg: 7
view profile
History
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/3/2008 9:17:41 PM
He's not over his ex but he wants some company, and he doesn't want to hurt you but he's really really attracted to you. He knows he should stay away but he's still getting pulled into the light!
 Fractalheart
Joined: 1/13/2008
Msg: 8
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/3/2008 9:29:51 PM
Men are indecisive because the pull of emotions against logic. He is weighing your worth as a friend against your worth as a girlfriend, and if he gets his cake and eats it to; he can allow himself to be delusional. That sucks for you.
 Aurora772
Joined: 12/1/2007
Msg: 9
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 4:27:58 AM
OP, he's a sucker for chemistry. That's why he keeps coming back to you despite your repeated rejections.
 cyranodbvw
Joined: 12/12/2007
Msg: 10
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 5:15:15 AM
I don't know how accurate this is but I keep getting the feeling that he wants his cake and eat it too. He won't break things off with the ex to pursue a relationship with you and he doesn't want to take the chance that he'll lose an opportunity with you while he's trying to rekindle something with the ex. Just my opinion for whatever it's worth.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 11
view profile
History
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 5:21:14 AM
This isn't indecision...its a decision.

He has found out that you respond when he pushes your boundaries. You don't walk away, b/c of all this "explosive chemestry".

He is, therefore, having his cake and eating it, too.
 §wannee
Joined: 6/5/2007
Msg: 12
view profile
History
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 5:59:39 AM

Why are some men indecisive?
Because they have a hard time making up their minds.......


I either get what I want or I change my mind.........
 54online
Joined: 1/27/2005
Msg: 13
view profile
History
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 6:25:34 AM
it's not indecision - he's challenged by the "tiger in the bedroom" on your profile and wants to find out exactly what that means
 imaginationofsoul
Joined: 8/24/2007
Msg: 14
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 6:55:42 AM
Hes giving his ex a chance. But...he's making a move on you too?

Or is it, he's with his ex, and he still wants to be your friend...but he can't help but feel the chemistry you mentioned earlier?

If theres no funny business, but he's palpatating, it might be he's drawn a line for himself not to cross, but he still feels how he feels regardless.
 pepsi40
Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 15
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:22:52 AM
Is he multidating, nice you let him have a gf and you :)
 Jeff_21740
Joined: 6/26/2007
Msg: 16
view profile
History
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 7:49:48 AM
Yep he wants to do you, but wants you to accept the fact he will never be yours and yours alone. It isnt that he is indecisive he just hasnt figured out if you will still do him if he stays with the GF and how to approach it. Or maybe that IS indecisive....
 asheel_heel
Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 17
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 1:22:23 PM
Why are some men indecisive?

I'm not sure. It's hard to say.
 Limeshines
Joined: 10/22/2007
Msg: 18
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 1:40:18 PM
Idk OP - but this is a irritating question
 keng71
Joined: 3/27/2007
Msg: 19
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 1:51:09 PM
I agree with the cake comments. Well maybe not cake, a steak or maybe some nice popcorn! Not sure... but not cake for sure...well maybe cake...

This guy is not indecisive though that I DO know.
 Harry Peter
Joined: 12/25/2006
Msg: 20
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 5:03:49 PM
Cocaine will make your heart race. He do a little snort-snort?
 clambroth
Joined: 10/27/2007
Msg: 21
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 6:08:21 PM
You've each won several matches. Game's tied, point set break. Games. That's the operative word. Stop playing games and let something develop
 blue eyes 123
Joined: 5/13/2007
Msg: 22
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 6:22:40 PM
I don't know, yes I do, no I don't, yes I do.
 Kidd Icthus
Joined: 6/6/2007
Msg: 23
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/4/2008 8:53:56 PM
I think it's a nervous thing...or maybe they just want what they can't have:)
 Delete this allready
Joined: 8/13/2006
Msg: 24
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/5/2008 1:38:08 AM
He's NOT indecisive.. He said "If i can't have her , Then you will do." Plus ~ "If i can have her , i still want you for a backup." And YOU are saying OK..
 geezerbloke08
Joined: 8/22/2007
Msg: 25
Why are some men indecisive?
Posted: 2/5/2008 4:39:31 AM
im not so sure.........................................................................
Show ALL Forums  > Ask A Guy  > Why are some men indecisive?