| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 4:46:23 PM | Okay, I heard once that a man will fantasize about a woman before he has sex with her. And then, once he actually has sex with her, the fantasizing stops. Is this true? Or do you actually have partners that you HAVE fantasized about even AFTER you finally had sex with them?
(this is the ask a guy section right? are we not supposed to ask questions that we really can only ask guys?) | |
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| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 5:03:30 PM |
Or do you actually have partners that you HAVE fantasized about even AFTER you finally had sex with them?
Yup. I'm still getting it from women long after they decide that I disgust them.
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| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 5:22:35 PM |
Yup. I'm still getting it from women long after they decide that I disgust them.
LOL, that's wonderful. Probably a bit harsh on yourself, but anyway, good to know. | |
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| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 5:26:12 PM | | When I say she's a keeper I mean it. I have prison cells and a whole sex dungeon in my head. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 5:28:20 PM | | Fantasizing about a partner after you've taken your relationship to the physical level is probably common. Instead of thinking about what "it might be like," you can go onto fantasizing about what it WAS like, or how it could be. I'm more likely to fantasize about my current partner than I am to fantasize about ex-partners, celebrities, or random porn. | |
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| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 5:38:28 PM |
And then, once he actually has sex with her, the fantasizing stops.
Only if she's really scary with her clothes off.
Or do you actually have partners that you HAVE fantasized about even AFTER you finally had sex with them?
Many, but only the ones who look good with their clothes off.
It's really quite smiple. | |
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| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 5:45:42 PM | Yes us guys visually wonder what you women would be like naked.
After we know, we then visualize new and cool ways to be naked with you.
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| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 6:01:50 PM | Yes, once you start having sex, the fantasizing about her stops.
But the fantasizing about her and her friends is just beginning!
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Posted: 2/7/2008 6:12:13 PM | I'm probably not the best person to ask since I fantasize about sex with Yoda.
Mmmmmm well endowed you are | |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 6:33:45 PM | When I say she's a keeper I mean it. I have prison cells and a whole sex dungeon in my head.
WOA, that's probably TMI, lol.
Nice, so does the magic go away?
Yea, actually, sometimes it does. Just because people have sex doesn't mean that they end up in serious relationships with each other forever. And I still fantasize about a couple of my past partners. Granted I dont have any current partners to fantasize about,,,,,,,,,,,
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Posted: 2/7/2008 6:41:35 PM | heck no!
Maybe the Initial got you have her fades a bit..but I personally still think of what we could be doing tonight, on the table, floor, in the parking lot and so on.. i wanted it an still want more.. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 6:56:46 PM | | I don't usually stop fantasizing about a girl after i've been with her, but for some reason they do to me! I feel used sometimes, like she used me just for sex and then left! maybe i'm too nice to women, i gotta strt being an ***hole or find a seriously nice girl lol | |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 7:19:11 PM | | That is true to some extent. If she is naughty and sexy, it will never stop. Just keep him wanting more...............trust me | |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 7:25:20 PM | Fantasy and fantasizing is really men (or women) acting out thier internal dreams without fear of rejection or embarrasment........kinda. (well it's also remembering some really awesome sex)
I do fantasize about someone before and long after.
My ex wife messed me up pretty badly, but some of the sexual things that happened are still very erotic.
I am guessing you meant this in a sexual way.
Granted I do fantasize about watching her live in her car, while I sell off all her shit.....but then I feel bad and move on. hehehehe
The answer for me is "YES" I do.
It isnt about after you "do her" which if that is how you feel sex or intimacy is like....well i feel sad now.
Sex between 2 people should always be incredible.
Weather it is a 1 night stand, or your 50th aniversary.
Sex is the most intimate thing 2 people can do with each each other...unless your a proctologist
Seems like we as humans have drifted away from letting sex be incredible.
Too many dumbass men hanging out in hoochie clubs wanting to just get off and go home.
Too many women thinking that sex is all we want, so they give it up so that we will give them some attention.
Personally, sometimes, I would rather to just have foreplay and go home without the "happy ending" and know she is laying there dripping with sweat, still trying to get her hands to stop making a fist, then to have her lay there "during" wondering if she will still have time to watch scrubs @ 7.
WHEW!!!! get off my soapbox....sorry bout that. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 7:28:35 PM | Too many women thinking that sex is all we want, so they give it up so that we will give them some attention
SHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 8:01:54 PM | Once I do her, I try and get the image out of my head.... the horror.
Yes, some guys do like you said. If a woman is good enough..... he keeps on thinking about it. | |
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| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 8:06:01 PM |
awesome to hear, its funny how people can say stuff and it sticks in your head like its the law or something.
QUESTION:
If two people are fantasizing about each other all the time, but aren't together, shouldn't they try to make it as a couple? | |
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| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 8:55:31 PM | Are they mentally compatible? Does she qualify?
If she doesn't qualify on the mental angle (typically falling into the crazy or scary catagory), I would highly recommend that they stay away from a relationship. Unless she TRULY knows how to have a FWB/no strings situation.....which is a horrible idea if she's crazy or scary. | |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 9:14:29 PM | | i really don't fantasize about ex's anymore. after i turned 51 i pretty much lost the ability to remember | |
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Posted: 2/7/2008 9:39:02 PM | No.
Men fantasise about fantasys. We fantasise about sex with the lastest playboy bunny or supermodel. Or one of the spice girls.
Regular girls we ENJOY sex with. Not just the first time either. The only space for fantasys with rregular girls is in the form of fantasy sex. Kinkys stuff, threesomes, and that sort of thing. | |
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| Once You Finally Do Her
Posted: 2/7/2008 9:45:46 PM | Man you pple think about stuff way too much!...
hell it is just sex...get over it.
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