| Why 30 45?
Posted: 2/9/2008 4:14:38 PM | | im getting a little creeped out by random men about 35 40 odd trying to contact me. i know theres a way to stop it but i wanted to ask people why on earth it happens? i mean surely they know that we arnt going to be interested? then theres the really old ones that try and say dirty things! im like ewwww :s i know it sounds a bit silly but it really does creep me out help! why does it happen? | |
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| Why 30 45?
Posted: 2/9/2008 4:24:47 PM | just a suggestion, but instead of describing in your profile what you are looking for with:
"i like my men hot and hung ;) you please me i'll please you if you catch my drift. Into dancin and accents especially spanish irish or scottish, serious orgas factor"
you might want to describe that you are intrested in men closer to your age without the sexual talk.
might help. | |
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| Why 30 45?
Posted: 2/9/2008 5:57:13 PM | Men are men, period. Even if a man is looking for The One he'll detour if a chance to get laid presents itself, especially if it's with someone young and hot. Your profile gives them the impression they might get laid.
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| Why 30 45?
Posted: 2/9/2008 6:08:30 PM | | Go to your mail settings and set it so men over a certain age won't be able to email you. Problem solved! | |
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| Why 30 45?
Posted: 2/9/2008 6:09:32 PM | sorry but got to agree with the comments above but you can stop all the grandads messaging you by going into your mail settings and putting an age limit on the people that will be able to contact you, This should weed out all the dirty old men (but not the dirty yong ones! ) if you want to lose the dirty guys lose the dirty talk , the sexy pics and change your username.
good luck ! | |
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| Why 30 45?
Posted: 2/10/2008 6:51:52 AM | | can see what your saying to the one above me but i do want to appear sexy for the younger audience! :D | |
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| Why 30 45?
Posted: 2/10/2008 7:11:39 AM | You can appear to be sexy without being sexual. I agree its a little over the top. If you want to be considered for a relationship then you need to make them work a little harder to bring your sexiness out rather then displaying it for the world to see.
Also I bet you have a really pretty smile so post some pictures of that smile. The pouty, sultry look is fine for a few pictures but, as you've already learned, it's going to attract the wrong kind of attention. Men love a woman that has many facets, you've only shown one. A diamond with one facet doesnt shine so...show a few more and shine a little. | |
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| Why 30 45?
Posted: 2/10/2008 7:50:43 AM | It happens because of your pictures, and because for them it's a numbers game. Send out a hundred messages, if even 1 or 2% respond, then that's still 1 or 2 that they can go after. If none respond, send another hundred messages, and repeat.
Seriously, some of your pictures don't look "sexy", they look provocative and borderline slutty. If you're getting the pervs, you don't have to look far than your own pictures.
If you want men to continue treating you like a piece of meat, go ahead and keep doing what you're doing. You're still young, you'll probably meet a few "players", fall for their hot bodies, get used, possibly pregnant, dumped, and then come back on here to complain why this all happens to you. Your profile sounds naive, but don't worry, you'll pass that "Rite of Passage" (where you get used and treated like crap) that the "girls" like you seek out.
Only being honest here. We forum goers see it often. You're new here, so it'd be sad to see yet another woman come on here complaining that all men are players.
Another thing, your profile is so uninteresting that it doesn't tell anything about the inside you, but rather the pub and clubbing piece of meet you're advertising.
"Im one of those lasses that it will take a LIFETIME to get to know"
This is morbidly humorous, since it will probably take a lifetime for you to really get to know yourself, let alone someone else, with all the details you include in your profile.
"if you aint hot dont bother coz i aint interested, may sound shallow but i like my men hot and hung ;) you please me i'll please you, if you catch my drift."
You're slipping into IE (Intimate Encounter) territory there.
In the end, you are advertising yourself as a piece of meat. Have fun with that while it lasts, but don't come back to reality bitter and pissed off. | |
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| Why 30 45?
Posted: 2/17/2008 4:16:11 AM | Dear, you are young and attractive and you don't have to put up sleazy photos to attract men.
Post something in cute jeans and a top and maybe a couple outdoor photos fully clothed. Delete the pseudo naked one and the pouts.
I am assuming you want the men who date you to respect you. Be classy and respectful to yourself. Take it from on old bag who has BTDT, you will have a much better time in the dating world when you respect yourself. | |
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