| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 6:32:20 PM | | everyone sees many problems with this but i (who practice this) see nothing wrong... so as a matter of fact i live on the DL...its ok for women in society to sleep with both men and women but not socially acceptable for men thus leaving us to do our activities in secret....there r many views on this and i appreciate all opinions. | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 6:40:22 PM | While I don't think it's wrong for a man to be with a man I am against this "Secret Society" that some people live under.
If you are who you are, and you like who you are, who is to say that is right or wrong. Well as long as yall are consenting adults that is!
The way I see it is, as long as your spouse knows and is okay with it, rock on! If not, then you've got problems to deal with. | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 7:00:01 PM | Yeah gay guys are totally cute together why hide it? Our society as a whole has become much more excepting of gender and race and religion and all the other stuff people make a deal over.
BUT one tip of advice..avoid small cities they suck and are run by old men who insist that nothing changes! If you live in a small rural city you'll find people are just a whole lot less excepting of people's views and personal preferences, and they aren't afraid to say it either. In our town if your a different race, or disabled, or in any way different from the typical dutch, german, english, or (damn whats the other one? ) then your different. It's stupid people need to GET OVER THEMSELVES.
And other people NEED TO STICK UP FOR THEMSELVES! | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 7:40:09 PM | Not sure I understand. Sleeping with guys isn't exactly living a straight lifestyle IMHO.
"Not that there's anything wrong with that..." :)
If you're referring to being "in the closet" I think you've got to do what you're comfortable with. I can understand wanting to avoid the scrutiny / stigma that seems to still be attached to being a gay male. It sucks.
As for it being more acceptable for women to be bi or gay, well yeah I suppose it is. Perhaps women are just more mature about it and guys think it's hot... ;) | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 8:24:41 PM | I don't think its much of a secret. Its more socially acceptable and I have to say that its becoming the new norm where the lines are blurred between the sexes.
No judgement, but why bother hiding it?
And I agree, its not living a "straight lifestyle" if you are actually sexually active with men whether openly or secretly. We all know what secrets have a habit of doing, get told.... so keep that in mind. People like to shock other people, and a tidbit like that could be too juicy to give up. | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 8:50:23 PM | | You really shouldn't keep something like that a secret, unless you are a ashamed of it. Which you shouldn't be, sex is sex and sex with either sex is still sex and sex is normally used for pleasure; a person who is open to sex with the same sex is not limited to the moral norm and in some peoples eyes sexually enlightened. | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 8:55:36 PM | It is about Human Sexuality.
I don't see it as being gay.
Physical contact is not necessarily Physical Intimacy.
We satisfy the bodily need....we don't have to enter a relationship and share an emotional intimacy during the act.
I understand it.
It is hidden because it is viewed by the greater public as a gay man activity.
my 2cents. | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 10:24:43 PM | ^^^^^^
Uhh, earth to WesternRose.... Read his profile, he's a man looking for a man for intimate encounter and his profile starts, "I like to be dominated,, bear man, shemales. Im a man onthe street but a fem in the sheets. I will be ur whore and i dont wanna waste time beating it in the bush, just jump right in with me or go home."
Yeah, that is viewed by the greater public as a gay man activity, you're right!  | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 10:46:50 PM | [everyone sees many problems with this but i (who practice this) see nothing wrong... so as a matter of fact i live on the DL...its ok for women in society to sleep with both men and women but not socially acceptable for men thus leaving us to do our activities in secret....there r many views on this and i appreciate all opinions.]
I don't see anything wrong with it either, and it's seems to be typical of this society to worship girl-on-girl action (or just female sexuality in general) but shun men who do the same. | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 11:06:47 PM | OMG!!! I have a friend who hates that i like military men so much (he's not military) and he told me to go on craig's list and see that tons of Marines live the way you do.
Personally, I dont think you should lead a secret life, i think being secretive is what causes problems. However, there are those that like to flaunt their activities in people's face even knowing that someone might not be comfortable with it.
I'm sorry if this is gonna sound but i dont get the "men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle" part. Are you saying you like to live like a straight man and date girls too but you are sexually fulfilled being with men? | |
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Posted: 2/10/2008 11:41:36 PM |
id KILL if i ever found out someone i was with was like that.
Kill is such a harsh word... Didn't you mean cut off?
OP, are you talking about public displays of affection, or about being in closet, or being BI? Your profile is quite clear about what you want, much clearer than this post...
Edit: What's a DL? Ehhhh, you can see I am just visiting S&D... | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 11:51:46 PM | Dallas.. I was replying to the thread... not responding to the OP profile.
as for it being right or wrong... I am not one to judge.
I would not want to be with a man who was on the DL.. I wouldn't feel safe healthwise, just as I would feel about being with a Bi-sexual man.
and yes... I know bi-sexual men....gone out with one. | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/10/2008 11:59:49 PM | | i have no problem with bisexuality of either gender...and it wouldn't put me off dating a guy to know that he was also attracted to other men. i do think it's unhealthy to treat anything about oneself as a secret when relating to a potential romantic partner. bisexuality is part of WHO you are...if you hide it, you aren't being truthful to yourself or your partner, and how can you ever hope to have a meaningful relationship under those circumstances? if a person judges you for your honesty, then they aren't a good match for you anyways. | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/11/2008 12:18:34 AM | but not socially acceptable for men thus leaving us to do our activities in secret....
as with , what others have said ...taking your profile in to consideration.
I highly doubt you keep any of your activities a secret .
upon further inspection my bull-shyt-o-meter says fake account pulling prank on friends. | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/11/2008 12:20:17 AM | ok this sounds like some orpa stuff i seen on tv the guy was gay and the woma was a lesbo
and they try to live a straight life style yea needless to say i was upset
if your going to be gay then be gay and if your going to be a lesbo be one
dont get married
o and also guys that dress up like woman whats up with that its hard enough to find a woman~~~~~~~ | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/11/2008 1:55:05 AM |
what's DL?
DL... is down low, normally said like, "im on the Down low" normally referred to men (mostly married) but men appearing straight but sleeping with men in hiding.
Living a 'straight life' but sleeping with guys..
correct me if im wrong anyone?????????????????? | |
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| men who sleep with men but live a straight lifestyle
Posted: 2/11/2008 3:04:10 AM | I considered myself very open minded and tolerant but whenever another male "touched" me in a intimate manner (they rudely fondle you if they like you), my first instinct was to practically KILL THE GUY.
Every instinct in my body said "RED ALERT, THIS IS WRONG, YOUR IN DANGER, DEFEND YOURSELF". It was pure animal instinct.
So if your getting it on with another guy, your not 100% straight or a 100% pure specimen, quit trying to deny the obvious fact an just embrace your bisexuality/gayness an leaven straight people alone.
I still tolerate Gay people but only if they leave me alone. I noticed that Gay men tend to outright MOLEST me since they think that's they're idea of a come on. If a striaght man did that to a women, he'd be pushing his nuts back down his throat. I also notice that Gay Men emulate Ameriskank behavior which makes them pretty much intolerable so I'm finding it very difficult to deal with them peace meal. Gay men don't realize acting like a women (Spoiled brat Britney Spears type) doesn't get you the same free pass women get for acting like a b!tch, so your going to be picking your teeth off the floor if you try that.
Let the straight people breed and let the gay gene die out peacefully & quietly. With all the nasty lesbians screwing some sperm donor over in the Sperm Bank Fiasco (read up on the fireman that's getting rimmed by the lesbian Couple he donated to), Gay people are going to find it impossbile to find "donors' and surrogate mothers.
Our society is becoming overly feminized/lesbianized to the point where Homosexuality (50-60%) will be the norm and our society will crumble and fall (no straight burly guys to do all the hard physical work). Most Manly men I know are strictly dating Foreign women, they've given up on western society and have moved on.
Only the wussy mangina type guys that still put women up on pedestals and beg & plead for attention are left to encourage the rotten Britney Spear like behavior.  in our women who soon to be forever single moms. | |
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