| BroKen
Posted: 2/18/2008 9:15:50 PM | | you know, ive thought i knew alot about love and people and all that jazz but in reality i dont. I just got out of a relationship where the girl broke up with me because her friends pretty much didnt like me. I was getting to know this girl went out with here a couple of times, things were going will, till the friends showed up.. One night we all went out for breakfest after drinking and we ran into her friends. They met up with us we all talked laughed and then when everthing was looking good something went terribly wrong. at the end of the night she texted me and told me that it wasnt going to werk and told me to lose her number, to this day i dont know if it was me or the her friends that ruined it but it hurt me alot. Mentally i lost alot of confidence, and i still have issues but what can you do?? | |
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| BroKen
Posted: 2/18/2008 9:21:39 PM | | In this case, it sounds like you were not the same person when you were drinking. Or maybe her friends saw something in you that she hadn't seen. Don't lose confidence in yourself just because of this. Any girl who would tell you to "lose" her number obviously wasn't worth your time anyhow. If I were ending it with someone, unless they did something really awful to me, I'd give them more respect than that. Chin up! Not all people are bad!!! | |
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| BroKen
Posted: 2/18/2008 9:25:54 PM | | in retospect when i look at this post it kinda does look like i might have done something bad but to be honest with you im a social drinker, and i dont really get drunk, to me ive always felt that i was outta her league and her friends were those kinda girls that are very judgementle i just dont think they liked my look.. i dunno.. im not trying to make this sound like self pity.. | |
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| BroKen
Posted: 2/18/2008 9:36:54 PM | Peer Pressure can be a bastich.
What can you do? Keep looking, and try to get involved with someone who has a stronger sense of self... a girl who doesn't have to rely on her friends to define her... someone who has her own opinions and doesn't need others to provide them.
None of that helps how you feel right now. None of it is supposed to. Take this experience as a learning experience.
Of Course, you are very vague about exactly what the "Something went terribly wrong" was. So you might have indeed been the cause of the end of your relationship. Hard to say without all the details.
Just some examples...
Her friends hate brunettes and beards, so they badgered her to break up with you... this would be a bad thing and you can only learn to get involved with a better girl in the future.
Or
You grabbed her cat and "accidentally" sat on it repeatedly, while laughing about it being a live whoopie cushion... this would fall under the category of "Something went terribly wrong" that you were responsible for and thus, the cause of your relationships demise. | |
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| BroKen
Posted: 2/18/2008 9:40:20 PM | | lol i like that... but i said that to sound all dramatic, i really dont know what i said or did, i mean im not a crass person, i dont say offensive things to people or do crazy immature things... I just dont know.. | |
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| BroKen
Posted: 2/18/2008 10:11:31 PM | Then stick with what you do know... I know you are trying to be sensitive enough to leave the possibility open for a mistake that you might have made... but if you have a clear memory of the events of that night, and you are a conscientious individual, then most likely you know if you did something terribly wrong.
If you made some social faux pas that existed only within her circle of friends, and you were never warned of it beforehand, it can never be something terribly wrong.
She dumped you, and with no apparent reason. You will probably never know the reason why. Somehow, you have to find a way to accept that. You really have no other choice. If you do find out someday down the road... bonus. However, life without cheese, is still life.
er.. just life, without cheese. | |
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