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 mike81s

Joined: 2/10/2008
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 11:09:13 AM
It would be interesting to know which part of the body people look when they see an opposite sex.

For example guys would look at breast (boob-men) or butt (ass-men) or even legs and feet.

How about ladies? Which part of a man catches their eyes and they may want to have a second look?
 Heathenistic

Joined: 1/9/2008
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 11:12:46 AM
Eyes and smile. Simple.

Eyes and smile will get my attention. Personality, intelligence, sense of humor, and ability to carry on a conversation will keep my attention.
 Theonly1!

Joined: 5/1/2007
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Posted: 2/20/2008 11:13:16 AM
Actually face... but thanks for telling me what I look at...
 Leeanne

Joined: 10/14/2005
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 11:16:07 AM
Face - I agree a nice smile is a real turn on and put that with some loving eyes, then you have a real looker!! The face is the window to the soul and tells many tales!!
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 11:47:19 AM
Abs for me. Particularly those little two bones left and right below the stomach.
 laughinglibra

Joined: 11/6/2007
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 11:49:51 AM
Eyes as he's walking towards me, then the smile.... then comes the ol' "once over"... head to toe and back up again.

A$$ as he's walking away. Gotta love eye candy....
 happyrebel

Joined: 11/8/2007
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 12:01:02 PM
I'd have to say his lips/smile and the eyes. ........I love 'smiling eyes'-the ones that look like they're always laughing inside at a private joke. Gotta love a great smile and dimples, too.

But....I can't stop there. Gotta check out the whole package...and not just 'that' package.

OUTAMIND-Do you mean the woman's hip/pelvis bones? Unless they're wearing low cut pants and a short top, how do you ever see them?


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 mike81s

Joined: 2/10/2008
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 12:33:48 PM
I have to confess that I forgot to mention face. Of course that is the first part every body looks at it. But, how about after that,..., I mean if you liked his/her face, then ...

now this is a challenge.
 butt_uglee

Joined: 11/14/2007
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 12:51:09 PM
Smile and the corners of his mouth. If there are little creases around the mouth it just drives me wild. No clue why.

Eyes are next, especially sparkley, crinkly ones.
 OutMind

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 2/20/2008 1:08:09 PM

OUTAMIND-Do you mean the woman's hip/pelvis bones? Unless they're wearing low cut pants and a short top, how do you ever see them?


Yeap. When they are noticeable, they are noticeable. You can see them through low cut pants, but also gym clothes, biking gear and so on.

Of course also the eyes, which are window to the soul.
 fancynanci

Joined: 8/21/2007
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Posted: 2/20/2008 1:13:46 PM
His eyes...then his smile
 vibrant1

Joined: 2/24/2007
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 3:27:53 PM
I am a scanner

I look the guy up down and all around something may catch my eye or its usually the whole package and the energy hes putting out.

I met a guy when I was 26 I was a waitress and my friends said turn around we were face to face my knees buckled and i fell to ground he shook me to my core that guy was one of a kind we dated for years . Every time we were travel9ng near each other we always had great fun companionship and of course romping good sex
 nicenurse64

Joined: 9/24/2007
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Posted: 2/20/2008 3:36:48 PM
ARMS!!! If a guy has the "guns", i'm interested!
 scubastephen

Joined: 3/20/2007
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 3:37:43 PM
I look at hair, it tells a lot about women. Cleanliness, self image (women with a low self image do not pay much attention to their hair), and it is a major health identifier. After hair it is skin, same reasons.. Quite honestly, I am a very well kept man and I expect the same of any woman I am interested in. The other parts don't matter because, almost anything is attractive with the right head on her shoulders.
 TopazGoddess

Joined: 9/9/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2008 3:45:36 PM
Physical shape & eyes

I love dark eyes
And either tall & skinny OR shorter and built (large chest, large shoulders/arms)
 TopazGoddess

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Posted: 2/20/2008 3:48:46 PM

Particularly those little two bones left and right below the stomach.


While I know you were talking about women thats my FAVORITE part on a man's body

Pretty much the reason I melt when I see a really skinny guy

Too bad you can't really see it through most mens clothes. However...get his shirt off and leave him in just jeans...solid stomach, the pelvic bones, a little body hair... *stares off into space*
 Altara

Joined: 9/7/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2008 4:18:21 PM
I feel so cliche... But seriously, eyes and smile.
Dark sincere or calming eyes and a mischievous friendly smile will own me every time.
A man who tilts his head back to laugh a deep genuine laugh will make my knees give out from under me. I'm such a sucker!
 Happynature

Joined: 2/8/2008
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Posted: 2/20/2008 4:26:21 PM
Teeth and hands. VERY interested in how large his hands are, how clean his fingernails are and whether he has manly hands or soft womanly hands.

Teeth are a matter of good oral hygiene and not necessarily being blessed with perfect pearly whites. If he's not good friends with floss and his dentist, we'll probably not have a second date. Can you say ginguvitis?
 dixierae2008

Joined: 2/1/2008
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Posted: 2/20/2008 4:41:30 PM
I love hands, and lips. In that order. I could watch a man talk all night. Strong rough hands... yep...first thing i see.
 blondblueyed

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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 5:57:58 PM
It depends on which side is facing me, if it is the front I usually focus on the eyes and smile. If it is the back, well I fully admit I am a butt checker outer.
 PostPunk

Joined: 11/15/2006
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 6:25:26 PM
Eyes are a big deal. I like a nice strong profile and dark eyebrows.

I dont like men who are prettier than me. I like a fair amount of testosterone.
 mustang*spirit

Joined: 11/12/2007
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 6:29:08 PM
scubastephen I would disagree with your statement that women with a low self image do not pay much attention to their hair. Don't you think if they had low self image they would want to do anything they could to improve it?
Personally I think it takes a very strong women to walk around with wild crazy unkept hair.

Anyway on topic.. eyes and teeth/smile
 that sam i am

Joined: 10/27/2006
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Posted: 2/20/2008 6:51:38 PM
I notice scent before I notice anything else.
 country.girl

Joined: 12/26/2007
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The first glance at opposite sex
Posted: 2/20/2008 7:40:20 PM
it depends on whether they're facing me or have their back turned towards me....if i'm looking at them face to face then it's their eyes, if they're walking away from me or standing in front of me in a line then it's their a$$.
 emilydanielle

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Posted: 2/20/2008 7:44:45 PM
teeth are definatly the first thing I notice. Probaly due to the fact that, I am in the dental feild. Got to love those pearly whites.
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