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 hopefful
Joined: 2/16/2008
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A guy I was seeing enjoyed his nipples being sucked. He had been friends with a gay guy before I met him. He commented that they were neighbors and sometimes worked out together and went out to dinner too. He said the gay guy asked him to spend the night once after knowing him for about 6 months. He claims that he declined and never saw him again. If the gay guy was not important then why did he mention him?? I also saw this ex-boyfriend on "friend finder" dating site. What do you guys think? Are normal guys friendly with gay guys?
 YourDarkAngel
Joined: 6/14/2005
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Posted: 2/20/2008 11:50:22 PM
The nipples are an erogenous zone on a lot people, male or female, straight or gay. I don't see why that has anything to do with diverse friends, but to his/her own, I guess.
 HillsideCA
Joined: 10/2/2007
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Posted: 2/20/2008 11:58:51 PM
Yeah, I agree with post 2: just because he likes his nipples sucked doesn't mean he's been batting for both teams.

I am hopelessly hetero but I do have some friends who are gay (and some who are lesbian, as well).

My own nipples are sensitive to the point where doing anything to them has a equal chance of either seriously seeting things off, or seriously shutting them off depending on situation and timing.

RE: the Friend Finder site. a) what were YOU doing there? b) was it a gay site? and c) if it wasn't a gay site, what does his being on there - particularly after he became an ex - have anything whatsoever to do with wanting his nipples sucked?

It sounds to me like you a) didn't trust this guy, and b) are somewhat bothered by homosexuality.
 adrenalinegeek
Joined: 1/1/2008
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Posted: 2/20/2008 11:59:47 PM
I have a couple friends that are gay. I hang out with them with no problem. Just because they prefer dudes over chicks, doesn't mean they aren't a guy. They drink, eat and talk pretty much the same. Except for the high vocaly, emtionional gay ones, then it's like listening to a girl.

I wouldn't sweat it. Although I am not sure that getting my nipples sucked on really turns me on niether. I wouldn't say no, but then again I wouldn't beg for it. I also don't think that makes me gay or have been "with" a dude that is gay.
 hopefful
Joined: 2/16/2008
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Posted: 2/21/2008 12:10:40 AM
Thanks so much for your reply. That is what I thought too. But a few women friends disagree with me. I have some lesbian and gay friends that I admire very much too...but I'm not a guy. ;-)
 RedCassandra
Joined: 10/9/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 12:39:05 AM
My best friend is gay man... Does that also make me a gay man?

I am not going to discuss nipple sucking... this forum IS PG rated... and I am in Mansland... So, better not start conversation about nipples here...

 compactdisc
Joined: 1/7/2008
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Posted: 2/21/2008 2:07:50 AM
firstly i dont like my nipples being sucked or fondled..........i hate it.

second, i have a friend who is gay and is forever pointing out guys in the street, i certainlydont see him as a threat.

i do however find the thought of standing at the side of a gay man in a public toilet quite offputting, my friend has often said that he has followed and stood at the side of a guy in the toilets that he fancied..............something you ladies never have to worry about............how would you ladies like to pee in an open room with no cubicles.

anyway i have no problem with gay guys............it just leaves more women for us straight guys.
 wowsad
Joined: 11/28/2005
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Posted: 2/21/2008 2:21:53 AM
i feel like i missed something. he was friendly with a gay guy until he asked him out on a date, and stopped hanging out with him....and he wants you to suck his nipples? you're a girl, right? i don't understand the connection. having a female touch a part of your body doesn't make you gay, and being friendly with somebody who happens to be gay, until that person makes an advance that may be completely unwarranted (such as knowing the person's straight, and asking him out on a DATE anyways), may be considered disrespectful, thus ending whatever friendship they had. if i was gay, and my friends knew it, and i started asking them out, and i was alienated by them, i would feel as though i brought it upon myself.

you have the right to be offended. it doesn't make you gay, unaccepting, weak in character, a bigot, a homophobe, or anything else derogatory. but i seriously don't see the connection between nipples and gay advances. its a stereotype that only women or gay men like their nipples played with. i would go as far as saying that a straight dude that likes his ass played with, specifically means, that a straight dude likes his ass played with. sure there are stereotypes that suggest otherwise, but at the root of it, they want a woman doing it. its like saying that a guy is gay because he masturbates. sure, he's touching a piece, for his pleasure, as well as his penis' pleasure.... and he obviously gets off on himself in some way, but self pleasing doesn't make you gay, just as having desires to have certain areas touched.

if the guy was off blowing sailors, it'd be another story. but you're almost being a bigot yourself for even posing this question, because you fail to look passed the stereotype and instead just buy into it blindly without thinking for yourself. rethinking my response to this, i'm starting to wonder....is this some sort of retaliation on your part? he's your ex boyfriend. did you break up with him, or he broke up with you. are you assuming he's gay because he doesn't want to be with you? i honestly have no idea what's going on in your head, but you've placed some thoughts in between logical thoughts, and you've come to an irrational conclusion based on that. this has nothing to do with him, and speculating his sexuality based on what you've given is not only demeaning to him, its almost demeaning to people who may be actually gay......and may like their nipples sucked.
 RogueGnome
Joined: 10/11/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 2:57:01 AM
How in the Hell did you deduce that the guy was/is gay,
simply because he enjoys nipple play?


He had been friends with a gay guy

I'm friends with a real live, genuine midget.
That doesn't make me part of a circus, does it?

Can't wait to see the thread you post after some guy
tells you that he likes blow jobs.
 esad
Joined: 4/8/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 3:08:07 AM
OP, this guy is so obviously Gay !


If the gay guy was not important then why did he mention him??


EXACTLY ! Unfortunately, this makes me wonder about you also. Why did you choose to mention
him here ? Why start this thread ? OP, you can admit to your homosexuality here on POF without
this kind of ruse. We’re all friends here. Go ahead and say it! “ I am on POF and I am a Homosexual!”
Now, don’t you feel better ?



A guy I was seeing enjoyed his nipples being sucked

VS

He claims that he declined and never saw him again


Sounds a little coincidental to me ! OP, there no shame in this. You are a nipple sucker ! No
need to cover it up. Let Your Freak Flag Fly ! I am sure many folks on POF have sucked a nipple or two in their Life.
 *~*ChardyGirl*~*
Joined: 6/29/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 4:21:50 AM
Sorry, but are you thinking he likes his nipples being sucked coz he has a gay friend ?? (dont quite see the connection?)
As for guys being friends with gay guys?? Sure,why not?? Im straight,but have gay friends....makes no differenc to me what their sexuality is.....
 bookkeeper49
Joined: 10/1/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 4:39:27 AM
Hmmm

Interesting............guy I am dating enjoys the same.........he better NOT be gay !

AND, what is NORMAL these days ?
 knipknip
Joined: 10/30/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 5:11:47 AM
LOL this so makes me laugh!! OP you need to get out and about more or read more about what guys like!

btw what is normal? what is a normal guy? normal compared to what? Perhaps you should say 'straight' guys.

Ah why shouldn't a straight guy be friendly with gay guys unless they are homophobic. Just because some people have different sexual preferences does not mean that they are not normal.

And just because I like a man's nipples and that I am friends with lesbians and enjoy their company doesn't make me gay either!
 JulietJuliet
Joined: 6/7/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 5:27:13 AM
OMG! I must be gay! I love my nipples being sucked too and I know a couple of the mothers from school who are gay
Perhaps your nipple man is bi? I mean going out for dinner, then getting asked to spend the night etc? tis possible.

Are normal guys friendly with gay guys?
.....Some are some are not.
 Ron9
Joined: 8/10/2004
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Posted: 2/21/2008 5:50:11 AM
Liking that don’t have a dang thing to do with being gay.

A nice looking gal licking around on you (your nipples or other places) while playing with your ..... your ...... um ..... your - you know what is ............... OMG sooooooooo sexy.
 JulietJuliet
Joined: 6/7/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 5:52:30 AM
ok Ron, Your place or mine?
Gotta agree though.....Nipple sucking and gay are not related.
 wifenomore
Joined: 8/1/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 6:49:46 AM
As far as I knew, guys liked it as much or more than women. They need other places to be sensitive than just one area.
 Syl1973
Joined: 11/28/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 6:52:26 AM

My best friend is gay man... Does that also make me a gay man?

Haven't you heard? Hanging around gay people makes you gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people makes you tall...
 TheS0urce
Joined: 2/7/2008
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Posted: 2/21/2008 9:52:47 AM

the gay guy was not important then why did he mention him??


Maybe he thought you like to dream about two gay men doing it? Some women think it's hot. I have to say women think way too much sometimes hehe
 swfl_dan
Joined: 12/4/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 9:59:06 AM

Are normal guys friendly with gay guys?


If by "normal" you mean well adjusted, secure in their own sexuality, intelligent men, then yes.

If by "normal" you mean bigoted, immature homophobic and possibly in the closet themselves racists, then no.

What does the nipples thing have to do with the gay thing? Only gay men have nipples or something?
 clorin
Joined: 11/4/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 10:19:45 AM
guys are not normally friends with a gay guy. Most guys see gay (males)people as freaks of nature that needs to be killed. personally I'm also guilty of having this way of thought before. I had only 1 true gay friend. His name was charles, and he was the second coolest guy I ever meet. He invited me to a party, I went... got plastered, and passed out on his couch. Charles being a friend, took me to a spare bedroom, and made sure no other gay guy touched me. He even got into a fight with one of his friends who wantted something from me. Needless to say, I moved 1k miles away and still talk to charles.
 swfl_dan
Joined: 12/4/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 10:22:33 AM

guys are not normally friends with a gay guy. Most guys see gay (males)people as freaks of nature that needs to be killed.


Yes, exactly! Lesbians, on the other hand, guys see as God's gift to porn!
 whenyer_strange
Joined: 4/10/2006
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Posted: 2/21/2008 10:24:20 AM
Is it a big issue if the guy does bat for both sides? I would think that as long as he is capable of being monogamous, then who really cares?


something you ladies never have to worry about............how would you ladies like to pee in an open room with no cubicles.
Actually, I have been pursued by some pretty forward lesbians. Also, not all women's restrooms have doors. Finally, I've even had to pee in front of male security at a bar in Germany. Someone reported heroine use in the bathroom, so each person was watched by a security person while using the restroom. That really sucked having a strange guy glare at me during that. I was about ready to give up and go find a tree outside instead. Besides, don't forget that to use "nature's" restroom, we pretty much get to bare it all for the whole world. My brother when out in the boat, won't even pull over, so our only option it to try and hang our backside over the edge of the boat without falling in the water....which means every boat that passes by at the same time, just has to honk their horn and holler. Anyway, I'd just way you are too uptight about it.
 Heathenistic
Joined: 1/9/2008
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Posted: 2/21/2008 10:30:01 AM
Pffffffffffffttt... Normally, most guys wouldn't associate with gay guys - the whole homophobia thing. Was he very comfortable and confident in his sexuality? I am, and I'm in no way, shape, or form gay/bi/curious/nada... I don't mind being around a gay guy, because I *know* who I am. I'm secure in that.

As for wanting my nipples sucked? Hell yeah, they have the same nerve endings YOUR nipples have in them, and with the smaller buds, usually more tightly concentrated. I even have my nipples pierced, and it heightened my sensitivity. Suck away, darlin', but that doesn't mean when you walk out the door, I'm suckin' away on the neighbor's schlong. haha
 RedCassandra
Joined: 10/9/2007
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Posted: 2/21/2008 10:32:52 AM

Haven't you heard? Hanging around gay people makes you gay, in the same way that hanging around tall people makes you tall...


So... hanging around skinny people makes you skinny?
Heck, that's the best diet ever.
Anyone wants to help a gal?

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