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 71niceandeasy
Joined: 1/12/2008
Msg: 1
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I have recently heard about CFNM parties, sound great fun to me but wondered others views.

CFNM = Clothed Female Named Male

Group of girls get together and 'play' with a naked male. Not overly about sexy but a chance for the girls to explore a male body, play with a willie, anything they want to see or anything they want to see the man do and have a dam good laugh whilst they do.

It is NOT a sex party, there is no expectation from the male for they girls to get undressed.

The male is there as a prop for the use of the women.

Views please

J x
 galonthemt
Joined: 10/31/2007
Msg: 2
CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/22/2008 3:59:23 AM
Is that CLOTHED FEMALE NAKED MALE? Anyway....no thanks....If I'm going to have fun exploring the naked male body its going to be with the man I'm with.
 laughinglibra
Joined: 11/6/2007
Msg: 3
CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/22/2008 4:03:15 AM
Personally I think this is terrible. If there are thing such as CMNF parties, it could be construed as a gang bang. Why is it that this is acceptable when the roles are reversed?

I used to work at a male strip club as a DJ many years ago, and women tend to be much more agressive than men in a female strip club. While a man might love the attention from a "group of girls", it still just does not sit right with me. But... to each their own!
 MrVitamix
Joined: 8/26/2007
Msg: 4
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:12:49 AM
sounds like more of a dream than reality... I dont know any women who would go for that type of party... unless they are 80 or over 400 pounds... and then he will have to wear a blindfold as not to dump on himself when he sees who's handling him.


like girls don't have about every male on earth who would let them explore him?

come on OP... get real, your dreaming a really dumb dream.
 Blueskies123
Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 5
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:16:47 AM
That's hilarious!
But I can't see many women going for it..I reckon it would be a bit of a lonely party for the guy!
 Arugula
Joined: 11/5/2006
Msg: 6
CFNM Parties, fun or not?
Posted: 2/22/2008 6:24:56 AM
I can see this turning into something very ugly, very fast. As a previous poster mentioned above, women are much more sexually aggressive when in situations involving a man they are "paying" to see and/or touch. It seems more acceptable for women to behave this way than men.

I wonder how much fun it would be for the guy if 5 women decided to use him as their own personal vibrator? I wonder how much fun it would be to literally be smothered as women do whatever the h*ll they want to you. Women are way more violent and way more aggressive than most of us want to believe.
 carolann0308
Joined: 12/9/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:28:32 AM
Does this actually happen? Or is it some weird fantasy of yours?
This sounds like an 8th grade biology class or Tupperware party gone bad. I don't know of any adult female that has not already had the opportunity to see a naked guy. Why would you do it in a group? What would you hope to find? If you've seen one you've seen them all.
 grizzelda
Joined: 6/25/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:36:46 AM
This has got to be the brainchild of a male as this seems to be a very predominate fantasy of most men until everything goes wrong and then all of a sudden it wasnt so much fun.....
 Leeanne
Joined: 10/14/2005
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:41:28 AM
How silly!!! I like to explore my naked man in private and I like to be naked too!! It's crazy what some people will dream up! Big question is WHY?!?!
 real12
Joined: 12/31/2007
Msg: 10
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:47:15 AM
CFNM??......'Shakes head in disbelief'....Where do people come up with this sh*t?

No sex??......What the hell are they doing then? Poking fingers in his butt? Yanking viciously on his wanker? Flicking him in the nuts or something? I don't get it.....Sounds like some macabre twisted variant of 'Chinese water torture'


a chance for the girls to explore a male body, play with a willie


Huh?......You mean a chance for them to torment & humiliate the crap outta some poor sap. Personally I feel sorry for the dumb*ss that would put himself in such a position......... He must leave outta there with a painfully dismal set of nuts in the deepest shade of un-godly blue imaginable........Women are evil man, I would just as soon go & shoot myself.
 Arugula
Joined: 11/5/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 7:14:41 AM
Haha...as one of my girlfriend's favorite shirts says "It's all fun and games until someone loses a wiener."
 happyrebel
Joined: 11/8/2007
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Posted: 2/22/2008 7:18:19 AM
OP, I guess some things are better left to the other side of the Atlantic. I've never heard of this and really can't comprehend the idea behind it. Unless the women are very young, they've probably already explored a man's body. They're all pretty much the same-I think.

It really doesn't even sound fun to me. A bunch of women teasing the crap out of a naked man. I would think it would be humiliating- not only for the male, but for the women too. To each their own.

Let us know how it goes if you decide to partake of such a party.

HR
 countrytat
Joined: 2/1/2006
Msg: 13
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Posted: 2/22/2008 8:22:02 AM
are we gonna have a POF CFNM party???........ any takers? lol.....

i feel bad for the fool that would submit himself to that, although granted it does sound hilarious!!!!
 Miss W
Joined: 12/4/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 9:09:34 AM
Oh puhlease.... what will they come up with next? I'm saying no.
 WaywardSeeker
Joined: 7/12/2007
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Posted: 2/22/2008 9:37:55 AM
Well let's see . . . Men go to strip clubs in groups and pay a lady to dance suggestively. There are so-called "gentlemen's clubs" in any big city. The boys at Duke University got in big trouble hiring such for a private party. So ladies doing the same thing? Why not if they want to?

If it paid well enough I would try it. But at my age, I would starve to death. I don't think the ladies in a strip club have much fun, they are too busy making money. Why would it be any different for a man?
 biztraveler6901
Joined: 1/28/2008
Msg: 16
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Posted: 2/22/2008 9:54:23 AM
I'm thinking you watch too much porn!!
 Ltkerk5
Joined: 11/22/2007
Msg: 17
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Posted: 2/22/2008 10:08:18 AM
Umm actually to all the obviously uninformed posters saying its just some fantasy....its not..they actually do happen and have been around for some time, so you know learn something before you laugh at the "non existant"
 MichelleDRB
Joined: 1/17/2008
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Posted: 2/22/2008 10:16:22 AM
That sucks. I would not think it was fun, whats the use of all of that stuff if no one is going to cum. But some women like that stuff. Not fullfilling for me.
 Bikeman_
Joined: 10/8/2005
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Posted: 2/22/2008 11:03:05 AM
You know I thought I heard everything but I obviously knew nothing about this. If anybody thinks the OP made this up, just type CFNM into Google.

It sounds strange to me. Like an amped-up private Chippendale stripper party. Hey whatever floats your boat. I don't think I'd be interested in any female that thought a party like this was something she would like to be involved in.
 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 1:13:39 PM
CFNM = Clothed Female Named Male

N= nude, not "named"

The fact that if you google it you get a gaggle of porn sites might lead one to believe that this might be a "guy" fantasy. . . .

 junipermoon
Joined: 3/1/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 1:53:19 PM
this just sounds nasty.

besides, most women have already had ample opportunity to 'explore' a man's body. and if a woman hasn't had that experience, she certainly wouldn't want to do it surrounded by a bunch of other women.

and what about the poor sap hanging out getting examined? unless he has some weird fetish going on, it can't provide much fun for him, now, can it?
 ~curlygirl~
Joined: 4/22/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 4:43:19 PM
cfnm (clothed female naked male) isn't so much about sex or "gang bangs" as someone so bluntly put it, but rather about control. cfnm parties aren't orgies where a man is used by multiple sex partners...that would kind of take away from the "clothed female" (cf) part of the equation.

i was once at a "tea party" with this theme. the guy was a sub, and shy, so for most of the evening he elected to keep on his boxers...gave shoulder rubs, foot massages, was on a collar and leash. eventually one of the girls brought out a paddle...he got cuffed, blindfolded and spanked (the boxers were now gone). the thought was intriguing, but since no one really knew what they were doing in the scenario, it kinda fell flat. but the tea and pastries were good. lol
 DallasFlier
Joined: 3/19/2006
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:05:29 PM
I'm voting with the several previous posters who suspect this is more a weird fantasy of the OP (noting he did say, "sounds like great fun to me") than something that actually happens very often in real life.
 medana
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:18:13 PM
i never heard of such things. i heard of swinger parties, but none aimed just to play w one guy. i mean, really, why would ten women go to a party where there is ONE guy to feel up? if thats the case i just gotta reach out a hand out any door and grab a man off the street, dont need to drive or get out of the house

i dont get it. i mean, if i am curious, i wouldnt explore territories already occupied by too many hands and sorts...

this sounds to me more like a fetish - submissive play of some sorts, humiliation and all, so its a bondage thing?
 Frau Blücher
Joined: 8/27/2006
Msg: 25
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Posted: 2/22/2008 6:28:16 PM
I wondered what women were doing now that Tupperware parties have fallen out of favor. I hope the guy has an air-tight seal; he’s gonna need it.
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