| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/23/2008 10:54:55 PM | | Let's say that from lack of interest from people that i find attractive, i decide to turn my attention to people that i'm not attracted to( at least physically).. so i send them messages and go out on first dates, but i soon notice that they reject me too!, the ones i go out on dates with don't want to go out on a second, the ones i send a message to never reply, so i wanted to know am i wrong for being mad and insulted because THEY rejected me? | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/23/2008 11:01:24 PM | | You're forever doomed to a life of loneliness and insecurity. Better get used to it while you still can. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/23/2008 11:04:55 PM | So the question is: should you be pissed because you agreed to go out on a date with someone clearly beneath you and they reject you?
Well yes, of course you should be pissed. How dare they not see what an honor you pay them by asking them out. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/23/2008 11:25:57 PM | | But i see something wrong with that.logic ..because i'm a humble open-minded person....alot of people will eat a skunk before they go out with someone "clearly beneath them" | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/23/2008 11:51:49 PM | Maybe they prefer to date people who have some rudimentary command of the English language.
Or maybe, THEY don't find YOU physically attractive.
The OP obviously hasn't noticed, but there (note correct usage of correct variation) are usually at least 2 people involved in this whole dating thing and the person who is not you does not have to fall all over themselves getting out of their panties just because you deigned to favour them with some attention, unattractive as you might find them.
No, OP, you do not have the right to be angry or insulted. In fact, the other person should be angry and insulted that you would behave in such a spiteful, childish way and waste their (again, correct usage of the correct variation) time.
Anyone who would think they should go after people they find unattractive, and then be upset when they're (again, note correct usage) rejected is "clearly beneath" whale poop. And that's at the bottom of the ocean. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/23/2008 11:54:56 PM |
Let's say that from lack of interest from people that i find attractive, i decide to turn my attention to people that i'm not attracted to( at least physically).. so i send them messages and go out on first dates, but i soon notice that they reject me too!, the ones i go out on dates with don't want to go out on a second, the ones i send a message to never reply, so i wanted to know am i wrong for being mad and insulted because THEY rejected me?
You pretty much summed up your a ***hole......good luck with life. Who is THEY......you are THEY dumbass.......wow i dont even have the words for you. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 12:15:45 AM | | OP...quite honestly...with that ridiculous profile and this absurd post...I'm surprised you're not more used to rejection. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 1:32:44 AM |
so i wanted to know am i wrong for being mad and insulted because THEY rejected me?
^^^^^^^^Yes YOU are wrong for being mad and insulted because you obviously deserved the rejection.......you should stop trying to date anyone.
Shave your head.....put on a robe and join a monastery.
I have heard monks tend to be very forgiving and you probably won't get rejected by them........it would probably be you doing the rejecting....a lot. | |
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eazk
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 1:34:15 AM | Hmmmmm....what's the common factor in all these encounters (other than the rejection)?
PS: No mirrors allowed...just use your brain. | |
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Posted: 2/24/2008 1:45:56 AM | Wow...I'm almost speechless on this one. Yes, you're wrong. As someone else pointed out, there are two people on a date...and the other one may not think you're their pot of gold either.
It is possible - likely, even - that your "perception" that these women are "beneath you" is showing (consciously or unconsciously) during your dates with them. Whether you think you're physically in a "higher tier" than they are or not, negative attitude can turn people away like a righteous fart after a deep-fried onion appetizer.
..because i'm a humble open-minded person....
If you are, you certainly don't come across that way in your writing. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 2:33:45 AM | Obviously, they thought you were beneath them. Don’t worry about it. Lots of us are in the same boat. Personally, I haven’t been “beneath” a man since 1982.  | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 5:12:20 AM | lol frau too funny...now we all know u like the top. j/k
OP...I'm sure when you date these "less than attractive" women, they know exactly how you are feeling. And you wonder why no second date? Your lucky to get a first. And did you tell THEM they are not supposed to reject you. We women need to know the plan you know. Time to crawl in your corner and relevaluate life. It promises you nothing. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 5:55:29 AM | They must have missed the memo on what a favor you were doing them, OP. Now how could that have happened? It sounds just unthinkable that they didn't share your perception of yourself - cause we ALL know, everyone is branded at birth with little labels that say "90 percent better than Bergslim" "60 percent better than Bergslim" "30 percent better than Bergslim" OR "30 percent worse", "60 percent worse" and "90 percent" so everyone is clearly AWARE of where they stand ... and we're all obligated to agree with it too.
Get your head out of your ass, kid. "And know what really matters when choosing a partner"...wth?
You're barely ready to venture out your front door, let alone DATE. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 9:17:57 AM | | OP - when you approach a person with an "attitude", they can smell it all over you. Folks know when you're insincere. You've been branded a skunk because your attitude stinks. More power to the anyone that rejects an insincere and dishonest person. Do you have a right to be mad or insulted? Nope, but that's YOUR problem. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 10:18:10 AM | Wow .
I'm sure the ladies here will agree with me on this. We LOVE it when a guy asks us out, treats us like they are doing us a favor and then gets insulted when we don't fall dripping into their arms.
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 10:33:26 AM | I'm confused as to why you thought you would automatically be accepted by someone you found unattractive. It takes two for dating to occur, and their opinion and preferences are just as valid as yours. Dating isn't a form of charity and you're not doing these ladies any favors by showing them attention. Your attention is not a gift to be bestowed upon the "less fortunate". As you've discovered, they aren't less fortunate than you and just like you...have standards.
You would be better off focusing on yourself and becoming a person the females you do find attractive would want. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 11:17:16 AM | OP: I don't understand - you're angry at the women who you initially rejected (on a purely physical basis) because they've returned the favor and rejected you?
Rejection sucks - that I'll agree with. Yet you initially didn't try and see past their exterior shell, now you're angry because they're not looking past yours? | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 12:39:20 PM | bergslim, don't listen to these people as they make sense...
Let's say that from lack of interest from people that i find attractive,
That sounds like rejection already, so you should be used to it...
i decide to turn my attention to people that i'm not attracted to( at least physically).. so i send them messages
Hey there so god aweful ugly looking lady I bet your parents had to tie a porkchop around your neck to get the dog to play with you, providing he was starved for 3 days, how you doing?
I saw your profile and was really repulsed by it, however, since
i'm a humble open-minded person, and knowing your probably really hard up, decided to give you the chance to have dinner with a totally awesome man.
people will eat a skunk before they go out with someone "clearly beneath them"
I had this last night for dinner before I wrote to show you how much I want to allow you to be seen with me.
we go out on first dates, but i soon notice that they reject me too!, the ones i go out on dates with don't want to go out on a second,
Maybe its asking them to put a bag over their head in case someone you knows sees you as you think they are so repulsive is the reason. Who knows?
the ones i send a message to never reply,
Maybe they don't like eating skunk...
so i wanted to know am i wrong for being mad and insulted because THEY rejected me?
Your so wrong its pathetic, and I would suggest some anger management classes...
But i see something wrong with that.logic ..because i'm a humble open-minded person....alot of people will eat a skunk before they go out with someone "clearly beneath them" | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 12:44:36 PM | | No one will ever date you with that type of attitude. I do not see why this thread has not been deleted yet but while here I will say this. You need to become humble and realize peopl are people, you have standards and so do your dates. Treat them like you want to be treated and maybe..just maybe, you will meet the right person. However, with that ugly atitude ai see you very alone for a very long time. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 12:54:26 PM | Yes, you are wrong for being mad and insulted because they reject you. Have you ever wondered, though, that PERHAPS they reject you because they realize that they are your second, third, or fourth choice of women to date?
Rejection is a part of life. Get over it or get out of the dating game. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 12:57:33 PM | | yes u r wrong for being MAD over it. disappointed maybe but not MAD. imo. you simply have yet to contact the right woman for you. keep the faith and keep plugging along. | |
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 1:03:16 PM | I have a cat...who likes to hop right up next to me on my bed, with his butt right next to my face. He doesn't see a problem with this. He thinks I should just feel so privileged that he's chosen to sit next to me, that the position and view of his butt in my face should be perfectly FINE. Why, I should just be grateful to see his butt!!! He's just stunned and insulted as hell when I push him off the bed, and he stares at me like I'm nuts. If he chose to show a slightly more appealing side of himself, I'd have no problem with him sitting there. I'd welcome it.
Does anyone else smell cat butt here?
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| their not suppose to reject me?
Posted: 2/24/2008 1:08:48 PM | | Well no woman or man for that matter wants to be "the constelation prize" because you just couldn't find anyone better. My guess you are treating exactly the way you are thinking they are worth.. that they are just there to keep you company until you find someone better. Noone with any self respect or dignity would allow that. | |
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