| Is my profile too serious? Any suggestions accepted.
Posted: 2/24/2008 7:23:17 PM | | I was wondering, is my profile too serious? I'm just putting myself down on paper, and not trying to attract men that are only into one thing. I'm a genuinely nice person who knows what she is and isn't attracted to. Any suggestions? | |
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| Is my profile too serious? Any suggestions accepted.
Posted: 2/24/2008 7:46:06 PM | | Kimm4lsu, I do not even need to look at your profile to answer that one. What most people fail to realize about dating in that search for that 'perfect' relationship is that this stuff is serious and it is also a lot of hard work too as well. These sites are not chat rooms, gaming rooms or anything remotely similiar. However, there are many who do not see it that way, not even close. So I say to you, "Yeah, this is serious business. It is real life, not fantasyland. " So, you write a serious profile, you get serious inquiries. You write a goofy profile and God only knows who will come knocking on your door. Being serious is a fantastic filter for weeding out the non-serious. "Hey Frank, look at this profile. This girl sounds way too serious, look at what she here about that." Good! That is exactly who you don't want in you life anyway, a 'fly by night.' Goofy if you are looking for a one night stands, serious if you are looking for a long term serious committment. After many years of doing this, leaning towards the later is safer if you catch my drift. Take care and good luck. | |
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| Is my profile too serious? Any suggestions accepted.
Posted: 2/24/2008 8:01:39 PM | | well, I don't think it's too serious. Dating is a serious thing. If you want my opinion on other things I would say that you shouldn't list all the stuff you list. For me it's hard to come up with conversation. If you've already answered everything then I have nothing to ask you. See. No conversation. If I ask you then I feel like a jerk because you've already answered it and I either forgot or didn't notice it. I would get rid of all your dislikes. what if a guy you liked loved tangerines. Would you kick him to the curve? probably not. You said your not trying to attract men looking for one thing. Your going to get that because you are trying to date men. It goes with the territory. Some men are just willing to wait till marriage or till they know your last name. But, I would suggest getting rid of the pics that are provacative and sexual in nature. Cleavage etc. is sexual. I hope this helps some. Remember in writing. rewrite your profile and trim it down. | |
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