| Guys what attracts you
Posted: 2/25/2008 3:48:32 AM | If you are out, say in a pub/club, do girls in low cut tops or shirt skirts attract you? Or is it the shy girl in the corner? Or the loud boistorous one? (yep spelt that wrong)
My parents always said dont show both so just wondering which to show.........legs or cleavage. | |
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| Guys what attracts you
Posted: 2/25/2008 4:07:30 AM | Nope......., not gonna get tricked into this one ....., I just know I will end up putting my foot in it !
Or worse ! | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 4:40:28 AM | Hi Racey Girl
Funny you should start this forum cause I would be interested in hearing what the guys think on this one too, however only this morning another poster on POF put me onto a forum in the "Ask a Guy" section called "What does showing Cleavage mean ?" or something like that.
It is one full on nasty lowdown forum. As you read it it gets quite nasty and heated...and boy do some people let rip. So I hope our guys and girls for that matter take note. The juicy stuff started about page 2 !!!
But guys please let us know..cause we dont know..we dont, we thought we did, we dont, so please tell us, cause we dont know, we thought we did, we don't, so please tell us............................................................................I think you've got the gist here...we don't know what you want....hell we aren't even that sure what we want either !!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 4:43:54 AM | My money is on cleavage........as long as its not saggy cleavage! | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 4:49:30 AM | Hi Hilly
Havent seen you for a while...hope you are well
God Id just be grateful for some cleavage and in the next life...please legs as long as .......................................PLEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSEEEEE | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 4:58:27 AM | ok....Im an Ogre.. .. so Im not going to lose out here..lol.. hehe
[u]Disclaimer...there is NO single answer.[/u]
There is a difference between getting someone's attention..and getting someone's 'interest'. Unfortunately .. there are as many variances to either that it really wont help yor cause..lol
Blatant cleavage will undoubtedly get more thata passing look from most blokes.. but this will sound strange.. to me it all depends on teh packaging of said cleavage. if a girl is well.. for want of a better description, ample in that dept and quite happy with it she may quite happpily put it "out there". For some guys thats more than sufficient to get you a look in. A caveat...some of us will straight away think..is this "ALL " she has ? ??
All tit...no wit !!! sometimes as soon as mouth is opened... the answer is laid bare..lol. Sometimes it may further capture the curiosity of said 'mere male'
If we are talking looks.. then its not so much , for mine, what you have but how you present it. How you carry yourself...and thats both physically as well as intellect. There is a LOT , A LOT to do with Body Language !!
A quiet confidence attracte ME more than brazen hussyness.. That sis to say.. flaunting yourself may to some , send th eidea that thats the best yo have...and its all downhill from there. A little shyness/coyness doesnt go astray...but dont make it like pulling teeth ...pleeeeease !!
Some men are fearful of intellect in women..... seriously .. I like it :)
As they say..the mind is still there in the morning even after all the make up has smeared off during the night !!
again ..there is NO SINGLE ANSWER
best bet.. just be yourself.. qui sera sera !! | |
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Naamah
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Joined: 11/22/2007
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| Guys what attracts you
Posted: 2/25/2008 5:01:31 AM | | Yeah I'd reckon cleavage will be the stand out fave as well. It's kinda more in their face than legs. I mean...if your legs are in their face, well...either they are really really short, or you're well past the point of wondering if they are attracted to you. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 5:51:51 AM | i am really going to cop it here but for me....for me..... for me...not for other guys but for me...
i tend to find women physically attractive if they dont wobble about a lot... if the fat under their arms doesnt wobble or on their legs....or also on their breasts although i'm more tolerant of wobble with the breasts..
i like women who have waists too...but this is a judgement about physical attractiveness only ok... | |
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Naamah
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Joined: 11/22/2007
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| Guys what attracts you
Posted: 2/25/2008 5:56:35 AM | ^^^ as nervous as a male spider crossing a female's web You are entitled to your own personal taste. Good luck, and it's been really nice knowing you....  | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 6:05:35 AM | its ok... i was going to leave pof a few months ago.... this is the last gasp...lol
as i said to you some time ago, you dont post in the forum unless you're not interested in a date or you keep pretty rigidly to a good strategy..
as for being the male spider... i havent found the web yet..lol | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 6:13:01 AM | If we are just being shamelessly sexist here...I would have to say a nice butt wins every time. Think about it, you can't have a nice rear without having nice legs.
But then again my thoughts are above such things. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 6:13:12 AM | Anything that doesn't look like 10 pound of sausages in a 5 pound bag. If only that "What Not To Wear" show was as popular as Queer Eye For the Straight Guy. Please...muffin tops, love handles and "cute" bellys that hang like a builder's nail bag are not in vogue and never were...nor will they be in 20 years time when the offenders look back and see the evidence of their crimes in pictures for all to see.
As long as we can see whats going on without our retinas being burned by our corneas from all that excessive 'flesh' it's all good. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 6:22:03 AM | i will add that i like excessive flesh and i can make the distinction between the trashiness of the clothes and the trashiness of the woman.... having said that, i think most men see a connection between the flesh they see and the morals of the woman who is showing it... never understood it myself..
btw butt is a good point...beyonce but not something from that program on ten... | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 10:48:53 AM | in my proffession i see it all.
women showing off there assetts attempting to attract the simpler sex.
thus i can honestly say its the "inner" beauty that radiates from them that attracts me.
when added with a nice buttuck and firm cleavage and a pretty face im pretty well turned to a flustered mess.
ps, 14 replies in this thread 6 of em from females, read an article once saying 80% of females are bisexual | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 11:20:04 AM | Personally, yeah, all that skin is nice; guys like that, yes we do.
But fact of the matter is, you can't swing a dead cat without it landing in *somebody's* cleavage in a bar. If you want to stand out, want to get say, *my* attention, look me in the eye and smile.
If there's a spark there, you could be wearing an Inuit parka and I wouldn't notice...
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Posted: 2/25/2008 1:06:52 PM | Lost cowboy I was thinking the same thing about cleavage being everywhere in a bar lol but because everyones squashed up you dont get to see legs too well.
I love showing legs, as I have a gorgeous tattoo down my left thigh, wish I could walk around on my hands at a club | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 1:23:54 PM | " ps, 14 replies in this thread 6 of em from females, read an article once saying 80% of females are bisexual "
.....I think it's more that..... we just want to know, because we don't.... lol
Though I guess am not going to change my way of dressing, the whole package will appeal to someone eventually! Beauty is in the eye....etc  | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 1:59:22 PM |
wish I could walk around on my hands at a club
Now that would get everyones attention | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 2:45:31 PM | Mmmmm just logged on this morning and checked out the overnite answers from the guys on this subject.
Whilst grateful for the honesty bestowed by our male posters, your answers immediately sent me to the mirror to do a quick 37 second self analysis of ones vessel.
Have now decided that I havent got a hope in hell of ever dating/having intimate encounters again based on that 37 second self analysis cause God was kind enough to give me a butt alright, I have now scrambled back into my cave to slip disc number 42 of "The Sopranos" into the DVD player .
That Tony Soprano guy is looking more and more attractive  | |
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Naamah
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Joined: 11/22/2007
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Posted: 2/25/2008 5:02:54 PM | | Wow...legs are beating cleavage. (Now there's a weird sentence if taken out of context) Well this is good news...gives any cleavagely challenged gals like myself hope. | |
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Posted: 2/25/2008 5:48:10 PM | Some bugger once said "you dont look at the mantlepiece while you're stoking the fire" should it have been the other way around ?
I am guilty of liking a nice gently plunging cleavage ...., sorry too much info...., Yes I was a breast fed baby also.
It seemed to take me a while to learn to look (some) women in the eye while shareing a conversation with them.
These days I love seeing the small nuance(s) held within eyes and facial expression generally.
Apart from that not wearing too much war paint or perfume....., and the ultimate is intelligence...., but a relaxed easy manner...., humor and ....., let the games begin cheers all.
AlsoWe all have some wobbly and dangly bits ..... we dont focus on these parts generally . | |
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