| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 3:27:10 PM |  A few years back, I met a woman, that I was ready to spend the rest of my life with! We e-mailed each other for years! Finally, We decided to meet. I
went to her state, for a few weeks, to see if I would like it there, and later, I decided to move in with her. I went to work across the border of her state,
about an hour away from her, and While I was gone, she sold all my stuff, and put a restraining order on me! I did NOTHING to deserve this. Later, she told me that their were no hard feelings! Well, I beg to differ! I also found out that her daughter,
lied to her, and told her mom-(My Fiance') at the time, she said that I was cheating on her! This woman was my whole world! I never cheated on her! It broke my heart, that she would believe her daughter, who-by the way-lies to her mother quite frequently! And had been caught lying to her! But, she put a restraining order on me, and sold all the stuff, that was (MINE), that I got from MY Mother, before she passed away! I lost everything to that was precious to me. Why do women do this??? | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 3:43:48 PM | | I'd just like to be the first to say, that not ALL women do this! I could and would NEVER do that to another person...its just wrong. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 3:50:25 PM | You've got yourself mixed up with a woman that can be branded as "the ultimate girlfriend from hell".
I'm sorry about your ordeal. Is there any way you can get some legal help? I'm sure there is a way to settle this.
Hope this can be fixed and good luck to you....and please, don't be too trusting next time.
MM | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 3:51:06 PM |
Why do women do this??? The same reason why men will up and move in with a woman they just met for a few weeks and then ask generic, vague, stereotypical questions when it doesn't work. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 3:55:57 PM |
The same reason why men will up and move in with a woman they just met for a few weeks and then ask generic, vague, stereotypical questions when it doesn't work. Yeah. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 4:05:56 PM | | it happens to woman too...a mother will always believe her daughter before her man. at least a good one will. as for your sold stuff take her to court. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 7:17:14 PM | | I would never do that to anyone. I still have some stuff from my ex bo friends I broke up with 3 years ago. It was his grandfather stuff it means a lot to him, cause his grandfather passed away a long time ago. I told him I would keep it for him. He is not stable at the moment, he can't keep a job nor a place to stay for long, he's involved with drugs and alcohol. Or i would tell him to come get the stuff. So see not every woman will do this. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 7:31:47 PM |
The same reason why men will up and move in with a woman they just met for a few weeks and then ask generic, vague, stereotypical questions when it doesn't work.
Bravo. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 7:36:55 PM | The same reason why men will up and move in with a woman they just met for a few weeks and then ask generic, vague, stereotypical questions when it doesn't work.
Both genders are guilty of this violation. Desperation knows no gender. Sorry that this happened to you OP, but try to exercise common sense in the future. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 8:02:30 PM | OP,
Are you SURE you weren't SCAMMED???
What was she doing all that time you traded
E-MAIL'S? Setting up??
Open your EYE'S! | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 8:18:36 PM | | First off, it's not a women/men thing. Some women will act despicably. So will some men. I know I would have never done that to you. But I also would not have moved you in to my life so quickly. Sounds like your "friend" was either a scam artist..or quite possibly an insecure lady who had been cheated on and lied to before. It was easy for her to believe you cheated, maybe because it had happened to her before. It's sad to say, but trust should not come so easy. (And I am the pot calling the kettle black because I too trust too easily at times). It's hard to find the balance between trusting to easily and becoming too cynical. But please remember: your "friend" is NOT all women. ...and unfortunately, life teaches us some hard lessons. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/25/2008 8:19:46 PM | | You emailed for years - clearly she wasnt serious. Emailing for years before meeting. People just need to have some common sense - scam artists are everywhere and the net just gives them easier and broader access for those to con. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/26/2008 10:10:09 AM | | the woman you had this run in with i wouldnt lump in to why do women lie about love.She simply was a nut case who decided to clean you out.She obviously was a criminally minded Bi*ch.As far as women liying about being in love i wouldnt agree.id say they want to make sure they are going to give their hearts to aman who will love them back.No one wants to be hurt and rejected. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/26/2008 10:44:18 AM | I am not an expert but I once you moved in to her house, I think she has to put more on a restraining order than "My daughter says he cheated on me"
But her selling your stuff is illegal. bring her to court | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/26/2008 12:54:21 PM | hmmmm......I fail to see what this has to do with women lying about love.
Perhaps , in those 'years' of writing back and forth...you missed some red flags somewhere. Like..oh, I don't know....she's a whack job???
what the hell were you writing about for years, anyway?
Don't blame all women...some lie, most don't
good luck getting your stuff back, chief....
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/27/2008 4:20:27 PM | Actually, SHE did this. Not all women. I have never had a girlfriend that did anything even remotely this bizarre.
YOU moved across state lines to be with a woman you met online and barely knew, you can email someone for a decade but if you only spent a couple of weeks in their presence how could you possibly know them or how they live? YOU chose to move in with a virtual stranger. You should have gotten your own place and acted like an adult. That way had the relationship not worked you would have still had all your stuff. Common sense should have prevailed. If this all happened years ago, have you learned from it or are you still whining about what SHE did, and not what YOU brought on yourself.
YOU fell in love with the idea of love. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/27/2008 7:48:54 PM | im sorry if i offend you especally since im younger and it might be harder to take my advice.
that said,there are plenty of untrustworty people around i wouldent move in with another person from another state ever (again lol) i mean if they ask you so easly and take it so lightly there has to be some problem, who knows she could be a conartist or a murderer.
though love knows no boundarys always know that the best rule in love is that if you love her get a seprate apartment,THEN move in after a while. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/27/2008 8:16:21 PM | I swear, if anyone ever doubted that truth really is stranger than fiction, they'd just need to be directed to the PoF forums . . . doesn't take long here to become a true believer in the inherent bizarre-ness of people's everyday activities . . .
Nobody would think this saga would make a believable TV drama or sitcom . . . two people email back and forth for years, finally decide to meet, move in together immediately, and then when he is off at work she gets a restraining order against him based on her daughter's charge that he is cheating . . . and right away sells all his belongings, including his mementos from his mother . . .
How can anybody be expected to give any "advice" or meaningful commentary regarding this situation?? It's completely loony . . .
OP, I recommend that you move to Austin, Texas (official slogan: Keep Austin Weird) and take up knife-throwing as a profession (hey, there's a guy that makes $100,000 a year doing that!). In your spare time, you could write a best-selling e-book about how to manage long-distance romances . . . | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/27/2008 8:22:05 PM | | aw well i personally like the weird happy calm croud that we have here ,i think i agree with you there isent alot that can be said as advice in this situation. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/27/2008 8:23:35 PM | That's just wrong. She didn't discuss the situation with you? I find that awfully disgusting.
...Man. | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/27/2008 8:54:38 PM | | well thats why i said maybe she was a conartist, i think a rashional woman would have talked about it or asked you about it before she makes such a dision no? | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/27/2008 9:34:01 PM | HrtOGold:
I feel your pain, but Ido sorta disagree with you, because I have been there. Just 'cause you and I both had exes that did not know what love is , does not mean that all women are like your and my ex. To play devils advocate, are you sure you werent just pushing too hard, as I admit I had done in the past? | |
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| Why do women lie about Love???
Posted: 2/27/2008 10:08:28 PM | First you should file theft charges against her, and or a civil suit and get all of this out in court. Kids can ruin relationships especially if the biological parent is blinded to the child. Even if you did cheat, (I am not saying you did) she has no right to sell your belongings, that is just wrong.
Not all women act like wh*res or *itches or idiots but there sure are lots of them out there, and by the way??? there are just as many *astard men out there doing things as bad and worse. I dont know why humans are so low class, have no ethics or morals and basically show the world what low lifes they are by lying, cheating, scamming, and acting like scum. They treat the people they say they love like *hit, they abuse themselves and everyone around them because of some pathetic rationalizations or excuses that they have stuck on to and then drink too much, do drugs, over eat, or starve themselves, cut themselves, mutilate themselves all in the name of fashion??? They get themselves into debt by buying crap they think will make them feel better or happy and if they would just stop acting like jack *sses, start behaving like a good person behaves they wouldnt need all of that, nor would they fee so unfullfilled.
It is up to us to change society, ignore the advertisers that bombard us with BS trying to sell us their junk promising that everyone willlove you and envy you.. what a load of BS... I think a lot of people got lost or all caught up in the dark side or negative side of life.
You should write her a letter and send it where she has to sign for it, tell her the truth and tell her that you want your belongings back, if she wants to believe her child, you cant do anything about it. | |
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