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 hattrick4522

Joined: 8/25/2007
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Posted: 2/28/2008 8:55:43 PM
Mine is a two part question:

Do you believe that what you put out unto this world will atract the same energy(like people).
Example: If you are angry and want to strike out will the same energy in an abusive mate be drawn to you?

What do you think about a choice made with no thought or reguard, and do you think it will ccome back to you and why?
 destinationsrb

Joined: 8/9/2007
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:09:02 PM
OP, neither of your questions can be understood, at least by me.
 boyzni3

Joined: 3/19/2006
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:12:13 PM
Ok I have to think about your second ? awhile....But as for the first one...No I dont think we attract the same energy, I think we attract the polar opposite in energy, basically as a mechanism to balance said energy out. When someone strikes out in anger, they are usually doing so in an effor to take the energy of the other person, either due to the fact that they are low in energy or as a way of making the other feel lowly. In that way I think we attract people who have the energy to spare.
 upforadventure

Joined: 6/27/2007
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:13:12 PM
Like attracts like. A mature person is put off by someone immature. A person with class is avoidant of someone without. "With no thought or regard" simply means you made the decision to be ignorant. You either decide to act, or decide not to act, but no situation is devoid of a decision.
 zopz

Joined: 1/3/2008
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:16:09 PM
It's false. The answer is false. Nice people end up in abusive relationship and stuff all the time. Proof.
 Miss Eyre

Joined: 1/2/2008
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:42:30 PM
Like attracts like? no, I don think so. As the astute poster above me mentions,.. nice people end up in abusive relationships. I think we tend to attract our opposites,.. which really sucks if you're a really lovely person. In fact, I find the idea that you attract the type of person that you really are yourself, to be very insulting to people who have ended up with an abuser.
They may have made poor choices,.. or maybe they just didnt know or couldnt have known. We dont choose bad people, we only find out they are bad later, when they reveal their bad behaviour.
As to your second question OP, well, a choice made without much thought has a 50/50 chance of turning out bad, or good, i would imagine.. that would be the odds, I suppose,.. But a choice that is made because its the easiest choice, doesnt always work out so well. Miss Eyre.
 hattrick4522

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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:47:38 PM
Nic e point, But I di dnot say these are my beliefs, just a statement told to me which raised the question.
 BeerShark

Joined: 10/5/2006
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:51:51 PM
Sounds to me like more of that Secret crap. It's not energy atarcting like energy. If you are an a55hol3, is it realy a surprise when people don't want anything to do with, then your left alone with your hole-y-ness! You haven't attracted negative energy, you've just alienated everyone!
This is how cults get started.
 hattrick4522

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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:59:27 PM
thats funny but true. Why I have the question in the first place.
 aPamela

Joined: 7/1/2007
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Posted: 2/28/2008 10:01:56 PM
OP: I understand your question.
I also believe that what you put into your head and heart comes back to you;
However, I do no now why you asked the question.

In any case, I believe.
 Stove Top

Joined: 12/9/2007
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Posted: 2/28/2008 10:08:08 PM
I'm not sure if you're talking about "energy" or the "law of attraction" otherwise known as metaphysics Op.
Energy: If you are always giving off negetive energy (as in always sad/depressed) then you literally suck the good energy out of the people around you. That is why positive, uplifting folks do not usually stick around people who are consistantly negative,down for long.. they can actually feel exhausted after spending long periods of time with the down person..

Metaphysics/law of attraction: Your thoughts are things.. choose the good ones. What you project in thought will come back to you.. so If you always think like you've already got what you want... you will eventually send out enough of that energy to make is so. People with a "vision" are usually very successful at what ever they put their minds to.
 hmrocker

Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 2/28/2008 10:19:25 PM
No. I know for a fact that I along wit many others have always put out positive thoughts and energy out and all it ever gets me is a big zero and heartache. Also found that having a don't care attitude draws more attention. Go figure.

Why do so many on here ask to have threads deleted. Duplicate threads? Maybe if you dig ten pages deep. There are new people joining each day and they never had a chance to discuss a topic. Just cause soem of you spend your lives on here and hate to see a topic again doesn't mean you have to ask to get it deleted.
 aPamela

Joined: 7/1/2007
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Posted: 2/28/2008 10:20:30 PM
Hey, Stove Top!

Good answer...

Want to hang out? Lol.
 Harry Peter

Joined: 12/25/2006
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:33:40 AM
I have found that what you carry within yourself is reflected back, or situations will arise so that you can experience it. Example, your "soul" wishes to teach, and you vibrate in way that is resonance with that of being a teacher, the universe will throw dumb people at you left and right so you can experience being a teacher.
 SlyKnight

Joined: 1/21/2007
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:13:00 AM

It's false. The answer is false. Nice people end up in abusive relationship and stuff all the time. Proof.


No. Like does attract like. The world is your mirror, but it's rarely an EXACT mirror. If someone is drawn into an abusive relationship, it's the world reflecting back at them their own lack of self-respect. Any why is the abuser abusive? To put someone in their place and make them feel inferior - which they feel they need due to *their* lack of self respect.

Misery loves company. Another phrase with a lot of truth to it. Negative people tend to be drawn together, as do positive people.

If opposites really attracted I would keep meeting and falling for for short-tempered highly-stressed manic-depressives with no sense of humour. But I don't :)
 rivereye

Joined: 2/19/2008
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:22:29 AM
i have to wax kharmic or biblical on this one-(sow the wind,reap the whirlwind) all in a very generalized and less than completely fair matrix;of course i can't help feeling the good i've done in life (and, unfortunately, also the bad) has come back a few times to visit me...
 Malley

Joined: 5/12/2007
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:22:38 AM
Oh so true. You have hit the nail squarely on the head with that one.


If you are always giving off negetive energy (as in always sad/depressed) then you literally suck the good energy out of the people around you.


As for good people being abused, sure it happens, but their lack of a good and positive self worth is what attracts the abusers to them. Anyone can strike another, but only some allow it to happen repeatedly.


What do you think about a choice made with no thought or reguard, and do you think it will come back to you and why


OP are you talking about an action or a reaction ???
If this was a one time event and not a repetitious behaviour, then my answer would be no.
We all make mistakes and have regrets.
Don't beat yourself up over this.
Forgive your indiscretion and move on.
 artactive

Joined: 2/4/2008
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Posted: 2/29/2008 4:35:24 AM
Hey Stove Top,
You have nailed it!
 Harry Peter

Joined: 12/25/2006
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Posted: 2/29/2008 2:35:41 PM
Law of Attraction is best explained via Abraham-Hicks material I've found. Think they might have came up with it, but not sure. At least their version of it. If interested in such ideas I recommend reading Wayne Dyer, Deepak Chopra, Neale Donald Walsh, Jane Roberts-Seth, Larry Dosey's stuff. Or Fred Alan Wolf, if the physics aspect interest you.
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