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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:20:05 PM | For the ladies!
Why is it that a woman who will fantisize about another woman (Or be with), will not feel guarded by her and will only feel guarded by a man? A learned response, genes, or what?
If the fantasy comes true, can the outcome be good or bad and why?
 
oh yeah, and should a guy get involved or stay out? | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:35:16 PM | you mean in a threesome???
well if I ever decide to be with a woman it will be purely curiosity ... not a long term relationship... cause we can't make babies.. lol
as for can a fantacy be good.. hell ya...
and should a man be involved... why not?? Sure ... as long as we get a turn to make him feel good.. and as long as we both get equal share of his lolly... | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:42:54 PM | I guess I did not ask the question right. Do not get mewrong and has always been mine but if it happens can it damage your relationship with your partner?
Truely no angle here ladies just pure insight and since I know the percentage of women who do fantisize why not let your gaurd down and reply? | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:57:01 PM | I didn't mean I only wanted a females point of view guys.
what do you think? | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 9:58:31 PM | | I don't even get what you are asking. Guarded? What does that mean? | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 10:04:13 PM | | Listening to a goup of ladies a while back, they all agreed on one thing, that they could not be hurt emotionally by a woman, but always by a man. This peaked my curiosity. | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 10:12:41 PM | ohh Ok i get ya now...
NO in my personal view it would not hurt the relationship...
It would be an exploration with my man not an opportunity for him to ditch me for a woman ... (or so i see it as that)...
And no I wouldn't be emotionally hurt by this woman cause I wouldnt be ina relationship wiht her.. but my man...
I guess the only ones that would get emotionally hurt this way (threesome) would be if two women were in a relationship and they included anotehr woman or a man...
p.s I hope i didnt confuse you... | |
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Posted: 2/28/2008 11:12:32 PM | I absolutely don't get it.
*Sonic boom follows as the question goes right over her head* | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:13:13 AM | | I dont get it either im going to help herd the cats for awhile!!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:35:14 AM | I think the OP is asking how a woman can enter into relationships with other women without "having her sheilds up" but plays her emotional cards closer to her chest when it comes to men.
Like how two women might make out in a bar but won't do that with guys? Is that what you're asking? | |
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N*Love
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Joined: 2/22/2008
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:41:02 AM | ^^^ huh if this is what you are asking OP.. its plain and simple^^^
You guys are great in CRUSHING OUR HEARTS.... meanwhile our "Girls" would be here to comfort us and lend a crying shoulder... Somehow the thought of "WOMEN are more EMOTIONAL, SENSITIVE.. comes to mind... hence less HEART CRUSHING FOR US..
If we didn't nail it with this question that Trailsman tried to disphere then can you pls come back and post SIMPLER more CLEAR questions...
Trully Mars vs. Venus.... even thought we are speaking english... Im scratching my head as to what you are asking...
p.s whoever said communication is easy ... is a god damn fool. | |
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Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:48:39 AM | "I dont get it either im going to help herd the cats for awhile!!!!!!!!"
She is a cutie. I'd love to herd cats with her. And if you had not learned before, felines are most independant minded and do not herd well at all. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:28:54 AM | Yeah I don't think this is right, most of my homosexual friends have suffered as many heart breaks as straight women.
I'm not even bicurious, but my shields are up entering relationships because I'm only human. I don't want to be hurt any more than the next person. If I was bi, I think I'd be even more cautious, because my experience is that women are far more manipulative than men in general. IN GENERAL, so if you're a woman and you read that and take issue, then obviously you don't fall in to the generality. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 5:35:22 AM | | Probably because we were raised in society to believe a man is the protector. Not that that's true or necessarily the case, or even what I believe to be true. But traditionally that's how things were. Look at your grandparents...Not a great chance your grandmother was the powerhouse in the relationship. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 7:12:08 AM |
Yeah I don't think this is right, most of my homosexual friends have suffered as many heart breaks as straight women.
I agree with you Altara.
My lesbian friends have suffered from betrayals and heartache as well and are very guarded when entering a new relationship, maybe even moreso due to the fact that both parties are very emotional creatures. It must have been a group of heterosexual women the OP overheard discussing this, because they could truly not understand the dynamics of a lesbian relationship.
I can see how it would be assumed that women would let someone down easier, but just look at how many men have been hurt by women. For this group of women to say that a woman cannot be emotionally hurt by a woman is just blasphemy... any human can be emotionally hurt by any human. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 8:14:18 AM | | Not all women feel that way toward other women. But those that do, it may be a comfort issue, she feels comfortable with the woman, they are friends and think they can trust each other more. For the man who will be involved, wait until the women are finished with each other, or wait until they are somewhat satisfied then you can jump in. I hope I understood your guestion correct anyway. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 11:26:28 AM |
Listening to a goup of ladies a while back, they all agreed on one thing, that they could not be hurt emotionally by a woman, but always by a man.
I think that no matter the 'person' you become involved with your emotions come into play and indeed you can become 'hurt emotionally' - if things go bad. | |
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