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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:40:52 PM | | What is the best way to have sex with a woman while shes on her period?, i've tried different ways and they all end up the same (messy)....i've tried to ask my male friends and the ones that engaged in intercourse at that time have the same end result, do any of you have any tips? | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:43:33 PM | When she's freesh out of the bath and place a towel on the bed... or
wait til shes 2 days in and the flows so not so bad... well thats how it is for me anyways.
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:50:13 PM | | They used to make a product... it was an alternative to pads or tampons, but I really don't remember what they were called. The what and how of this product though, was that it was a soft plastic "cup" that fit over the cervix to catch the flow. Sounds like a clever plan, and I did have sex with an ex who was using these... but I found that I was bashing or catching the head of my penis on the bottom edge of the cup, and it really wasn't that pleasant. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 12:59:07 PM | | Get a red towel, do it in the kitchen, on the washer/dryer, or in the bathroom where clean-up is easy. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:00:32 PM | | condom.......if it is that big of a deal.....to be "messy"......dont do it....... | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:20:42 PM | | One thing that couples rarely work on is masturbating each other and other similar activities. This is a good time to practice those. I personally do not like doing it during that time because it's so slushy that I could on for even and never come. Boring. Now, if you are creative with each other, use your imagination, some interesting things will evolve. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:28:51 PM | A DIAPHRAGM!  Not just for birth control anymore!! Seriously - it works like a charm! Blocks the flow completely. When wearing a diaphragm during menstration, she should be sure to remove within 8 hours (risk of toxic shock) - and if she has a heavy flow, sooner. But since I'm on the pill, my periods are light - I put it in before bed and take out in the morning in the shower. My SO doesn't even know when I'm on my cycle - and that's just fine with me! | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:40:14 PM |
They used to make a product... it was an alternative to pads or tampons, but I really don't remember what they were called. The what and how of this product though, was that it was a soft plastic "cup" that fit over the cervix to catch the flow. Sounds like a clever plan, and I did have sex with an ex who was using these... but I found that I was bashing or catching the head of my penis on the bottom edge of the cup, and it really wasn't that pleasant.
It is called Instead...available at most CVS stores (I think Walgreen's too) or online.
There website... http://www.softcup.com/
I have found that they are good for some spooning and slow kindof sex...but not at all for the rough and deep stuff (unless you are tiny). It is a start though.
The shower is a great suggestion though, or just make a mess and then clean each other up in the shower. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 1:48:22 PM | | The others have it right - fresh from the shower (her), put a thick towel down first, use a condom if you don't wish it on you, and learn how to wet a washcloth after. If any of these are just too much trouble - then don't do it. Simple. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 3:35:57 PM | Hot shower just before, shower with her.... kissing her and getting her revved up. The increase in desire, her vaginal walls will produce natural lubrication and the heat in the shower will slow the flow.
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Posted: 2/29/2008 4:08:34 PM | | I'm with Outmind on this one. Use your imagination, there are more things to do than actual intercourse that are lots of FUN. I find this time of month gives time for exploring other options, as I don't really like to do "it" at that time. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 5:05:01 PM | I can't believe one of the men haven't beat me to this............"roll her over"..........  lmao
Of course, now you'll have a whole other kind of 'mess' on your, um, 'hands' (so to speak). | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 5:06:47 PM | In the shower has always been a great way to have fun and to avoid a mess. Shower play is fun at anytime! The soaping of each others body - the fresh scent - the steam - aaahhhh!!
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Posted: 2/29/2008 9:30:38 PM | | Natural Sea Sponges work wonders!!! May require some extra lubrication but neither of you will even notice it's there. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 8:20:49 AM | in a less than seedy hotel...we're others have probably done the same...
think IN the shower sounds pretty decent... | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 9:55:02 AM | In my experiences during that time of the month, below the belly button and above the knees becomes the no-zone. As in, don't touch or even cast your eyes in that general direction.
I just assumed it was that way with most women.
So why not get on some birth control that limits the frequency of the monthly visitor. (Depo stops it completely but there is another on the market that makes it only happen once every few months)
Keep in mind that depo can cause calcium loss. | |
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