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Posted: 2/29/2008 5:49:45 PM | i would like to ask about something that me and my friends are talkin about right now, is it ok to say, like or want a threesome with another woman and man if ur a straight woman, and do women really have a preference to if the third party is male or female, in the same aspect...do men who want a threesome automatically expect a woman to know it HAS TO, MUST BE, with another woman and not a man?
id like to know what men think about another man with their woman while they are involved as well? of would it make it better if it was 2 women, i know men crave 2 women but would any of u men or have any of u men had a threesome with another man involved just to say or feel u fuflilled sum sick fantasy? | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 6:16:51 PM | I've always heard men say they'll ONLY do a threesome if they are in the MINORITY. 2 b@lls, 4 walls, right?
I think men are quite selfish that way. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 6:29:10 PM |
like or want a threesome with another woman and man if ur a straight woman
If you're planning on getting one end of the guy and your friend gets the other end, and no fooling around between the two of you then yes. If you'd want to play with the girl in addition to the guy then, hate to break it to you, you're not a straight woman. You'd be bi, at least a little bit.
do men who want a threesome automatically expect a woman to know it HAS TO, MUST BE, with another woman and not a man?
Most guys want the two women, but a few are willing to do the two men type. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 6:36:12 PM | It's genetically hardwired for men to be that way. Nobody in their right mind shares a "keeper".
however...occasionally some of us have a friend they trust more than anything in the entire world and we will share Non-important females. Bear in mind that when a guy offers a three-way where the girl is getting tagged hard by two or more guys, it's often a prelude to a good-bye.
I've noticed that it is almost exactly the opposite with women...they don't mind sharing the good men with friends who have been treated roughly by others...just to show them what a rollicking wonderful time a good man can be.
And more & more women are of a mind to be bi/lesbian these days...as many men are still lacking the willingness to become good studies of female nature...and the Redneck's who beat their gf's/wives REALLY don't help the situation. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 8:01:36 PM | | most guys are homophobes or gay. being naked in front of another guy is one thing if ur changing, but having sex? thats a no fly zone | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 8:56:27 PM |
.occasionally some of us have a friend they trust more than anything in the entire world and we will share Non-important females.
that phrase will be a burden on my soul forever, what if someone treated your mother that way? or your grandma? everyone is important to somebody.. we all have feelings, holy crap!
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DonQ
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Joined: 1/10/2008
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| threesome etiquette
Posted: 2/29/2008 9:04:57 PM | I'm sure there are some guys out there who wouldn't mind being in a three some with a woman and another guy. Hey... more power to him! As long as everybody is consenting, who cares?
Me, personally, I couldn't do it. Hell, I'm not even sure I could be in a three some with two women!
A mans just gotta knows his limitations.... | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 11:28:31 PM | My dear, threesomes can and do come (ahem) in both flavors...two women, one man; one woman, two men. Yes, yes, most men prefer the two-women type, but a guy I know told me about a totally hot experience he had with his girlfriend and another guy, both taking her at once. More than I could do, mind you, but it did sound rather fun!
As to what a woman prefers, it really depends. A lot of women may fantasize about another woman, but actually doing it may stop her cold. Having two men may be appealing. And it is a sick fantasy? Again, it depends on your morals, what you believe in, and how it makes you feel -- before, during AND after. In my opinion, sex is grown-up play -- as long as no one is being humiliated, emotionally hurt or physically abused, why not stretch yourself and your limits? It's how we grow... | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 1:00:37 AM | This I think is not so selfish but merely understood as taboo among guys. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 4:51:52 AM |
It's genetically hardwired for men to be that way
Being territorial about women is not natural, as you seem to think. Throughout history men have shared their wives. Today, some men will have a threesome with another man. Thus, if it were 'genetically hardwired' aka, natural, everyone would feel the same way. Because people do not always feel this way, it is not natural.
Women have been told as of late that lesbianism/bisexualism is hot. Therefore, we put on our best smiles and say we are, but only when our man wants it. Coincidence? I personally love people. I don't care what they've got between their legs and never likely will. I'll have fun with whatever's there. If a woman is going to be having sex with a woman, men seem to be okay with this. A woman is not a threat, apparently. Even though the girlfriend may be emotionally attached, enjoy the woman's body, and be technically having an affair, it's okay because the other partner is 'female.' All the same problems can happen with a male partner or a female partner, so there is no real, logical, or right reason to say 'only women.' | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 5:06:35 AM | Share, share and share alike. If someone is going to ask their mate to have a threesome they oughta be willing to allow the partner a similar request in kind. Guy wants a fmf he better allow her to ask for the mfm. And no I don't think a MfM is sum sick fantasy and all participants can be straight.
Now if your single you can look for whatever you want | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 5:18:15 AM | | sounds like certian values are lowered and you lower your standards to fit in or please your mate? Is that what your saying? | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 6:22:43 AM | is it ok to say, like or want a threesome with another woman and man if ur a straight woman, and do women really have a preference to if the third party is male or female, in the same aspect...do men who want a threesome automatically expect a woman to know it HAS TO, MUST BE, with another woman and not a man?
I think if your going to have a threesome with someone you actually care about then you should discuss all those things with them. You should talk about what you would be ok with and you should have a out plan, just in case. Also both of you need to be into it the same amount if you are just doing it for him/her then it will most likelly cause big issues later OR during. If you are a female looking for a FFM 3-some you can find that very easy and actually shop around untill you find a couple that wants the same things out of a 3 some that you want.
id like to know what men think about another man with their woman while they are involved as well? of would it make it better if it was 2 women, i know men crave 2 women but would any of u men or have any of u men had a threesome with another man involved just to say or feel u fuflilled sum sick fantasy
I've done a MFM 3-some before with a good buddy and this girl he used to screw around with when he was drunk. We where both drinking and he told me I should come over and help him do her. So I did, it wasn't anything great or bad. We dp'd her and thats has close has our**** got to each other. I would not want to do that with someone I was doing more than just sex with though. It's not my thing but alot of people do get off on watching there S.O. getting slammed by another dude.
There are all kinds of people out there though and you just gotta find the one that wants the same things you do and go from there which is SO hard 99% of the time. I wish you Luck | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 6:45:42 AM | Dont do it simple. It may seem a good idea but it only needs one of you not to enjoy it as much as the other and game over.
If your partner means less than nothing to you, then go for it. If you would be upset if you and your partner split then do not do it.
These kind of things eat away at you and ruin you. Been there done it, was o while it was going to a degree its after its happened the games begin.
Stick to movies and games between the two of you to spice things up. If you involve another person then be prepared for things to go tits up. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 6:45:52 AM | OP, I've never been involved in a three way situation, although I came close once. Since I'm local, you can contact me if you'd consider having me as part of your experiment.  | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 6:45:55 AM | | Having threesomes is treading on thin ice! You need to know each others boundaries before hand and you need to know where the line is that no one should cross. You have to be able to see the threesome as a totaly sexual act and not an emotional one. You have to separate your feelings for the gratification. If there is any hesitiation - do not go forward! | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 8:11:56 AM | | i wasnt think about having another one...i had one a long long time ago, but i wouldnt ever have a mfm, thats all im saying, to me that would feel dirty i dunno know why, what im sayin is does anyone who has had or cosider having a threesome have any rules, about what they would allow and not allow, i did, it was hard for me to do it with someone i had feelings for, and then when it was over i felt shitty that a man that would want t spend the rest of his life with me would share me, like someone had posted earlier and i feel it made alot of sense, you shoulndt ever share a keeper.. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 11:03:32 AM | Is this related to the idea that, if you loved me, you would be jealous?
Can I assume that women involved in a FMF do not consider the man a keeper?
Just to extend the scenario, if two couples got together, is no one a keeper?
How come all these non-keepers are in relationships?
Just wondering ... Bob | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 11:09:12 AM | i actually think of me as a keeper, i dont practice this behavior now, it was one time when i was with a man for 6 years and he begged me to do it all the time, so out of love for his happieness and sexual satisfaction, i did it,
u feel me
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custis
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Joined: 3/16/2005
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Posted: 3/1/2008 11:18:28 AM | | Personally, if your man wants to have another woman in the bed, you should have every right to have another man in the bed. This is the problem with threesomes because it is mainly a guys club. A foursome with two couples is much better because everyone has the same anty in the pot and jealousies are less likely. A man may look up and get a twinge when he sees some other guy riding his wife, but then he looks down and realizes that he is riding that guy's hot wife and it is good. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 11:23:03 AM | some years ago i had a threesome with a couple (a wife and her husband). before accepting it i said clearly that i am a straight man, so of course i did NOT touch him nor did he touch me. it was her who got our sexual weapons
by the way, i shall never repeat it again, for my eyes were not created to see a****different from mine. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 11:33:04 AM | Threesomes? Meh. Why divide everyones attention like that? It is really boring to me.
A threesome done round robin style would interest me. How points would be awarded I don't know. | |
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eazk
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Joined: 9/8/2006
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Posted: 3/1/2008 11:33:42 AM | I totally enjoy helping a woman discover her infinite supply of orgasms. I love to watch her, pay attention to her every gasp, watch when her pupils dilate, listen to the sound of her smile...and as such, I think it would be incredible to have either...another man who could evoke responses from her that I could relax and watch...to share in the experience with her...give him direction to try some new things, etc....and another woman, to learn the things that women perceive as wonderful and enjoyable.
But then again, I'm comfortable in my sexuality. I'm not a homophobe...I don't want to have sex with another man, but I have no issue with both of us simultaneously (or even serailly) pleasing a woman.
But the key thing is the stability...the mutual trust in the relationship, first. If you can't have truly emotionally intimate conversations...to be able to discuss without fear of retribution, then this really isn't the game for you. My suggestion...do some swinger clubs...first as a voyeur...just feel what it is like to be in that situation and talk to the people before/after...then later as an exhibitionist...discover what it's like to have sex in front of people. Then...once you are bother emotionally grounded in this, then you can move down the path of bringing in another partner for a potentially emotionally as well as physically intimate encounter.
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eazk
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Joined: 9/8/2006
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Posted: 3/1/2008 12:28:39 PM | | I know a couple of females that like to be taken by 2 males at the same time and they say that if feeds their desire to be taken not made. They like to be totally overcome by the power of 2 males. They have had fmf threesomes before but didn't get the sexual charge out of serving to males. I have been a part of one of these scenarios and have to say she got off in a serious way and seemed at times to not get enough but wasn't as much an emotional sexual experiences as it was a sexual gratifactation experience. Kind of like working out a sexual fantasy and find out you like it a lot!! Some one said that MFM threesome was just a sick fantasy should ask these two girls if they think it is sick. They would just tell you " HELL NO IT ISN'T " They would tell you its some of the best sex they can have. | |
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