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Posted: 3/1/2008 9:26:31 AM | | The internet has made pornography much more excessible these days. I think most of us have looked at porn online at one time or another. If there is anything the internet has taught us it's just how freaky people can be. I'm curious what the womens prospective is on it. How many of you women on this site regularly look at porn online. What if catch your boyfriend online? Does it bother you? or only if it is overly excessive? | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 9:59:24 AM | | In my experiences they typically don't. Though I did date someone who did. She spent more time doing that in week than I would over the course of several months. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 10:05:59 AM | I look at porn. I have some favorite sites I prefer...not so..um...tacky. Then there is reading erotic lit and erotic blogs, which are more for the imagination than close up shots. Not that there's anything wrong with that.
I believe in being upfront in all aspects of a relationship, including sexuality. The man I'm seeing looks, but it's all in a nice perspective that matches mine. He really liked that I shared my favorite video site. We looked at one video together. I asked him if he had ever looked at porn with a woman before. He said he had not. He found it arousing.
What would bother me is if he spent a lot of time looking and preusing, which would qualify for the overly excessive, imo. A little bit here and there, even a few minutes every day - I have no issue with. If he needs a fix every day, then there's a problem. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 10:16:52 AM | it has become more "accessible" and i would like to hear a womans "perspective" as well....
(i don't normally care but it was bugging me haha...) | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 10:26:23 AM | I totaly own peeking from time to time - how else are ya gonna learn new stuff?! I mean there are still things out there I haven't even thought of - nor dreamed of!! Yikes!!  | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 10:30:15 AM | I love porn.......not to look at new things, but to critique how sex has changed and to to remind myself what NOT to do during sex...........
It is amazing how porn went from normal to freaking stupid...........like spitting on each other............WTF.
ya, they need to make it more realistic...... | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 10:30:16 AM | I work in the industry for a living so have become immune to it. I do have a few favorite sites I visit -- story sites -- and run a site featuring erotica for women. Every so often I come (pun intended) across a site that piques my interest.
I'd rather watch a DVD on a 53" screen than try to cram a big one, err, picture, into a 19" widescreen monitor (or is it 21"? Size doesn't always matter). | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 11:17:28 AM | i watch porn ..pretty much everyday haha
if my bf was watching porn alone i would be kinda upset coz he didnt ask me to join haha :) | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 11:58:54 AM | | My ex was pretty much uninterested in sex, but a porn video was one of the few things that would make her horny. I like porn the same as most guys pretty much, but I do not spend a whole lot of time looking at it. I am totally uninterested in things that portray humiliating acts upon women like rape or beatings. Nor do I care for pics of women who look suspiciously young. Of course the big problem with porn sites is the danger of viruses. I recommend tiava dot com. In years of surfing I have never picked up anything there more serious than a bit of minor spyware. But do NOT take any of their links to other sites. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 12:50:24 PM | | porn on the intenet is fine. As long as children dont get ahold off it. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 2:29:54 PM | | Well I never used to look at it but when I caught my bf on the sites I had to see what he was looking at........well I discovered that I if I know what he's looking at and what his fantasies are maybe I can help him a bit and it worked!! it still does bother me a little but I just let it be.......that's his private time and I accept that as long as he keeps me happy and he does. I just use it to my advantage and it has changed our sex lives for the better! | |
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Joined: 2/22/2008
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| Internet Porn
Posted: 3/1/2008 2:32:34 PM | NO reason to get upset... The more he learns the better for me...
lol.. and wise versa... | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 2:35:03 PM | | you really think he's learning how to pleas you better? | |
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Joined: 2/22/2008
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| Internet Porn
Posted: 3/1/2008 2:35:48 PM | | yes... he is seeing new things and perhaps will be more open to utilize them in our relationship... | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 2:38:54 PM | | ok I guess I can buy that. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 5:03:53 PM | I watch porn on occasion,but I never watch it online.
I'd be afraid of my computer getting a virus.
I don't care if a partner wants to watch porn,as long as he is wanting to watch
it with me. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 5:50:03 PM | | plucas, Internet porn ...and what preceded this venue, filled an unwanted void for me. That has been nicely filled by a woman who's also the best of friends living at a distance from me. Can't seem to get enough of her and I watch too much porn in lieu? Only what's mostly not worth my time, and I'm the wiser for not wasting that ...or not reciprocating in kind for her genuinely loving me. If she's expecting me to have quite the collection of porn to share, I'm afraid that she'll be disappointed. Otherwise, I don't expect to do so. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 6:01:44 PM | lol i would say i do the same but hey there is no surprise there....right it's cause i'm a guy. Here's an interesting side note...in my first year in a coed dorm we once had a popcorn and porn sessions and yes both girls and boys were participating | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 6:15:17 PM | | My girlfriend watches a lot of internet porn while I don't care for it. She says she's seen all of mine and likes something new once in a while. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 6:42:53 PM | | Personally I'm really against porn. I've never searched it on the net, or looked at it ever really. If my bf was looking at it, okay we'll say REGULARLY I'd be quite offended. It's been my own experience that men who are quite involved with porn are not faithful and sure as hell don't think about you when he's doing things with you. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 7:54:43 PM |
Personally I'm really against porn. I've never searched it on the net, or looked at it ever really. If my bf was looking at it, okay we'll say REGULARLY I'd be quite offended. It's been my own experience that men who are quite involved with porn are not faithful and sure as hell don't think about you when he's doing things with you.
Just a quick thought, if your really against porn you may want to think about changing one of your profile pics. One of them is actually considered soft porn. | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 7:56:33 PM | | I enjoy porn, but I believe it's best only in small doses. Watch too much of it and you'll become desensitized | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 8:23:57 PM | Isn't that what the Internet was invented for??
I look at porn, not on a daily basis though... nothing wrong with it.. just avoid all the real 'iffy' sites like the scat and any of those type...eewwww
So long as my S/O wasn't 'replacing' me with porn, then I wouldn't be too fussed about him watching it.. so long as it doesn't become a daily thing (or soon as I leave the room) | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 9:38:58 PM | | ARE YOU LOOKING FOR A **** BUDDY? | |
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Posted: 3/1/2008 9:49:19 PM | | Do I look at porn online? Not really. I don't find porn arousing and most of the time it's boring. I'd rather watch something else or look at art photos. But hey, that's me. If my boy's looking at porn? Awesome. I totally encourage him to do whatever he feels he needs to do. And if he finds something he likes in porn, I'm more than happy to try it with him if he's not too embarrassed to share. Sexuality is fun and I don't believe in limiting my boy's play time (unless it strikes some tender past problems but that's not to be discussed). Overly excessive? If it was a lot of time spent looking and not as much time spent touching, I'd question whether or not I was satisfying him. | |
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